Well i have a post on here about my ex, but after readin through various posts on here i am startin to realise things about myeself.
here are the things.
1. i am obbsessed with my looks, i would say very attractive, and have to look nice all the time, but i never be-little my friends or act like i love myself, i just take pride in my apearence.
2. I am obbsessed with my age, i am 25, and have just broken up wiv girl that was total in love with me, but left because she felt that because i always got chatted up by attractive girls i would leave her for one, anuways the age thing makes me think that i am soon goin to put women off because of how old i am.
3. I have a son, and believe it or not som girls can be really nasty when it comes to this, i told one girl after month of txtn and stuff that i had son and she cried for nearly an hour, so my son can be off puttin
4. I just read a post on here that this guy thought looks would get him everythin... im sorta like what he was like, i can get them but then go all shy.
5. I have to ask everyone everything, my ex's say they feel like they are havin a realtionship wiv me my ex, my mates, my sis and my mam... i ask them if i look nice b4 i go out, if i should go out wiv somone, everythin!
6. I am always worried about what ppl think of my girlfriends, because my mates always expect me to have stunnin lass, i always get nervous when i introduce them, my first love who i have kid to wasnt that pretty and i was never bothered what ppl thought about her, untill we split up
7. When im with a girl, i analyse everything! i always try and catch them out and wonder why they say stuff in certain ways, always go on about there past, i get really insecure about peoples past and never let it drop, think this is because my main love who i had kid wiv had been wiv double figures the time she was 15, and i had only been wiv 1.. i ask stupid questions about stuff all the time.
8. I feel i cant do stuff like watchin films and playin games, because i should be out there gettin new girlfriend.
I know some of u will tell me i shouldnt be postin on here and i just need to get a grip, but im amazed at how much some of you's know and have helped me in some ways already, so i thought instead of goin to see shrink, maybe some of you's could help me out.
thanks alot.
here are the things.
1. i am obbsessed with my looks, i would say very attractive, and have to look nice all the time, but i never be-little my friends or act like i love myself, i just take pride in my apearence.
2. I am obbsessed with my age, i am 25, and have just broken up wiv girl that was total in love with me, but left because she felt that because i always got chatted up by attractive girls i would leave her for one, anuways the age thing makes me think that i am soon goin to put women off because of how old i am.
3. I have a son, and believe it or not som girls can be really nasty when it comes to this, i told one girl after month of txtn and stuff that i had son and she cried for nearly an hour, so my son can be off puttin
4. I just read a post on here that this guy thought looks would get him everythin... im sorta like what he was like, i can get them but then go all shy.
5. I have to ask everyone everything, my ex's say they feel like they are havin a realtionship wiv me my ex, my mates, my sis and my mam... i ask them if i look nice b4 i go out, if i should go out wiv somone, everythin!
6. I am always worried about what ppl think of my girlfriends, because my mates always expect me to have stunnin lass, i always get nervous when i introduce them, my first love who i have kid to wasnt that pretty and i was never bothered what ppl thought about her, untill we split up
7. When im with a girl, i analyse everything! i always try and catch them out and wonder why they say stuff in certain ways, always go on about there past, i get really insecure about peoples past and never let it drop, think this is because my main love who i had kid wiv had been wiv double figures the time she was 15, and i had only been wiv 1.. i ask stupid questions about stuff all the time.
8. I feel i cant do stuff like watchin films and playin games, because i should be out there gettin new girlfriend.
I know some of u will tell me i shouldnt be postin on here and i just need to get a grip, but im amazed at how much some of you's know and have helped me in some ways already, so i thought instead of goin to see shrink, maybe some of you's could help me out.
thanks alot.
