Seeking Arrangements -SA

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
5,575
Reaction score
8,427
I recently tried a month on SA. I didn't set my expectations too high, I mainly just wanted to see what it was about and gain more insight into how females think/operate. For those that don't know what SA is, its basically a sugar baby/daddy dating site where most girls are looking for some sort of payment.

-I immediately noticed that these girls were far more talkative, initiated conversations, and added you as a favorite way more than what I experience on traditional sites like pof/match.

-There was a very high number of attractive girls of all ages.

-Some girls had wish lists of things they wanted like designer purses, fake boobs, new car, etc. Many wanted their college paid for.

-The turn over rate is huge. Each week there was a new crop.

-Some girls expected to get paid just to show up for an initial meet up.

-Some girls I talked to had 3-4year successful arrangements. Very few tho.

-You pretty much have 2 groups of females. Group A ranges from 18-25 and wants help paying bills, college, etc. These girls are pretty broke, lack focus and direction. They all say they go to college which I take with a grain of salt.
Group B is the professionals, they fit into the 26-34 age group. They've made stupid decisions in life, made bad choices regarding men and are damaged goods. They carry a lot of anger towards men. Some of these are prostitutes, but most are highly experienced with men. Lots of ex models in this group.

-The funniest story I heard was a girl was out in California and needed to find another sugar daddy to buy her a plane ticket to get back home. Her ex-sugar daddy kicked her out and she was out of money. How f'ing stupid these girls are.

-There are many girls on SA as well as traditional dating sites.

-I think the only person having any real succe$$ is the site owner!

-These girls all claim its not prostitution and they are seeking a mutually beneficial relationship. Yet they still want a guy they are attracted to, is charming, acts a certain way, and gives them a few tingles. So if both people are attracted to each other, both like sex, yet the guy is shelling out money then how is it mutually beneficial? Seems like the guy is getting the short end of the deal. A sugar baby might as well be a gold digger.

-A girl I used to date and still keep in touch with is on this site. She's been broke her whole life, never stays at a job very long. Very sweet girl, and a lot of fun but has a little crazy in her. She thought she would find a good guy to latch on to and grow old with. She said after a while she felt like she was property. Didn't like being old how to look and what to do, yet liked the money she was getting.

-If you wanted to scam these girls and hit/run I think it would be pretty easy. Their guard is definitely down.

In the end, I just couldn't stomach this concept. Lots of fake/shallow/dishonest women all wanting something for nothing. At least prostitutes are honest about their intentions! Some of these SA girls don't even want to have sechs!

I finally put on my profile that I wasn't going to pay for a girls attention/time but I wasn't a cheap ass either. Only had one girl interested in seeing me after that! They all want money at the end of the day. Most are willing to hide/lie about their true feelings in order to get it.
 
Last edited:

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,050
Reaction score
5,684
Age
48
Location
midwestern cow field 40
My dad is a truck driver. Before Internet dating, and still existing somewhat today, was the practice of a woman getting on a CB radio to ask for a trucker to come pick her up. Any female voice can get a ride across the country right away. Truckers aren't exactly rich, but they can make about a grand a week with nothing to spend it on, and they tend to be lonely as hell. A lot of the women are meth wh0res, and a lot of truckers are into meth. One trucker threw his meth wh0re out the window of his truck as he passed by my small town on the Interstate. That murder never had a chance of being solved.
 
Top