seeing a girl in class I'm dating?

[Striking Tan]

I introduced myself to this girl last Monday asking, "hey, do you wanna study?" She said wednesday would be good.

Then we didnt see each other Wednesday, since she got lost and I got there 10 mins late (whoops).

So friday we exchange numbers and she tells me she's free M, W, and R because of work. So I tell her we should study Monday, but then tell her "lets get coffee" and shes like "huh" and I'm like "yeah lets get coffee after 5, just text me after work" and shes like "okay" and i had anxiety for the next hour lol. She didnt txt back the same day but sunday she goes like "Hey would you be interested in grabbing some coffee sometime tomorrow?"

Fast forward, I kissed her 20 mins into the coffee date. We were already close so I just moved my face an inch away from hers face to face so she wasnt completely surprised. She giggled and I kissed her. Overall, and in the end we kissed a few more times, didnt make out though. I left her smiling. But it looks like we will have a second date, at the skating rink (she told me she likes skating)

QUESTION: I have class with her MWF. How do I behave with her in class? What about when class ends? Before it begins?

 

[gravityeyelids]

It depends how big the class is and who you already know. If it's a big lecture hall with liek 150 kids in it then you wanna play it cool and not sit next to her every class. Make other friends in the class, and surprise her when you do sit next to her by only sitting by her like once a week.

If it's a small class (like 20), then you're probably best being friendly, social, and flirty. It's better if you have another friend in the class (not necessarily a lady) that you can sit by sometimes. Unless she's shy, she'll likely talk to other people as well.

In terms of behavior....play it cool when you sit next to her. Dont ignore her, but dont pester her every 5 minutes and try to entertain her. You can goof off a bit with her though, make jokes, whatever. One thing i liked to do is reach, grab her notebook and draw tic-tac-toe and start playing. make sure you win haha. So you can tease her about it. Be cool like fonzie. If she likes you and you dont pay too much attention to her (in a good way), she'll probably start trying to get your attention or flirt with you.

DONT ASSUME YOU GUYS ARE DATING. Play it cooool brotha. Be social, but dont be needy by showing her how much you want her.

This is probably obvious, but ESCALATE. You kissed her on the first date, she knows you mean business. Push for the lay quickly and you'll get it. Kino, makeout, flirting. Im talking about outside of class obv. But touch her a bit in class, playfully.

In terms of arrival....couple options. I like to show up JUST as class starts or maybe even a lil bit late....make her wonder if you're coming. If you're there before her, dont be looking around seeing if shes gonna come sit by you. Talk to the people around you or whatever.

After class....i like the ghost move. Dont make a big goodbye. Slip out stealthily and suddenly like you have somewhere important to be and make her wonder, or just give her a passing goodbye. Dont hang around (in general). It's okay once in a while to strike up a convo after. You could even turn it into an insta-date by bouncing to a coffee shop or whatever.

 

[Striking Tan]

So what I'm doing is entering class a minute late as usual (so my behavior hasn't changed despite the fact we kissed) and I'll ignore her all class (as usual) and then at the end of class, pack my things, head for my way out and if we make eye contact then we talk and I show her this cool spot at the 4th floor where theres an entrance to the roof and we kiss/makeout at the roof. Also during the elevator trip we make out. Sound like a good idea, or do I wait for the makeout by asking her out again for saturday to the skate rink? I DON'T WANT TO FEEL LIKE WE'RE MOVING TOO FAST.

 

[Striking Tan]

she's not my type. but i'm going to stop looking right now, start focusing on my goals which i have defined as of RIGHT....meow (oh yeah and I'm going to start reading the bible)