Seeing a girl I met on POF again a year later will she remember me lol

[Reyaj]

Yep lol... About a year I go I met this sexy HR chick off POF but she ended up flaking after our 1 date. A year later I have a chance to meet up with her again... My hope is that she doesn't remember me though haha.

Now let me give you all some background here on how it went down.

As I said above a year ago I met this girl off POF.... We talked on the phone a few times and I ended up meeting her for drinks at a bar/restaurant near where she lived.... Things went well believe it or not... we ended up having about 4 drinks each... She leaned into me and sat close, I started doing kino and she was into it.... At the end of the night I was a bit drunk and I'd assume she was too... I held her hand and walked to her car... She said she would give me a ride back to my car since I parked far away... She did and I went in for the kiss and we started kissing. She didn't invite me back to her place or anything though... As I opened the door to leave I went in for another kiss and we did.

Anyway on the ride back home for me there was an accident so I texted her saying that and she responded back quick saying something like oh no I hope it clears up soon or whatever... So anyway I'm not sure if I texted her the next day, but I think did the day after just saying how's your day going or some other bs she normally responded to but there was no response.... I think I called a day or so later or texted and absolutely nothing.......

So one thing she told me was that she was engaged to be married at one point and lived with her ex, but she caught him cheating on her and she broke up her engagement..... So being the prick that I am... I was pissed she flaked on me after showing high IL (or so I thought...) So I texted her a few weeks later with "You know playing with guy's feelings doesn't make you much better than what your ex did do to you" or some crap like that... She didn't respond..... I maybe sent a few texts over the next month or so but no response...

Ok so whatever she was flaked off.... But one thing about this girl is that she is definitely a Serial Online dater.... She was always online and one of my friends ended up chatting with her and getting her number (he didn't do anything though, as I put him up to it to begin with)... So bottom line is she has met a lot of guys off this thing and continues too

So anyway I got this new phone number the other day and I randomly texted her acting like I didn't know who she was... and we got to talking on the phone and had a nice convo... She sent me pics of her and I sent her one back of me (not the clearest pic of me but she liked it)... Anyway she is texting me everyday and wants to meet up with me for drinks...

So I'm wondering if she will remember me or not when I meet up with her? Its been a year and this girl has gone on a lot dates... I think I want to do this just for the hell of it lol.... I am going to act like I don't remember her though and try to hold that frame in the event she does remember something... I find her attractive and I wouldn't mind tapping it if I had the opportunity... The funny thing is I thought I did pretty well on our date last year so I think the only improvement I could make is maybe kino her more and try to make out with her before the end of the date in the bar or if I don't get the opportunity make out with her harder at the end and start feeling her up etc...

Do you all think she will remember me and I'll be out before I start, or do I have a chance here? Again I'm just doing this for fun lol

 

[Albatross953]

Walk away dude, this ends badly whether she flakes again....or thinks you're a stalker. No win situation. You should have walked away when she didn't answer and never looked back.

Go ghost now.

 

[FCB]

You have no chance, but chance to do what? This can never go well for you. If she remembers you (which seems most likely) you are now in the category of a stalker. If she doesn't remember you then even with the terrible texts you sent then you weren't interesting enough to leave an impression.

 

[DiegoSantori]

You better show up in a Lambo, if you want a positive outcome from this date.

I agree with Albatross953: Go ghost now.

 

[Reyaj]

Guys I hear what you are all saying... but I mean like I said this girl is a POF serial dater and I met her a year ago.... I am just going to try and hold the frame that I don't remember her.. I don't think its stalking as I havent even seen or talked to her in a year.

I was supposed to meet her last week but I didn't feel like it so I canceled, she wants to meet either tonight or tomorrow... I may just want to do this for amusement to see how it goes...

 

[Reyaj]

I was supposed to see her Saturday but I canceled on her last minute... she is still texting me and wants to meet soon. I think I still am going to go through with this... I'm almost just curious to see if she remembers me.. I am hoping not though... I'm going to do my best to hold the frame that I don't remember her. The thing is we spent about 4 hours together the night we met and ended up kissing at the end... Hopefully that doesn't mean **** for a woman's memory, especially an online dating ho.

 

[Reyaj]

Ok I just sent her a picture of me which is a little clearer... I figure I'll let this be the test.. if she recognizes my picture she definitely won't meet me... If she still responds then I am going for it... At least this way I know where I stand and won't waste my time. I sent her a text about 30 mins ago and she usually responds quick... No response back yet lol

 

[thatfeel]

dude, let me just tell you from experience, girls on pof are so fvcking retarded. there's this one girl i've talked to multiple times, who, i swear has her head on ass backwards to all hell. i haven't gone out with her because she lives further than i want to drive but i kid you not that i've at least "introduced" myself to her at least 6 times, and, gotten tit pics from her every time. and my profile pics never change. and my phone number never changes. so take that for what it's worth. she actually got pissed at me once, and, when i texted her, she tried the whole bs "this is her cousin, i have her number now" line, i was like uh huh. lol. so i just went with it, waited it out a couple months, re-initiated contact on pof, got her number, texted her number again(which btw was the same fvcking number ive had for her all this time), and wow, what do you know? she's sending me all new tit pics again.

 

[Reyaj]

dude, let me just tell you from experience, girls on pof are so fvcking retarded. there's this one girl i've talked to multiple times, who, i swear has her head on ass backwards to all hell. i haven't gone out with her because she lives further than i want to drive but i kid you not that i've at least "introduced" myself to her at least 6 times, and, gotten tit pics from her every time. and my profile pics never change. and my phone number never changes. so take that for what it's worth. she actually got pissed at me once, and, when i texted her, she tried the whole bs "this is her cousin, i have her number now" line, i was like uh huh. lol. so i just went with it, waited it out a couple months, re-initiated contact on pof, got her number, texted her number again(which btw was the same fvcking number ive had for her all this time), and wow, what do you know? she's sending me all new tit pics again.

Totally agree and I've done the same. The only difference here is I actually met this girl and spent about 4 hours and kiss closed her... She didn't respond after I sent my clearer pic... but it might be because the pic was bad lol.. I sent a follow up late asking her something and she didn't answer... I'll send one final text tomorrow, if she doesn't answer then I'll assume she remembered... Its better anyway so at least I don't waste my time meeting up with her.

Stay tuned.

 

[Reyaj]

Yep no response from her at all after I sent that pic... I sent a follow up text yesterday around 5pm "wow was the pic that bad lol" and nothing...

I'm honestly 50/50 that she either remembered me or she just thought I looked unattractive in the picture. Either way at least I saved my time. I'm doing way better than her anyway.