OrlandoDaHash
Don Juan
Hi Guys!
I’m having a situation here myself and would be very grateful for all kind of input you may have.
I’ve known this girl for a couple of years now and although we don’t see much of each other we’re always happy and thrilled when we finally meet to catch up. We talk and laugh, cuddle and make fun of each other, etc. We even had each others photos stuck on the wall! I know, I know… it’s sooo cute it sucks.
Anyway, somewhere in the last year I’ve fallen madly in love with this girl. Since she was in another relationship at that time, I’ve let it go and didn’t make any moves. When her relationship ended I’ve decided to make a move and invited her to a date in London (we live in another part of Europe), since I’ve had some business to take care there anyway. At first she was enthusiastic and decided to go, but just a day before the flight she called me to say she changed her mind and that her ex-boyfriend would not approve. I was pissed at this and didn’t bother to dig into what her ex-boyfriend has to do with anything.
After that we didn’t really see each other much or talked about the London thing. I just kept my distance and stayed low. Lately we started to see each other more again in a group of mutual friends, playing kino again, having fun. I believe I’ve waited enough and things have cooled enough to invite her on a night out again, without our friends, so I can tune-up the intensity of my kino in private setting.
Now, I’ve checked the posts on this forum like Escaping The Friend Zone, which is great, but I would still like to hear some input from all of you. What do you think of this situation? How to continue with the seduction game? How would you play it out?
Thanks guys!
I’m having a situation here myself and would be very grateful for all kind of input you may have.
I’ve known this girl for a couple of years now and although we don’t see much of each other we’re always happy and thrilled when we finally meet to catch up. We talk and laugh, cuddle and make fun of each other, etc. We even had each others photos stuck on the wall! I know, I know… it’s sooo cute it sucks.
Anyway, somewhere in the last year I’ve fallen madly in love with this girl. Since she was in another relationship at that time, I’ve let it go and didn’t make any moves. When her relationship ended I’ve decided to make a move and invited her to a date in London (we live in another part of Europe), since I’ve had some business to take care there anyway. At first she was enthusiastic and decided to go, but just a day before the flight she called me to say she changed her mind and that her ex-boyfriend would not approve. I was pissed at this and didn’t bother to dig into what her ex-boyfriend has to do with anything.
After that we didn’t really see each other much or talked about the London thing. I just kept my distance and stayed low. Lately we started to see each other more again in a group of mutual friends, playing kino again, having fun. I believe I’ve waited enough and things have cooled enough to invite her on a night out again, without our friends, so I can tune-up the intensity of my kino in private setting.
Now, I’ve checked the posts on this forum like Escaping The Friend Zone, which is great, but I would still like to hear some input from all of you. What do you think of this situation? How to continue with the seduction game? How would you play it out?
Thanks guys!