Razor Sharp
Senior Don Juan
I urge you to watch this video and really soak it up, especially the bit at 2:45
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xz5ULcBJoqw
This philosophy applies perfectly to seduction.
I started the game out thinking it's all about dazzling her with my "moves" and creating this image of myself as some smooth-talking player, but that was never as effective as BEING that image. No fronts, no play-acting, just genuine ME to the fullest.
The tricky part is, that this takes WORK and DISCIPLINE. I learned that in order to be honest with women, or the world at large, there comes a point where you must be honest with yourself.
• Am I on the path I want to be on right now?
• Am I in the best physical shape humanly possible?
• Am I being who I want to be, or what others expect?
• Am I truly worthy of having a sexy, intelligent woman who supports me?
Only when you can answer these questions satisfactorily, without flinching or doubt, will you be prepared to use seduction as a means of genuine expression. I've come to see it as one of the many art forms to master in order to lead a balanced, and well-rounded life. And in order to truly be in top form in any art, you must not only have your technique down, there must be some element of your spirit infused - your unique fingerprint, otherwise you are just going through the motions, and people really do pick up on that.
This is what is meant by the tired adage "BE YOURSELF"
Many people use that phrase as an excuse to remain complacent with who they are, failing to realize that the true meaning here is to be yourself to the fullest. Take the essence of everything that you are and distill it to the most powerful concentration possible. Most men are weak like fluorescent lights. Outshine them all! Be the f*cking LASER!
Every day, no matter what I'm doing I put 110% into it. Whether it's training, working, playing or sexing, none of it is mundane to me. All is fresh and new to me because each time I push my own limits farther, adding to my core the type of confidence that cannot be faked or scripted.
I don't care what activities you enjoy, where you come from or where you want to be. Women will swoon over you if you live a full and passionate life, with gusto and from your heart.
This is why, no matter what, you must be real with yourself in order to experience authentic success. Express who you are in everything that you do, and you will attract fortune and beauty beyond anything you've imagined.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xz5ULcBJoqw
The reason why Bruce is a legend and continues to inspire generations is not just because of his fighting skill, but the philosophy behind him. A true warrior in a spiritual, not just physical sense; he really was trying to be the best human being that he could. No apologies, no excuses.To me, ultimately martial art means "honestly expressing yourself", now it is very difficult to do. I mean it is easy for me to put on a show and be c*cky, and be flooded with a c*cky feeling and then feel like, pretty cool and all that. Or I can make all kinds of phoney things you see what I mean, blinded by it or show you some really fancy movement BUT...
To express oneself honestly not lying to oneself and to express myself honestly, now THAT my friend is very hard to do
This philosophy applies perfectly to seduction.
I started the game out thinking it's all about dazzling her with my "moves" and creating this image of myself as some smooth-talking player, but that was never as effective as BEING that image. No fronts, no play-acting, just genuine ME to the fullest.
The tricky part is, that this takes WORK and DISCIPLINE. I learned that in order to be honest with women, or the world at large, there comes a point where you must be honest with yourself.
• Am I on the path I want to be on right now?
• Am I in the best physical shape humanly possible?
• Am I being who I want to be, or what others expect?
• Am I truly worthy of having a sexy, intelligent woman who supports me?
Only when you can answer these questions satisfactorily, without flinching or doubt, will you be prepared to use seduction as a means of genuine expression. I've come to see it as one of the many art forms to master in order to lead a balanced, and well-rounded life. And in order to truly be in top form in any art, you must not only have your technique down, there must be some element of your spirit infused - your unique fingerprint, otherwise you are just going through the motions, and people really do pick up on that.
This is what is meant by the tired adage "BE YOURSELF"
Many people use that phrase as an excuse to remain complacent with who they are, failing to realize that the true meaning here is to be yourself to the fullest. Take the essence of everything that you are and distill it to the most powerful concentration possible. Most men are weak like fluorescent lights. Outshine them all! Be the f*cking LASER!
Every day, no matter what I'm doing I put 110% into it. Whether it's training, working, playing or sexing, none of it is mundane to me. All is fresh and new to me because each time I push my own limits farther, adding to my core the type of confidence that cannot be faked or scripted.
I don't care what activities you enjoy, where you come from or where you want to be. Women will swoon over you if you live a full and passionate life, with gusto and from your heart.
This is why, no matter what, you must be real with yourself in order to experience authentic success. Express who you are in everything that you do, and you will attract fortune and beauty beyond anything you've imagined.