Allow me to preface this controversial subject by stating SEDUCE AT YOUR OWN RISK………..now that the disclaimer is out of the way, let us proceed. The very idea of going after a target that is involved (exclusive dating, married, engaged, etc) sparks interest. Seducing women in this category has a few more added risks and is slightly different than gaming singletons. In an ideal, perfect world the mere hint that a female is off-limits should be our cue to roll off to another target. There are times when a involved person chases and does not volunteer their relationship status, but that’s another article.
WHY-lets face it not all women are available, there are tons of attractive people that are married/exclusive dating. They venture out from time to time(without their partner). It’s a bold step knowing that a person is attached and still have the guts to venture forward. For a select few, they do not even consider a persons relationship status, to them it’s just another temporary target acquisition. Some get excited by the notion of attaining someone that is supposed to be off-limits. It’s the forbidden fruit scenario that triggers the attraction. Uncomplicated, you get the fun without traditional dating strings (unless you or your target develops an obsession).
WARNING-discretion is a must, anytime you advertise something that you really shouldn’t be doing in the first place, you draw attention to the situation. The repercussions vary from the target being turned off/rejected to you getting physically hurt or worse.
BENEFITS-the feeling of accomplishment that you seduced someone that was involved, huge ego boost. Some of the best sex you may encounter evolves with the thrill/risk factor. The thrill of the possibility of being caught, taboo encounter, lust, physical without all the emotional, etc.
DOWNSIDES-being caught, seen by others can lead to physical harm, un-balanced reciprocity leads to hurt feelings and you may close yourself off to dating single people. Jealousy can be triggered and snowball out of control (fights, property damage, restraining order, death, etc).
PLAY BOOK-some claim that people who are married/involved are neglected, un-appreciated, bored, lonely, etc. They need a little adventure and sub-consciously desire validation from being hit on or seduced. Please make note of the following:
1) FIRST CONTACT-few women will embrace the direct approach with open legs, so you might want to use an in-direct approach and tone down the alpha male, caveman tactics. Familiarity may work in your favour. A lot of married/involved people complain about their significant other problems to their friends. You should strive to form an alliance and get them to confide in you. In this case, being a “friend” and a good listener may pay off down the road. Active dis-interest is the school of thought here, allow her to chase you, so play hard to get.
2) WORK-many affairs originate with co-workers, you are there 9 hours a day, 5 days a week, stressful at times, you may eat lunch together, nice break from home life. A suggestion to go for lunch, then progress to drinks after work is where it begins. A lot or people surf the net while at work.
3)DOWNPLAY-downplay the cheating, make it your little secret, don’t get too personable, you want them thinking about the lust not what is waiting for them at home.
4) WHEN-weekends are for kids, family, boyfriends, obligations, weekdays are for fun!!.
5) GETTING IN TOUCH-calling them at home may cause some drama as if they are living with someone it may not go over well. That includes texting, emails, IM’s, un-announced visits, etc
You should ask when is it a good time to call, get their work number, or call and behave like it is a work related call. You can give them your number.
6) DISCRETE-your goal should be to keep it on the down-low, go to places where your odds of running into someone familiar is slim. Forget traditional dating (movies, dinners, shows, beaches, etc).
7) TRAVEL-many people travel for work, some have a girls night out/weekend get-a-way. Hotel lounge is often a good place to start, as are airport bars. It’s all about being away from home and convenience. When opportunity knocks might as well invite them in.
8) KEEP IT SIMPLE-You provide an escape, drama free, a nice break from the norm, excitement. The minute you introduce emotions things begin to go awry.
9) COLD READ-if a person is recently married, happily involved, totally faithful, your efforts are best put to selecting another target. Resistance tends to be fully intact if their relationship is still fresh.
10) SEXUAL COMBATIBILITY-being younger will work to your benefit, if the target is older than you by 10 years or more.
WHY-lets face it not all women are available, there are tons of attractive people that are married/exclusive dating. They venture out from time to time(without their partner). It’s a bold step knowing that a person is attached and still have the guts to venture forward. For a select few, they do not even consider a persons relationship status, to them it’s just another temporary target acquisition. Some get excited by the notion of attaining someone that is supposed to be off-limits. It’s the forbidden fruit scenario that triggers the attraction. Uncomplicated, you get the fun without traditional dating strings (unless you or your target develops an obsession).
WARNING-discretion is a must, anytime you advertise something that you really shouldn’t be doing in the first place, you draw attention to the situation. The repercussions vary from the target being turned off/rejected to you getting physically hurt or worse.
BENEFITS-the feeling of accomplishment that you seduced someone that was involved, huge ego boost. Some of the best sex you may encounter evolves with the thrill/risk factor. The thrill of the possibility of being caught, taboo encounter, lust, physical without all the emotional, etc.
DOWNSIDES-being caught, seen by others can lead to physical harm, un-balanced reciprocity leads to hurt feelings and you may close yourself off to dating single people. Jealousy can be triggered and snowball out of control (fights, property damage, restraining order, death, etc).
PLAY BOOK-some claim that people who are married/involved are neglected, un-appreciated, bored, lonely, etc. They need a little adventure and sub-consciously desire validation from being hit on or seduced. Please make note of the following:
1) FIRST CONTACT-few women will embrace the direct approach with open legs, so you might want to use an in-direct approach and tone down the alpha male, caveman tactics. Familiarity may work in your favour. A lot of married/involved people complain about their significant other problems to their friends. You should strive to form an alliance and get them to confide in you. In this case, being a “friend” and a good listener may pay off down the road. Active dis-interest is the school of thought here, allow her to chase you, so play hard to get.
2) WORK-many affairs originate with co-workers, you are there 9 hours a day, 5 days a week, stressful at times, you may eat lunch together, nice break from home life. A suggestion to go for lunch, then progress to drinks after work is where it begins. A lot or people surf the net while at work.
3)DOWNPLAY-downplay the cheating, make it your little secret, don’t get too personable, you want them thinking about the lust not what is waiting for them at home.
4) WHEN-weekends are for kids, family, boyfriends, obligations, weekdays are for fun!!.
5) GETTING IN TOUCH-calling them at home may cause some drama as if they are living with someone it may not go over well. That includes texting, emails, IM’s, un-announced visits, etc
You should ask when is it a good time to call, get their work number, or call and behave like it is a work related call. You can give them your number.
6) DISCRETE-your goal should be to keep it on the down-low, go to places where your odds of running into someone familiar is slim. Forget traditional dating (movies, dinners, shows, beaches, etc).
7) TRAVEL-many people travel for work, some have a girls night out/weekend get-a-way. Hotel lounge is often a good place to start, as are airport bars. It’s all about being away from home and convenience. When opportunity knocks might as well invite them in.
8) KEEP IT SIMPLE-You provide an escape, drama free, a nice break from the norm, excitement. The minute you introduce emotions things begin to go awry.
9) COLD READ-if a person is recently married, happily involved, totally faithful, your efforts are best put to selecting another target. Resistance tends to be fully intact if their relationship is still fresh.
10) SEXUAL COMBATIBILITY-being younger will work to your benefit, if the target is older than you by 10 years or more.
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