Here's the previous girl from OKC I did on Thursday:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1997310
Last night I banged a new chick, this time from POF (one new lay left to get my 40x40 badge!). 7 face 5 body, mid 30s, divorced. Not exactly a challenge but then again I'm not into challenges.
Here's our POF conversation in its entirety, for what it's worth.
The initial part of this convo took place over the course of a couple of days. Breaks have been omitted except for the five-day break that's meaningful.
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ME: [Generic cut-and-paste saying she looks interesting and asking how the web site is working for her. When I'm super horny I'll send out the max allowed 40 of these per day on POF.]
HER: Ummm...not all that impressed... Sadly
ME: nooo why?
HER: Bunch of creepy-mc-creepsters really...haha
ME: Uh oh, are they all into sex and stuff? I might be one of those.
HER: Lol..... That's not the problem really, I don't know, more like older creepy dudes... I get the occasional perve, but if he's cute, I don't mind so much ;;-)
ME: Well that's good to hear. Wouldn't call myself a PERVE though So you haven't been on any dates at all yet?
HER: Oh I've been on several actually... Just a lot of creepy old dudes emailing me lately......
ME: Glad to hear it. About the dates that is. So what kind of fun can we get ourselves into in [her town]?
HER: Not a whole lot, it's pretty boring really. [Nearby town] is pretty fun though. Has a good night life
ME: Interesting. Well I'll be in [distant city] most of this week, but what kind of availability do you normally have?
HER: I spend a lot of time at work, next two weekends are free through.
ME: All right, we'll do something fun soon.
HER: ;-)
[Five days later]
HER: Back in [my city]?
ME: heck yes, let me know when you have some free time.
HER: Tonight
ME: what did you have in mind?
HER: ****tails and......?? I need some fun in my life.
ME: works for me. Any cute little places to meet there by you?
HER: My apartment....haha. Let me think about that. Here's my number..[her number], I will come up with something..
ME: I don't mind your apartment either. Here's mine: [my number]. Just let me know where and when and I'll see you there.
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Then convo then switched to text messaging. She figured out time and place to have drinks (not her apartment). We met there, had a couple of drinks (I paid, she offered to help), went back to her place and banged it out. stayed over, this morning did the same.
So it's quite clear that this one and the previous one sort of fell into my lap with little work on my part. Sometimes this happens, but it's fairly rare (for me), and especially rare for it to happen twice in 3 days. Unlike the other one, who gave little feedback and expected me to make all the moves, this one was clearly interested and invited me back to her place with no prodding whatsoever. She clearly wanted to get it on.
I think the thing that can be learned is not so much "gaming" here but that you've got to send out zillions of messages on POF and OKC. She could have just as easily banged some other guy.. just so happens my email got in front of her eyes at an opportune time.
This morning I had a tennis first-date with another chick and there was zero chemistry and we won't be seeing each other again. Tennis dates are fun 'cause I enjoy the sport but they never turn into anything more, so I can't say I was surprised.
This is going to sound weird but I'm predicting a fairly early and warm summer in my area. Heat is definitely related to female horniness (from what I've seen) and if chicks are this easy this early in the year then I have a feeling it's going to warm up quickly. I've been noticing a trend where I get laid the quickest and easiest when temps start to rise. Happened last year. Banged 8 chicks and it was the hottest year on record in my area. Kind of a kooky prediction but we'll see if it holds true.
EDIT:
And someone in a previous thread asked why I fish online dating sites rather than do other forms of pickup. The answer is because it's free and easy. I spend a sh*t-ton of time in front of the computer anyway, I don't like bars or clubs, and so why not? No, the women aren't usually as hot as clubs but, I mean... that lay took 10 minutes of emailing total and the cost of a few drinks. If I went into bars and clubs I'd be paying just to be there with no guarantee of anything happening.
Furthermore, I'm short and skinny and pretty nondescript. I don't really have a forceful personality and my dancing is pretty weak. So those forums do not play to my strong suits.
I guess online dating is my niche. If yours is elsewhere (day game, clubs, church, whatever) then more power to you. I don't think there's one best way to get laid for every guy. Just hone your skills for your niche, do the same thing over and over, and if you want you'll be turning out lays like clockwork.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1997310
Last night I banged a new chick, this time from POF (one new lay left to get my 40x40 badge!). 7 face 5 body, mid 30s, divorced. Not exactly a challenge but then again I'm not into challenges.
Here's our POF conversation in its entirety, for what it's worth.
The initial part of this convo took place over the course of a couple of days. Breaks have been omitted except for the five-day break that's meaningful.
--------------------------------------------
ME: [Generic cut-and-paste saying she looks interesting and asking how the web site is working for her. When I'm super horny I'll send out the max allowed 40 of these per day on POF.]
HER: Ummm...not all that impressed... Sadly
ME: nooo why?
HER: Bunch of creepy-mc-creepsters really...haha
ME: Uh oh, are they all into sex and stuff? I might be one of those.
HER: Lol..... That's not the problem really, I don't know, more like older creepy dudes... I get the occasional perve, but if he's cute, I don't mind so much ;;-)
ME: Well that's good to hear. Wouldn't call myself a PERVE though So you haven't been on any dates at all yet?
HER: Oh I've been on several actually... Just a lot of creepy old dudes emailing me lately......
ME: Glad to hear it. About the dates that is. So what kind of fun can we get ourselves into in [her town]?
HER: Not a whole lot, it's pretty boring really. [Nearby town] is pretty fun though. Has a good night life
ME: Interesting. Well I'll be in [distant city] most of this week, but what kind of availability do you normally have?
HER: I spend a lot of time at work, next two weekends are free through.
ME: All right, we'll do something fun soon.
HER: ;-)
[Five days later]
HER: Back in [my city]?
ME: heck yes, let me know when you have some free time.
HER: Tonight
ME: what did you have in mind?
HER: ****tails and......?? I need some fun in my life.
ME: works for me. Any cute little places to meet there by you?
HER: My apartment....haha. Let me think about that. Here's my number..[her number], I will come up with something..
ME: I don't mind your apartment either. Here's mine: [my number]. Just let me know where and when and I'll see you there.
--------------------------------------------
Then convo then switched to text messaging. She figured out time and place to have drinks (not her apartment). We met there, had a couple of drinks (I paid, she offered to help), went back to her place and banged it out. stayed over, this morning did the same.
So it's quite clear that this one and the previous one sort of fell into my lap with little work on my part. Sometimes this happens, but it's fairly rare (for me), and especially rare for it to happen twice in 3 days. Unlike the other one, who gave little feedback and expected me to make all the moves, this one was clearly interested and invited me back to her place with no prodding whatsoever. She clearly wanted to get it on.
I think the thing that can be learned is not so much "gaming" here but that you've got to send out zillions of messages on POF and OKC. She could have just as easily banged some other guy.. just so happens my email got in front of her eyes at an opportune time.
This morning I had a tennis first-date with another chick and there was zero chemistry and we won't be seeing each other again. Tennis dates are fun 'cause I enjoy the sport but they never turn into anything more, so I can't say I was surprised.
This is going to sound weird but I'm predicting a fairly early and warm summer in my area. Heat is definitely related to female horniness (from what I've seen) and if chicks are this easy this early in the year then I have a feeling it's going to warm up quickly. I've been noticing a trend where I get laid the quickest and easiest when temps start to rise. Happened last year. Banged 8 chicks and it was the hottest year on record in my area. Kind of a kooky prediction but we'll see if it holds true.
EDIT:
And someone in a previous thread asked why I fish online dating sites rather than do other forms of pickup. The answer is because it's free and easy. I spend a sh*t-ton of time in front of the computer anyway, I don't like bars or clubs, and so why not? No, the women aren't usually as hot as clubs but, I mean... that lay took 10 minutes of emailing total and the cost of a few drinks. If I went into bars and clubs I'd be paying just to be there with no guarantee of anything happening.
Furthermore, I'm short and skinny and pretty nondescript. I don't really have a forceful personality and my dancing is pretty weak. So those forums do not play to my strong suits.
I guess online dating is my niche. If yours is elsewhere (day game, clubs, church, whatever) then more power to you. I don't think there's one best way to get laid for every guy. Just hone your skills for your niche, do the same thing over and over, and if you want you'll be turning out lays like clockwork.