Hello people. The other day I asked out this girl and got the "I'm tired and staying in tonight, but how bout [specific time during the week]?", so I agree. Then like two hours later in the street I see her with a guy. I wasn't interested in confronting her at the moment so I just did as if I hadn't seen her (she knew she got busted). So I went to eat with her in campus the other day, I was just like "whatever, I'll practice my CF" and the girl was eating it all up. I don't think the guy she was with was a bf or something. Do u think it would be a good idea to try to set something with her later on? Basically I want to see what happens. Laters.
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"I don't think the guy she was with was a bf or something"
well there you go!
who cares?
it's a sign of insecurity if it bothers you
and these guys that are saying next her, she played you,., and it's not even a bf???
sheesh
waste of time or fair game?
well there you go!
who cares?
it's a sign of insecurity if it bothers you
and these guys that are saying next her, she played you,., and it's not even a bf???
sheesh
waste of time or fair game?
Bf or not, that's not the point. The fact is she disrespected him - she lied. She said she was "staying in 2 night cause she's tired" and 2 hours later she's down town with another guy ??
Pfft, so much for getting that sleep she was in dire need of.
thecraftylefty
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SamePedro, what a trip man. Nice way to put it.
On the topic of second chances though, if you ever get a second chance you better pounce on it quicker than Anna Nicole Smith on a doughnut. Seriously.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
On the topic of second chances though, if you ever get a second chance you better pounce on it quicker than Anna Nicole Smith on a doughnut. Seriously.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
Walden
Master Don Juan
Neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeext!
By the way SamePendo I don't like the way you talk about Sexy Malibu like that.
Deep inside her there's a sweet chick just dying to get out.
Maybe if she'd greased her wrist a little better she wouldn't be so stuck.
By the way SamePendo I don't like the way you talk about Sexy Malibu like that.
Deep inside her there's a sweet chick just dying to get out.
Maybe if she'd greased her wrist a little better she wouldn't be so stuck.
Walden
Master Don Juan
Buh dum dum ching!
Thankyou , tip your waiter , have the puttanesca , I'm here all week.
Thankyou , tip your waiter , have the puttanesca , I'm here all week.
Broadband
Don Juan
NEEEEEEEEEXT
The difference between an AFC and DJ is an AFC hangs on to everything he can while a DJ is more then willing to move on.
Be a true DJ!
The difference between an AFC and DJ is an AFC hangs on to everything he can while a DJ is more then willing to move on.
Be a true DJ!
Beige
Don Juan
Imagine that you're that girl. You've got a date for tonight already set up for tonight and that georgous Gonzalo comes in and asks you out. You say:
- I'm sorry, I already have a date tonight, perhaps some other time? - Conveying a message that you're not interested in him
- I'm sorry, (a lie here), perhaps some other time?
Tell me please, which one would you choose and what you think DJs' reaction from this board would be to your answer.
- I'm sorry, I already have a date tonight, perhaps some other time? - Conveying a message that you're not interested in him
- I'm sorry, (a lie here), perhaps some other time?
Tell me please, which one would you choose and what you think DJs' reaction from this board would be to your answer.
Howie Farkes
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So she's (possibly) dating more than 1 guy at the same time. Big focken deal!
It's a bit rich that a that a DJ should be able to
A). date multiple chicks at the same time but never let each of them conclusively know - just leave the possiblilty hanging there - that you have other options going on.
B). yet call any chick who does the same a "Biatch", "Slvt", "wh0re" and NEEEEEEEEEEEXT her.
Anyone heard the term hypocrite?
Suppose the roles were reversed. You've got a date hooked up for tonight but some other girl you're seeing phones to ask you to hang out. You like her too but want to see her some other time instead. What do you do? Tell her "No sorry I'm going on a date with XXXXXXX tonight." or do you blow her off with some BS and reschedule for some other night?
It's a bit rich that a that a DJ should be able to
A). date multiple chicks at the same time but never let each of them conclusively know - just leave the possiblilty hanging there - that you have other options going on.
B). yet call any chick who does the same a "Biatch", "Slvt", "wh0re" and NEEEEEEEEEEEXT her.
Anyone heard the term hypocrite?
Suppose the roles were reversed. You've got a date hooked up for tonight but some other girl you're seeing phones to ask you to hang out. You like her too but want to see her some other time instead. What do you do? Tell her "No sorry I'm going on a date with XXXXXXX tonight." or do you blow her off with some BS and reschedule for some other night?
Broadband
Don Juan
I don't think anyone said wrong of her because she might be dating multiple people.
If she was that's cool. I met a girl that has the same mentality and I absolutely love it. I think we were saying more along the lines that he has the option to Next her if it's causing undue stress. You should always have enough going for you that if something doesn't pan out you can either pass it up or put it on the backburner.
If she was that's cool. I met a girl that has the same mentality and I absolutely love it. I think we were saying more along the lines that he has the option to Next her if it's causing undue stress. You should always have enough going for you that if something doesn't pan out you can either pass it up or put it on the backburner.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
Practice is practice, go for it, Gonzalo.
She made up an excuse because she had another date and didn't want to put you off with announcing it (not that it was necessarily your business.) She probably could've used something more correct like "I have other plans then, but let's get together ..." etc. She wasn't as smooth as she could've been, no problem.
You now know that she knows how to handle her social schedule, though. Pay attention and you'll learn a few things, maybe--if it works well, you'll see how she handles other guys, and if it starts to tank with you, you'll see how she manages it.
I'd say go for it. Have fun. Keep other options open and simmering.
She made up an excuse because she had another date and didn't want to put you off with announcing it (not that it was necessarily your business.) She probably could've used something more correct like "I have other plans then, but let's get together ..." etc. She wasn't as smooth as she could've been, no problem.
You now know that she knows how to handle her social schedule, though. Pay attention and you'll learn a few things, maybe--if it works well, you'll see how she handles other guys, and if it starts to tank with you, you'll see how she manages it.
I'd say go for it. Have fun. Keep other options open and simmering.
