Don'tWannabeAWannabe
Don Juan
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So a last night, I did my third only solo approach ever, but first solo approach that actually resulted in a real conversation (not just an awkward, fumbled intro like the first 2) but it ended terribly. I had approached a girl who was smoking outside a bar. We started talking, went to the bar together, ordered our drinks, went to her table where she and her friend were sitting and chatted for a good 5 minutes. When her friend left the table to go to the bathroom, I went for the number close, but she denied me.
She said, "I'm really flattered, but I'm not interested."
I couldn't believe she had been that blunt. It didn't sink in right away. I just looked at her for 2 or 3 seconds blinking and trying to process what just happened and said "What?"
She then said, "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested."
I became really upset. My first 2 solo approaches over the past couple of weeks hadn't even gotten past basic introductions, but I was having a decent conversation with this girl and thinking I had a chance. I didn't understand why she had to be so blunt in rejecting me. And I snapped.
I said, "Wow, you know, there are a million other things you could have said. You could have said you had a boyfriend, or that you were moving. You could have even said that you're a ****ing lesbian and I would have been cool. But 'I'm not interested'? What the **** is that? Who says that to someone's face?"
And she muttered a few words to explain, but I didn't listen. I just swallowed what was left of my drink and slammed it on her table and walked away.
Seriously, I don't understand why it's so hard just to get a ****ing phone number; to even get past introductions most of the time. I don't understand why trying to meet someone should make you feel angry or sad or otherwise hurt you.
She said, "I'm really flattered, but I'm not interested."
I couldn't believe she had been that blunt. It didn't sink in right away. I just looked at her for 2 or 3 seconds blinking and trying to process what just happened and said "What?"
She then said, "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested."
I became really upset. My first 2 solo approaches over the past couple of weeks hadn't even gotten past basic introductions, but I was having a decent conversation with this girl and thinking I had a chance. I didn't understand why she had to be so blunt in rejecting me. And I snapped.
I said, "Wow, you know, there are a million other things you could have said. You could have said you had a boyfriend, or that you were moving. You could have even said that you're a ****ing lesbian and I would have been cool. But 'I'm not interested'? What the **** is that? Who says that to someone's face?"
And she muttered a few words to explain, but I didn't listen. I just swallowed what was left of my drink and slammed it on her table and walked away.
Seriously, I don't understand why it's so hard just to get a ****ing phone number; to even get past introductions most of the time. I don't understand why trying to meet someone should make you feel angry or sad or otherwise hurt you.
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