On November, 2006, I went on Adultfriendfinder, under a silver membership (mailed a money order), and went on adult-lavalife.
I put a profile up stating I was a 30 year old virgin and had a mission statement to get laid within 30 days. The blog was used there to chronical my day to day activities.
The Chronicals of Adultfriendfinder and lavalife can be found in this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=110996&highlight=adult
All I can say is that after relentless effort and the sheer desire to get even with a oneitis that plagued me badly during that period, I've managed these following results:
1) Lavalife - Muslim girl was also testing her boundaries on the internet.
but she ultimately 'couldn't do it' and felt I'd feel crappy along with her if we did it. She was also a virgin. 28 years old.
2) AFF -- A swingers felt sorry for me when I wrote on my blog about this Muslim girl rejecting me because she wanted a relationship and was willing to do me because my expiry date on AFF was on her birthday and she connected to me. (Not pursued -- frooze because she was married -- just got stunned cold).
3) AFF -- A fat girl I meet earlier in the year was prepared to do me. She was into some funny stuff involving blood in her ALT profile and that gave me the jitters with her. She sent an email to me to follow up, however, I frooze and couldn't reply back to her email.
4) AFF -- Another woman sent me her phone number, but I couldn't call. I emailed her. We would set up some meeting or something because she liked the way I expressed myself. However, I didn't pursue all the way by email or call her. She was the only friend I had listed on my page.
5) AFF -- A bi-sexual woman wanted to do me when I asked for her help. This was the one I felt mostly connected with. It was November 29, 2006. This was aborted when I told my dad about it. She said I was cute when she saw my picture and wanted to meet me.
The month was over at that time and never went on since. I only want to use on a special occasion. That year my heart was broken by my oneitis. That meritied it's use. Like an emergiency alarm, I don't want to resort to certain things unless the situation warrents it. (Great idea for a future sympathy profile -- but I didn't mentoin anything about the heart-break, or some other sad story -- was straight to issue of virginity -- think most people didn't believe me thought).
I believe I was lucky on AFF because I was very unlucky that year with real girls -- who didn't turn out to be real to me, so I said, what the heck. If I didn't get laid by the end of November -- DUE TO REJECTION -- I was really determined to see a prostitute . I'm glad it ended the way it did. It still shows that I'm not that bad that nobody would even want to pity-fvck me.