saying I love you..

wvpimp00

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What is the sweetest thing you can do if your 17 and have only been dating your best friend who you have strong feelings for 1 week and you want to shwo her she's special without taking her somewhere fancy or expensive because we always do stuff like that, I want somethign low key and small that I can do to show her how I feel inside.. something really sweet, or somethign I could say or even a poem??
 

PiNkMaGGiT

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Do that and you're a dead man. I don't care if you think you "love" her or whatever, don't show it. Play it casual for a bit. Getting all weird on her now (a week in to the relationship no less) will just freak her out/drive her away/make her think she can do better/put her on a pedestal/give her reason to ditch you. Pick one.
 

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Read the DJ Bible. Producing a poem with "I love you" in a one week relationship is the equivalent of chopping your manhood off.
 

El Campeon 56

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Bro I hate to say it but honestly you know you shouldn't even have to ask that question. Doing something in such an explicit manner at the point where you two have only been together for a matter of weeks is just a huge turnoff for the girl. It will not make her more interested in you or happy with what you guys have going. There is no real reason for you to do something heartfelt this soon...save the poem and sappy stuff till after she is telling you she loves you and is crazy about you and you play the laid back funny type with her. Then out of the blue hit her with something that tells the same message and act like it was nothing. And im talking long time down the road here, i wouldn't even consider doing something like that till she is starving for attention in that manner and is doing tons of things for you. That sort of thing means a lot to a chick after she totally is into you. As for now you should just be concerned with making her laugh, being a lot of fun to be with, and showing her times no other guy can offer. That will matter more to her at this point then any poem would, and it will keep her coming back for more everytime. Good luck guy and brush up some on the bible.
 

Jay26

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Someone stop this kid b4 he blows his own feet off! No poems or you're a dead man!!!
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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Mr. Latte

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Hey WalkedonOO...fancy meeting you here. What's up?
 
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