Saying farewell, ever get you nookie?

[big weezy]

I'm going abroad next week for a long while, there is a girl who used to have interest in me but I lost her because I was being too pushy. She has zero interest in me now but I'd like to sleep with her before I leave, we will never see each other again so I'm planning on writing her a farewell letter that might stir up some emotions. Is this too late for that since she has no more interest in me?

It's basically a shot in the dark because I have nothing to lose right now.

 

[seano99]

hi mate, i'm posting in your other thread.

you'll get yes and no answers here. it depends on your mindset and whether fscking her will send you BACKWARDS into AFC land. most often i've read that doing what you are suggesting to do is not a good idea for your mindset. think of how bad you'll feel if she ignored the letter. or even if you succeeded and started feeling for her again, then you left and all you could think about was starting a long distance relationship with her. you almost cant win since you were/are emotionally invested. you need to keep moving forward.

so my advice, dont do it. but not to say i wouldn't do it myself under the right circumstances. you only live once and you have to deal with the consequences..

 

[CarlitosWay]

I'm going abroad next week for a long while, there is a girl who used to have interest in me but I lost her because I was being too pushy. She has zero interest in me now but I'd like to sleep with her before I leave, we will never see each other again so I'm planning on writing her a farewell letter that might stir up some emotions. Is this too late for that since she has no more interest in me?

It's basically a shot in the dark because I have nothing to lose right now.

writing a letter is on some AFC ****....just hit her up one day and be like "lets hang out and have some fun!!!" Then at the end after you have a good time be like "After I leave I'm going to miss having these great times with people over here, especially ones like yourself"

Then stare off in the distance like you're in deep thought.....she'll then wonder and say "where are you going, what are you doing, what's going on " blah blah blah...Then with up most confidence and excitement tell her about your plans, your love for adventure and how exhilarating this voyage is going to be for you.

Then say something like "Don't you just love surprises ? Wondering about the unexpected the huge thrill of taking big risks ?"

Then after all this look into her eyes and lightly brush the back of ear/hair, grab the back of her head and kiss her with all your ****ing passion!! Worse comes to worse you leave with only a kiss or a little rejection/slap hahaa.....but remember my friend you'll leave with no thoughts of what ifs or regrets......one love my friend

 

[tafakna]

It's basically a shot in the dark because I have nothing to lose right now.

Judging by what appears to be your other posts under different names, I don't think there's any way to get into her pants before you leave...

Book this one to experience...

 

[theunflushables]

I'm going abroad next week for a long while, there is a girl who used to have interest in me but I lost her because I was being too pushy. She has zero interest in me now but I'd like to sleep with her before I leave, we will never see each other again so I'm planning on writing her a farewell letter that might stir up some emotions. Is this too late for that since she has no more interest in me?

It's basically a shot in the dark because I have nothing to lose right now.

Like you said, she has zero interest in you. Forget her, the future is more exciting!

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

What's he have to lose?

 

[buffalobill]

I don't know if writing her a letter is a very good idea (I wouldn't do it) but like others are saying, i don't see what you have to lose. Give it a shot, consider it an experiment and a chance to get some experience.

 

[thecurtainfalls]

writing a letter is on some AFC ****....just hit her up one day and be like "lets hang out and have some fun!!!" Then at the end after you have a good time be like "After I leave I'm going to miss having these great times with people over here, especially ones like yourself"

Then stare off in the distance like you're in deep thought.....she'll then wonder and say "where are you going, what are you doing, what's going on " blah blah blah...Then with up most confidence and excitement tell her about your plans, your love for adventure and how exhilarating this voyage is going to be for you.

Then say something like "Don't you just love surprises ? Wondering about the unexpected the huge thrill of taking big risks ?"

Then after all this look into her eyes and lightly brush the back of ear/hair, grab the back of her head and kiss her with all your ****ing passion!! Worse comes to worse you leave with only a kiss or a little rejection/slap hahaa.....but remember my friend you'll leave with no thoughts of what ifs or regrets......one love my friend

Nobody else mentioned this post? This is solid gold advice. +1 rep!!