Saturday's daygaming sargeaton

[Rocky_Wayne]

Tomorrow I will dedicate the whole day to daygaming and then nightgame. I plan to make up for the last 3 days which i havent gotten out because of the rain. I will be writting a field report about it on sunday. Here's my agenda for saturday:

Mission: To become comfortable with being awkward.

Mindset: Acceptance. I will never feel like it. Approaching strangers will always seem awkward in my head, so don't wait for a perfect set or perfect moment.

Goals:
1. Minimize reaction time: If possible, approach within 1 second of spotting a target.
2. Minimize time in between sets.
3. Approach average girls: Open indirect and compliment them on something.
4. Hot girls: Escalate until she leaves, never eject from the set.
5. Nervous/ shy girls: Make them feel more uncomfortable. Escalate, troll, self amuse
6. Dont go for the number, go for the instadate or get blownout.
7. Every 3 hours of game take one hour break.

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Field report coming soon.

 

[Rocky_Wayne]

Ok So here is the FR from today.

Set #1. Asian girl eating sitting on a park bench. I ask her for directions then transition into complimenting her style. The i bounced. I felt so retarted. I should've stayed. But i was so mad at myself that this set helped me wake the **** up for other sets. I approach dozens of sets. Many of them i cant remember. But here are the ones worthy of writting about:

Set #2 Seated HB9. I open by asking her for the nearest coffee shop. She had a good vibe so i give her a compliment on her style. Talked about her background and where shes from. Turns out shes a model. puerto rican/ brazilian. I introduced myself and we shook hands, I held her hand and pulled her to stand up so she can come with me to the coffee shop. As i expected she didnt comply. I sat down and talked a bit . After a while the vibe died down, she wouldnt give me eye contact and i felt like i was talking to a wall, so I bounced. One thing i did right was demanding her to do things that hava a high likelihood of being denied. My goal here is I dont want to come off as a nice guy at any point. I also must work on my convo skills.

Set #3 HB8 from Finaland. Same routine as above except she was already walking. I shake her hand to intro and i start pulling her to come with me for coffee. She denies it also because shes waiting for her friend and then her friends calls her on the phone. We vibed pretty well and i build some attraction, so since she had to go i number closed her. This was a pretty quick number close, lasted 5 minutes even though she spent about 2 on the phone. Not as quick as the one from last week. I texted her and she replied but she hanst replied to my text to hang out. I like the ballsy **** i did here. At the end however i shouldve tried going for the kiss routine (a kiss on each cheek and then tell her to close her eyes and make out), even though theres a good chance she wouldnt have gone for it i shouldve at least tried the routine.

Set #4. Girl sitting at the park with her bike. I sit next to her bike and say hi to her. I realized i shouldve sat on the other side because now im a little far away and her bike is in the middle of both of us, so i cant do any kino. We talked for a bit, she's **** testing me but we do a lot of vibing. I wasnt able to create any attraction and it didnt seem like i would be able to do anything to get myself rejected since her bike was in the middle. Plus it would be difficult to instadate a girl with a bike. so i just bounced. One thing i learned is that if im going to sit with a target, sit in such a way that gives you the ability to do proper game.

It was an ok day in terms of success. I say this because after 4 hours of gaming i went to eat but once i came back to game an hour later i couldnt approach properly because i was feeling in my head. Then once i took another brake it took me very long to start approaching again. I learned that the trick to get myself approaching is just approach the easiest people to approach just so that i can get in that mode of talking to strangers. After talking to one or 2 easy sets im back in the approaching mode.

Of the goals I set for myself today I was able to accomplish most of them but only half way. Tomorrow I will use what i learned today to accomplish them fully.

 

[thunder_god]

Ok So here is the FR from today.

Set #1. Asian girl eating sitting on a park bench. I ask her for directions then transition into complimenting her style. The i bounced. I felt so retarted. I should've stayed. But i was so mad at myself that this set helped me wake the **** up for other sets. I approach dozens of sets. Many of them i cant remember. But here are the ones worthy of writting about:

Set #2 Seated HB9. I open by asking her for the nearest coffee shop. She had a good vibe so i give her a compliment on her style. Talked about her background and where shes from. Turns out shes a model. puerto rican/ brazilian. I introduced myself and we shook hands, I held her hand and pulled her to stand up so she can come with me to the coffee shop. As i expected she didnt comply. I sat down and talked a bit . After a while the vibe died down, she wouldnt give me eye contact and i felt like i was talking to a wall, so I bounced. One thing i did right was demanding her to do things that hava a high likelihood of being denied. My goal here is I dont want to come off as a nice guy at any point. I also must work on my convo skills.

Set #3 HB8 from Finaland. Same routine as above except she was already walking. I shake her hand to intro and i start pulling her to come with me for coffee. She denies it also because shes waiting for her friend and then her friends calls her on the phone. We vibed pretty well and i build some attraction, so since she had to go i number closed her. This was a pretty quick number close, lasted 5 minutes even though she spent about 2 on the phone. Not as quick as the one from last week. I texted her and she replied but she hanst replied to my text to hang out. I like the ballsy **** i did here. At the end however i shouldve tried going for the kiss routine (a kiss on each cheek and then tell her to close her eyes and make out), even though theres a good chance she wouldnt have gone for it i shouldve at least tried the routine.

Set #4. Girl sitting at the park with her bike. I sit next to her bike and say hi to her. I realized i shouldve sat on the other side because now im a little far away and her bike is in the middle of both of us, so i cant do any kino. We talked for a bit, she's **** testing me but we do a lot of vibing. I wasnt able to create any attraction and it didnt seem like i would be able to do anything to get myself rejected since her bike was in the middle. Plus it would be difficult to instadate a girl with a bike. so i just bounced. One thing i learned is that if im going to sit with a target, sit in such a way that gives you the ability to do proper game.

It was an ok day in terms of success. I say this because after 4 hours of gaming i went to eat but once i came back to game an hour later i couldnt approach properly because i was feeling in my head. Then once i took another brake it took me very long to start approaching again. I learned that the trick to get myself approaching is just approach the easiest people to approach just so that i can get in that mode of talking to strangers. After talking to one or 2 easy sets im back in the approaching mode.

Of the goals I set for myself today I was able to accomplish most of them but only half way. Tomorrow I will use what i learned today to accomplish them fully.

Great progress man. Props for having the balls to do cold approaching. I still haven't mustered up the balls yet to do cold approaching. I'm only able to approach hired guns at this point and talk to them, but I still haven't asked for numbers yet because I chicken out. Hopefully I'll be where your at in a few short weeks.

 

[Rocky_Wayne]

Great progress man. Props for having the balls to do cold approaching. I still haven't mustered up the balls yet to do cold approaching. I'm only able to approach hired guns at this point and talk to them, but I still haven't asked for numbers yet because I chicken out. Hopefully I'll be where your at in a few short weeks.

Its not about being mustering up the balls its about being motivated to improve.
I'll tell you what helped me get out there.
A few weeks ago I sat down to reflect on my life. I couldnt understand how there are people who are very successful, not just at pickup, but in other aspects of life. What do they have that I don't? I realized that I'm not as ambitious as they are. Why?
Well I believe I'm not ambitious because, even though I do set goals for myself, I let discomfort stop me from accomplishing those goals. For example, even though I wanted to approach, I would hesitate on a lot of sets and barely approach any, because I thought the situation was too awkward and uncomfortable so i just waited for a better set. But more than 90% of sets are like that, they seem "not right" and are uncomfortable to open. So I realized that, in my head, sets WILL ALWAYS seem awkward and uncomfortable, its just how my mind works. If you can accept this as FACT, then you have 2 options: To face the awkwardness, or quit. Why waste your time waiting for that "perfect set" which may not even hook?

So i decided to go out and take the "awkward action", which is to do the approach.

whenever I'm out in the field, the only thing that goes through my mind is my goal, to take this one awkward action just this one moment. I dont think about what will happen the next minute or if the set will hook, because I'm totally focused on my goal of facing the awkwardness, and thats it. So as you can see its not that I have big balls, its just that i'm too focused on my goal to let my mind wonder about their judgements. If I did let my mind wonder, or even I if start thinking about other things such as getting x amount of numbers today, which is what I used to do and therefore was crippled with AA, I will start feeling anxious and start looking for the "right sets" or the most comfortable sets.