niceguydying
Don Juan
I have made a few posts since I have came here and the last one was about Closing the chapter with Ms. Hard to Get. I actually received a great reply to it and it made me think... Well I laid it out to Ms. Right and she said some Shyt like, " Maybe it is not time for us right now." I see her a$$ everyday at work and it feels funny because she is still trying to somewhat talk to me and I am being cold. Anways.
I was feeling down of course because my Oneitis was no more. This other female friend of mine said she had a friend ten years my senior and I am turning 35 in June. She basically told her friend much good about me and she showed me pictures of her. Bear in mind that her friend did not know what I looked like, but I guess trusted her friend enough.
So we are suppose to meet on "Her turf" Thursday night at 11pm. I get there about 45 minutes early for a few reasons, 1) Get practice "Sarging alone" and 2) To see if I was going to dip because of my friend's choice. Like my name is niceguydying and that is what happened with the other girl I mentioned above after I was not enough challenge. First thing I do when I get to the bar is get mey A game on and walk straight up to the bar a get a beer.
I take my beer and practice sarging alone sitting in the middle of the bar. There was a table of several women beside me and I noticed they kept looking at me and talking. I was feeling ****y and waited until my somewhat of a blind date arrived. During the waiting I heard one of the girls talking at the table and said a name that was damn near close to my date's name. I was thinking, Shyt, that would suck if that was her and I was sitting behind her the whole time. So I grow some balls and walk up to the several women and inquire. Then I feel silly as hell because it wasn't her.. They looked at me when I walked over like, this dude is bold. They all politely say the one I am looking for hasn't arrived. I excuse my self and sit back down. Good move on my part.
Then a few minutes later, they tell me there is who you are looking for. I get my butt up at walk to the other end of the bar and nicely grab her arm and introduce myself. She was a little thicker than I am used to but had a Gorgeous face and other features. This is going decent enough.
We sit down and I could see the attraction. Her Kino was there, eye contact, body positioning and everything. We moved closer as we sat and she would put her arm around me and pull my close to speak. I would of course trade kino with her and she made me feel good with some upfront stuff she said that was sexual in nature. She touched me and it felt great that she was showing such a high IL.
Throughout the night she would get up and Karaoke. I would stand up and she came back, lit her cigarettes for her as she held my held while doing so. One time was she was singing there was cute younger girl over at our table from the the above table I mentioned previously talking to me about my age, she guessed my cologne and was telling me to get my hair cut where she works. When my date came back the younger girl went back to her table after they whispered in each other's ear. My date said, "She called you a ****ing idiot." I said, No she didn't and left it at that. seemed to me that my date was feeling heat from the younger girl and was trying to keep me focused on her.
I didn't do the nice guy crap that just got finished destroying me. She told me that after she scraped away the a$$hole, a nice guy would be there. Sorry this is so long, but It felt GREAT being in demand that night. I danced with several of the ladies from the other table, practically got hit on by a girl young enough to be my date's daughter.
I did feel her interest level was so high, I asked her out again next week. She accepted. She talked sexual and still tried to remain proper. As the night closed she left abruptly, but I figured she was trying to remain a challenge herself. People were telling her that I was a nice looking guy and so was her friend that met us later.
I liked hearing nice compliments after my last week's disaster. I hardly think about the Oneitis now. I just needed to say that sarging alone while it lasted was a great experience for me and I had never done it. My confidence is up and I am hoping I can close the deal next week. Funny thing was, I was expecting to have attraction for my date, but I surely did and it was nice seeing it from her.
I was feeling down of course because my Oneitis was no more. This other female friend of mine said she had a friend ten years my senior and I am turning 35 in June. She basically told her friend much good about me and she showed me pictures of her. Bear in mind that her friend did not know what I looked like, but I guess trusted her friend enough.
So we are suppose to meet on "Her turf" Thursday night at 11pm. I get there about 45 minutes early for a few reasons, 1) Get practice "Sarging alone" and 2) To see if I was going to dip because of my friend's choice. Like my name is niceguydying and that is what happened with the other girl I mentioned above after I was not enough challenge. First thing I do when I get to the bar is get mey A game on and walk straight up to the bar a get a beer.
I take my beer and practice sarging alone sitting in the middle of the bar. There was a table of several women beside me and I noticed they kept looking at me and talking. I was feeling ****y and waited until my somewhat of a blind date arrived. During the waiting I heard one of the girls talking at the table and said a name that was damn near close to my date's name. I was thinking, Shyt, that would suck if that was her and I was sitting behind her the whole time. So I grow some balls and walk up to the several women and inquire. Then I feel silly as hell because it wasn't her.. They looked at me when I walked over like, this dude is bold. They all politely say the one I am looking for hasn't arrived. I excuse my self and sit back down. Good move on my part.
Then a few minutes later, they tell me there is who you are looking for. I get my butt up at walk to the other end of the bar and nicely grab her arm and introduce myself. She was a little thicker than I am used to but had a Gorgeous face and other features. This is going decent enough.
We sit down and I could see the attraction. Her Kino was there, eye contact, body positioning and everything. We moved closer as we sat and she would put her arm around me and pull my close to speak. I would of course trade kino with her and she made me feel good with some upfront stuff she said that was sexual in nature. She touched me and it felt great that she was showing such a high IL.
Throughout the night she would get up and Karaoke. I would stand up and she came back, lit her cigarettes for her as she held my held while doing so. One time was she was singing there was cute younger girl over at our table from the the above table I mentioned previously talking to me about my age, she guessed my cologne and was telling me to get my hair cut where she works. When my date came back the younger girl went back to her table after they whispered in each other's ear. My date said, "She called you a ****ing idiot." I said, No she didn't and left it at that. seemed to me that my date was feeling heat from the younger girl and was trying to keep me focused on her.
I didn't do the nice guy crap that just got finished destroying me. She told me that after she scraped away the a$$hole, a nice guy would be there. Sorry this is so long, but It felt GREAT being in demand that night. I danced with several of the ladies from the other table, practically got hit on by a girl young enough to be my date's daughter.
I did feel her interest level was so high, I asked her out again next week. She accepted. She talked sexual and still tried to remain proper. As the night closed she left abruptly, but I figured she was trying to remain a challenge herself. People were telling her that I was a nice looking guy and so was her friend that met us later.
I liked hearing nice compliments after my last week's disaster. I hardly think about the Oneitis now. I just needed to say that sarging alone while it lasted was a great experience for me and I had never done it. My confidence is up and I am hoping I can close the deal next week. Funny thing was, I was expecting to have attraction for my date, but I surely did and it was nice seeing it from her.