I'm the master in masturbation. I was married to masturbation. Masturbation was my best friend, my parent, my lover, masturbation became everything to me in certain point in my life.
Experience and basic knowldedge of human behavior has granted me with the power to be able to help you, my great friend, in overcoming masturbation. First, I want to explain my personal experience a bit.
As I said before, masturbating became a part of my life. I was depressed, and the only thing that got my energy spike up was masturbating. Again and again. I became more depressed as the day progressed and I kept on masturbating. My eyes hurt, my penis got sore. I'd skip social events, work, I wouldn't even answer the phone or the doorbell, it was time that I couldn't afford te lose, I needed that spike of watching porn.
I created this. This thread as of today, is the 2nd largest thread in sosuave's history. And will soon become the largest ever. It sure gives me a ego boost to have this record, but unfortunately, it's for the wrong reasons. Us guys shouldn't need to resort to masturbation as a sex life equivalent. Maybe you have a gf, and you have to resort to masturbating, because it's all the sex you're getting.
As a qweretyiopas here wisely said, it's a problem if you think it is. You know when masturbation is out of hand. You know it right now. Masturbation is not inherently wrong (allthough some people believe it is, I respect that).
How to NOT masturbate.
It all comes down to just stopping. That simple, just, stop.
Unfortunately, it's not as easy as it sounds. Just as quitting smoking is hard. Masturbation gives you a energy spike, a hormonal release that makes you feel reaaally good.. so does smoking. Fortunately for us, masturbation deals with sexual energy.
What would you say if I could tell you that all that energy that you have, and are using when you masturbate could make you a better man? Would give you a harder, bolder character. Energy to lift weights and run miles. Creativity to make art, and new buissiness projects?
Sexual transmutation.
Let's see it this way, sexual energy is the most powerful source of energy in your being. It has two ways of using itself. One, is to use itself in sexual terms. By masturbating, by making love to the woman you desire. But, it can be channeled. You can channel that energy into creativity, energy, boldness. Imagine all that energy you have been using when you masturbate daily, weekly, maybe even in a hourly basis. Imagine that energy making you a better, stronger, smarter man?
Transform yourself into a man of action.
TERMINATE masturbation TODAY.
Ok, finally, what exactly to do.
1)First of all, sign yourself up here. You compromise yourself to stop masturbating, period. Do not watch porn, do not touch your penis, period. Do not fool yourself into anything else. You stop watching porn and you do not touch your penis unless it is to clean it, PERIOD.
2)Next, plan new things to do in your day. Water the plants, read a magazine, a book. Make your bed everyday. Wash your own clothes.
3)Join a gym. Get into a strict diet, I'd recommend you follow the Anthony Ellis's program.
4)Start new projects, learn new skills. Start to do things that take you longer than a day.
A few ideas: paint your room (the best you can, if you can afford it, get a theme going on with non-expensive stuff), draw a painting, take German classes, take some extra courses at your school, go to the library and learn about history, religions, biographies, medicine. Learn how to sew and repair your jeans, and practice.
Do something that one month from now, you can look back and actually see the difference between one month ago and now. Take those affordable courses in bonzai trees and all that stuff.
5)Make new friends. Even if you allready have friends, make new friends in these places you're going. Do you lack social skills, and don't know how to talk with men? Talk about women. Talk badly about any given new event. And go out with them, it might seem weird to you at first, but just hang out and do stuff, probably bars, maybe go watch a game, whatever. Just something to point out, the aim is to make friends, not to make best friends, just chill and hang out.
6)Do bold things, also do things that sound jerkish to do, like get angry and yell to any random driver that crosses your path, laugh out loud, talk loudly, disagree with people (without soundling like a punk kid), don't always talk, even when talked to, just look people into their eyes.
Notice how in no place do I talk about women in the steps? What you are doing here is getting a life. This way, you channel your sexual energy into productive things, like the needed energy to lift your best, look your best, and be your best. Thank me 6 months later, you can do it, and you will do it. You will become a MAN.
Fvck women, yes, fvck em!
Experience and basic knowldedge of human behavior has granted me with the power to be able to help you, my great friend, in overcoming masturbation. First, I want to explain my personal experience a bit.
As I said before, masturbating became a part of my life. I was depressed, and the only thing that got my energy spike up was masturbating. Again and again. I became more depressed as the day progressed and I kept on masturbating. My eyes hurt, my penis got sore. I'd skip social events, work, I wouldn't even answer the phone or the doorbell, it was time that I couldn't afford te lose, I needed that spike of watching porn.
I created this. This thread as of today, is the 2nd largest thread in sosuave's history. And will soon become the largest ever. It sure gives me a ego boost to have this record, but unfortunately, it's for the wrong reasons. Us guys shouldn't need to resort to masturbation as a sex life equivalent. Maybe you have a gf, and you have to resort to masturbating, because it's all the sex you're getting.
As a qweretyiopas here wisely said, it's a problem if you think it is. You know when masturbation is out of hand. You know it right now. Masturbation is not inherently wrong (allthough some people believe it is, I respect that).
How to NOT masturbate.
It all comes down to just stopping. That simple, just, stop.
Unfortunately, it's not as easy as it sounds. Just as quitting smoking is hard. Masturbation gives you a energy spike, a hormonal release that makes you feel reaaally good.. so does smoking. Fortunately for us, masturbation deals with sexual energy.
What would you say if I could tell you that all that energy that you have, and are using when you masturbate could make you a better man? Would give you a harder, bolder character. Energy to lift weights and run miles. Creativity to make art, and new buissiness projects?
Sexual transmutation.
Let's see it this way, sexual energy is the most powerful source of energy in your being. It has two ways of using itself. One, is to use itself in sexual terms. By masturbating, by making love to the woman you desire. But, it can be channeled. You can channel that energy into creativity, energy, boldness. Imagine all that energy you have been using when you masturbate daily, weekly, maybe even in a hourly basis. Imagine that energy making you a better, stronger, smarter man?
Transform yourself into a man of action.
TERMINATE masturbation TODAY.
Ok, finally, what exactly to do.
1)First of all, sign yourself up here. You compromise yourself to stop masturbating, period. Do not watch porn, do not touch your penis, period. Do not fool yourself into anything else. You stop watching porn and you do not touch your penis unless it is to clean it, PERIOD.
2)Next, plan new things to do in your day. Water the plants, read a magazine, a book. Make your bed everyday. Wash your own clothes.
3)Join a gym. Get into a strict diet, I'd recommend you follow the Anthony Ellis's program.
4)Start new projects, learn new skills. Start to do things that take you longer than a day.
A few ideas: paint your room (the best you can, if you can afford it, get a theme going on with non-expensive stuff), draw a painting, take German classes, take some extra courses at your school, go to the library and learn about history, religions, biographies, medicine. Learn how to sew and repair your jeans, and practice.
Do something that one month from now, you can look back and actually see the difference between one month ago and now. Take those affordable courses in bonzai trees and all that stuff.
5)Make new friends. Even if you allready have friends, make new friends in these places you're going. Do you lack social skills, and don't know how to talk with men? Talk about women. Talk badly about any given new event. And go out with them, it might seem weird to you at first, but just hang out and do stuff, probably bars, maybe go watch a game, whatever. Just something to point out, the aim is to make friends, not to make best friends, just chill and hang out.
6)Do bold things, also do things that sound jerkish to do, like get angry and yell to any random driver that crosses your path, laugh out loud, talk loudly, disagree with people (without soundling like a punk kid), don't always talk, even when talked to, just look people into their eyes.
Notice how in no place do I talk about women in the steps? What you are doing here is getting a life. This way, you channel your sexual energy into productive things, like the needed energy to lift your best, look your best, and be your best. Thank me 6 months later, you can do it, and you will do it. You will become a MAN.
Fvck women, yes, fvck em!
