Sup gents,
In my past AFC life, I would have approached this situation differently. Taking a different approach in my 30s, I'm working toward developing a strong DJ skillset and mentality, especially toward women who aren't qualified.
I've been dating this chick for a few weeks. We work for different employers, but on the same floor, so we still have interaction but it's not exactly "dating at work".
I recently cancelled our most recent date because I was sick with the flu. She was like "Ok, there's always next week."
She came into work today, dressed hotter than usual. I was in a meeting and didn't acknowledge her presence immediately. When I got around to it, she was behind closed doors with another guy...not conducting business, but OBVIOUSLY going out of her way to provoke some kind of reaction on my part. i.e. they talked for 2 hours, laughing, you name it. I ignored it, then turned around out of my desk to get a drink, and caught her staring at me.
The only reaction I was ready to give was cold withdrawal and a general attitude of dismissal. I held off, wanting to hear what the MM's have to say. I guess women still pull this crap in their 30s as well, and probably until they're old and unattractive/powerless.
Personally, I have no time for shi*t tests anymore and my tolerance for women who play such games is nil. I've recently gotten away from a relationship with a BPD nut, so I'm acutely aware of this kind of crap.
So what's next? Ignore and play it cool? Next? Her behavior pissed me off, no doubt, and I'd like to just blow her off without telling her why.
She also never calls or texts unless she's called or is texted first. She doesn't respond to "not calling" like most women do. I've also caught her giggling about one of her exes she has "eating out of her hand" whom she refers to as a "Disneyland mess with a huge c*ck".
Gents?
In my past AFC life, I would have approached this situation differently. Taking a different approach in my 30s, I'm working toward developing a strong DJ skillset and mentality, especially toward women who aren't qualified.
I've been dating this chick for a few weeks. We work for different employers, but on the same floor, so we still have interaction but it's not exactly "dating at work".
I recently cancelled our most recent date because I was sick with the flu. She was like "Ok, there's always next week."
She came into work today, dressed hotter than usual. I was in a meeting and didn't acknowledge her presence immediately. When I got around to it, she was behind closed doors with another guy...not conducting business, but OBVIOUSLY going out of her way to provoke some kind of reaction on my part. i.e. they talked for 2 hours, laughing, you name it. I ignored it, then turned around out of my desk to get a drink, and caught her staring at me.
The only reaction I was ready to give was cold withdrawal and a general attitude of dismissal. I held off, wanting to hear what the MM's have to say. I guess women still pull this crap in their 30s as well, and probably until they're old and unattractive/powerless.
Personally, I have no time for shi*t tests anymore and my tolerance for women who play such games is nil. I've recently gotten away from a relationship with a BPD nut, so I'm acutely aware of this kind of crap.
So what's next? Ignore and play it cool? Next? Her behavior pissed me off, no doubt, and I'd like to just blow her off without telling her why.
She also never calls or texts unless she's called or is texted first. She doesn't respond to "not calling" like most women do. I've also caught her giggling about one of her exes she has "eating out of her hand" whom she refers to as a "Disneyland mess with a huge c*ck".
Gents?
