Said she wanted to be f*ck buddies

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
 

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Definitely not. She's clearly stated her intentions to you, you can accept this and have her as your fb or move on if you're just looking for a relationship.
This is what girls are always trying to do, pin down the guy (who just wants to fvck around) into a relationship which usually results in them being hurt or at the very least pissed off for losing so much time trying to get with someone who simply isn't interested. Don't put yourself into that role.
Personally I'd see this as a blessing. You have a plate who is seemingly willing to be just that for you. Just make sure you wrap up as you have no idea how many other dudes she is banging.
This girl is not relationship material anyway, she made that clear.
 

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She a slvt. Would you like fries with your syphilis?
 

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After her statement to you, only bedroom dates, dinner, or a movie at Home for her. Don't be the rebound guy or catch feelings. She's not serious about anything but sex right now, and you should have the same attitude also. Bone her well and maybe she hangs around a while…
 
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Fvck her, have fun with it and be on the lookout for more chicks you're interested in because the fvck buddy thing never lasts more than a month or two.
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
it means you just netflix n chill from now on, you cannot possibly have won any harder than you did with this chick

but be wary of the fact that there's a 50% chance that you'll never ever date her and your FWB thing will go until you get sick of each other or one of you finds a steady bf/gf

and there's a 50% chance that 6 months down the line she'll say no more sex until we become official
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
LMAO...

Chick: "I want to fvck your brains out"
OP: "How bout dinner and a movie..."

Lmao...and then guys wonder why they can't get laid...this chick came out and literally TOLD YOU SHE WANTS TO FVCK and you still want to take her out on a date...SMFH
 

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Even Wikipedia has a page on fbuddy do's and dont's. Research it since it's your 1st go round.
Don't be a püssy about it, if you have rules then stick to them and talk to her about it.

No courting crap or dinner crap, no fvking cuddling! The majority of the time you will be just b*nging her out.
 

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This is one of the raunchiest lines I ever heard. And I've got 200 stripper's phone numbers, and 70% of strippers are hookers. Beware.
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
No. You just smash.
 

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This is one of the raunchiest lines I ever heard. And I've got 200 stripper's phone numbers, and 70% of strippers are hookers. Beware.
hahahaha...RTF is definitely bordering on suspected troll...
 

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Ignore guys on here who say she's a walking STD. Smash her raw if that's your cup of tea. And don't spend money on dates.!
 

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Oh women these days.... tell you after a couple dates they got out of a relationship and basically are just looking for some ****. Personally if she said she was in that long term of a situation thrn I'd guess she's clean, just wrap it up.
1. Invite her over once to twice a week. 2.Preferably 8pm or later.
3. Movie nights at home or a quick movie at theater
4. Don't text too much. Let her initiate. If you're giving her good D, she'll be back a lot. Just don't blow it by being needy and texting every god damn day. She's a **** buddy, not a GF ATM.
5. If you think she's a good catch after all your bedroom talk, keep banging her good and let her feelings grow from there.
6. If she does want to be a casual date eventually, play it aloof and let her initiate that convo. Just stick to drinks and pool, movie, or a night in.
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
Have you ever had a FWB?
 

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I met a chick I've met for drinks twice after work. She messaged me at 5pm asking if I could meet her for a drink on my way home. Just 1 she said lol.

4 beers, a shot and splitting a frozen margarita on steroids (she had 3 glasses of wine...which is a bottle) she tells me that she just wants someone mature who can pleasure her and dominate her when she needs it. She is tired of the BOB (battery operated bf). I look her right in the eyes and whispered in her ear "you just want to fvck me."

I tell her that I'm cool with it as she doesn't catch feelings. She invites me over at 10pm tonight.

Do the math. I'll be there at 10:15 lol. Texts me pics of her in lingere just a few minutes ago. I tell her that she is wearing too much, but I'll take care of that when I get there.

Fvck buddies are great, but they expire. Enjoy it while it lasts.
 
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