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I consider spinning plates to be early dates with two chicks at once. No idea how the bloody hell anyone manages more than two AND going further than early days with them too.

Any more than 2 girls at a time and it starts to feel like a second job. My stress levels go up and I end up dropping ALL of them and just spending my weekend gymming and sleeping lol, much more relaxing.

Plus I start getting guilt. Feels sh*tty sneaking about on dates with multiple girls, I'd rather just finish early with the ones that are least promising.
 

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I consider spinning plates to be early dates with two chicks at once. No idea how the bloody hell anyone manages more than two AND going further than early days with them too.

Any more than 2 girls at a time and it starts to feel like a second job. My stress levels go up and I end up dropping ALL of them and just spending my weekend gymming and sleeping lol, much more relaxing.

Plus I start getting guilt. Feels sh*tty sneaking about on dates with multiple girls, I'd rather just finish early with the ones that are least promising.
Yall mofos need some better watches to help manage that time better. ;)
 

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I like banging hoes as much as the next man... but spinning 12 plates would mean cutting back on some gym time, in order to fit them all in..

I choose the gym over vagina.. anytime.. I'll happily stick to just 2 or 3 plates... Thanks
I don't think he spends a lot of time managing them. They are all trying to get at him. Out of the kindness of his heart he may check on one every several weeks. I bet they do all the chasing.
 

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I’ve had trouble in my day even juggling 2, let alone more. I have done 4 at once, which was entirely unmanageable.

I can’t keep my stories straight and start losing track of whom I’ve told what to.
At 4 plus the stories start running together and I start hearing "I never said that......who else have you been talking to?" Lol.

2 is ok, 3 is great and 4 plus is too much work in terms of actively seeing and fvcking them. As far as just keeping the lines of communication with women open I can handle much more than that. 10 is a solid number so you have plenty of plate options on the bench.

Less attention that each one get......as long as they get some.....they will fight harder for more. Especially if you're super cool with them and have fvcked them. Just being scarce will do the job. Having several plates will naturally take care of the scarcity problem (actually lack of being scarce) most people have on this forum.
 

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I don't think he spends a lot of time managing them. They are all trying to get at him. Out of the kindness of his heart he may check on one every several weeks. I bet they do all the chasing.
Roflmao!
 

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Yall mofos need some better watches to help manage that time better. ;)
I have to agree with this. Harems, which I define as women who are "on call," can be managed with as little as a few texts every few weeks or months, if that, and that is only when they initiate.

Even your inner circle of 2-4, a few texts every few days is more than enough, and can be done while on the treadmill.

The most time invested falls in scheduling new first dates.

As for the modus operandi:
  • See each girl in the inner circle once every two weeks on Sat night, Sun night;
  • See each girl in the outer circle once every few months.
  • Double- and triple headers for new dates every Friday night;
  • Friends and family Saturday and Sunday day hours;
  • Monday - Thursday: All Business
Simple.
 
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3 is my perfect amount for ‘true’ inner circle spinning; seeing each other more regularly. And like guru said, the rest can orbit and get in touch over the course of weeks or months, while they spin in the background. Just have to always keep things amicable and chill, then you’ll never lose a plate, really.

Doing the first and second encounters are the most exhausting, I have found. Requires a decent amount of effort due to their fickleness, randomness, flakes, and a fair amount of uncertainty. However, once you get to know that individuals vibe, it becomes easier and it sails with ease.
Starting from ground zero can be annoying. But isn’t that such as life? Momentum is everything.

I’ve been on 6 dates in the last 7 days. I’m exhausted. 1 more tonight.

On the original post: Anymore than 3 plates on the regular and seeing them often would be too much for me. I have too many other things going on. Having sex and chasing women is fun, although not when that’s all a person does. But to each their own. I have two right now and I’m happy. Other random dates in the horizon and chatting through texts with unknowns.

Conclusion: 2-3 on the regular and then random encounters when I go out with friends which could turn in to more. That’s nice. That’s groovy
 
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What defines a plate, exactly?

At what point in the interaction with her does she become a plate?

some guys describe dating girls and they are plates, which makes sense, but then some talk about some 'plate" they are texting but haven't met yet in person.
 

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What defines a plate, exactly?

At what point in the interaction with her does she become a plate?

some guys describe dating girls and they are plates, which makes sense, but then some talk about some 'plate" they are texting but haven't met yet in person.
I consider a plate a woman I have fvcked at least once, am likely to fvck again, but am not in an exclusive relationship with. She may think we are "dating to get more serious down the road". I may think that too, or I also may just see her as FWB. Or she may just be using me as a d|ck toy. :D Either way, I'm fvcking her and she's not my GF so she's a plate.
 

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What defines a plate, exactly?

At what point in the interaction with her does she become a plate?

some guys describe dating girls and they are plates, which makes sense, but then some talk about some 'plate" they are texting but haven't met yet in person.
A plate is someone you fvck on a regular basis, like a girlfriend but just below and not quite there.

Those random women or "sometimes" women r not plates.

Those women that is in the past but once in a blue moon gets a pity fvck is not a plate.

Those orbiters that gets a pity fvck r also not plates.

Sounds harsh but it's not.
 
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A plate is someone you fvck on a regular basis, like a girlfriend but just below and not quite there.

Those random women or "sometimes" women r not plates.

Those women that is in the past but once in a blue moon gets a pity fvck is not a plate.

Those orbiters that gets a pity fvck r also not plates.

Sounds harsh but it's not.
No that doesn't sound harsh, it is what it is lol.


I consider a plate a woman I have fvcked at least once, am likely to fvck again, but am not in an exclusive relationship with. She may think we are "dating to get more serious down the road". I may think that too, or I also may just see her as FWB. Or she may just be using me as a d|ck toy. :D Either way, I'm fvcking her and she's not my GF so she's a plate.
Yeah that's what I was assuming it meant. Like an a maybe/maybe not potential girlfriend, have fun but no promises. That makes sense.

Thanks both of you for clarifying :)
 

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No that doesn't sound harsh, it is what it is lol.




Yeah that's what I was assuming it meant. Like an a maybe/maybe not potential girlfriend, have fun but no promises. That makes sense.

Thanks both of you for clarifying :)
AJ, girls r already practising having "orbiters" by the time they r in kindergartens.

By 12 most hv already accumulated enough skills to twirl boys in the palm of their hands.

With all those pity fvcks or plates that women do, most r already masters by the time they've in their early 20's.

I know this and I know you know this.

You're trying to confirm something that you already know.

Bad girl. Now hush. I'll find something suitable to punish you later.
 

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Reflecting on personal experience here.

I’m relatively new to red pill;) it’s a steep learning curve. However to those who are new, don’t give up. It’s a bulb that switches on when you least suspect it and then every interaction just feels easy.

I had 2 to 3 plates before, and slowly over weeks continued to push it up until it’s gotten to a point that I just don’t have time to see all these girls. So why spin them? Because it’s game and keeps your skills sharp. You want abundance mindset, now you have it.

Spin on fellas, I promise once you hit 10 plates you honestly don’t give a F**k anymore and the game just seems natural.
This is common sense but, most guys suffer from low testosterone. The first semi decent woman, cucks be swearing away half their **** and become mgtow when she leaves.

Monogamy is fantasy. It's make believe. It's what society pedals you to keep order. It's the promo for slot gonna sloot and single moms. Poor attempt to mitigate trashed Smv.

Spin plates single or not. Not in the mood? Some other girl is. Best yet, new girls turning 18/19/20/21 every day.
 

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A plate is someone you fvck on a regular basis, like a girlfriend but just below and not quite there.

Those random women or "sometimes" women r not plates.

Those women that is in the past but once in a blue moon gets a pity fvck is not a plate.

Those orbiters that gets a pity fvck r also not plates.

Sounds harsh but it's not.
I disagree, "like a girlfriend but just below" - you're gonna have a hard time spinning more than 2 of these. Even 2 will be difficult, therefore a plate must be lower than nearly a GF.

What's the actual definition someone clarify.

I thought it was women you bang, and have access to bang, whether that be weekly or monthly, you're still spinning them in the background, dating, seeing them, just not exclusively.

IMO a plate is NOT simply a girl whose number you have, NOT a girl you have been on a couple dates with, but a sexual (or nearly) partner. This is why I said I have 4, and not 9. I have 9 girls I can make one phone call to and bang this weekend.

Thoughts?
 

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The definition of plates is very subjective from man to man. My definition is as follows:

A plate is a woman whom you are in communication with and whom you KNOW is down to hang out and smash if given the appropriate settings and escalation. You guys are talking about mini-LTRs and hence that's why you cannot spin more than 3-4 of them. Plates are not mini-LTRs, plates are guaranteed dates which can occur when you want them to. All of the 12 women I talk with are in semi-regular contact with me via text messaging. Any given day, I can arrange any one of them to meet me for drinks and I know I will likely be able to smash.

That is a Plate. And if that is what you have, it's not that hard to spin 10+ of them.
 

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I disagree, "like a girlfriend but just below" - you're gonna have a hard time spinning more than 2 of these. Even 2 will be difficult, therefore a plate must be lower than nearly a GF.

What's the actual definition someone clarify.

I thought it was women you bang, and have access to bang, whether that be weekly or monthly, you're still spinning them in the background, dating, seeing them, just not exclusively.

IMO a plate is NOT simply a girl whose number you have, NOT a girl you have been on a couple dates with, but a sexual (or nearly) partner. This is why I said I have 4, and not 9. I have 9 girls I can make one phone call to and bang this weekend.

Thoughts?
If you can call them up to bang, I don't really see any difference in those women and your definition of "plates". Like Guru mentioned before, every man has his inner circle of preferred plates. They may be more frequent than the others but that doesn't mean your outer circle are not plates. If they are on good terms with you and you can set up a date at any given time to smash them, they are plates. That's how I look at it anyways.

So, from that perspective, you're spinning 9 plates. Congrats
 

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From your definition I have about 20 plates, 10 I've banged and can circulate, 10 I haven't banged but could get to my house to bang on a whim.

Stay slaying brother.
 

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From your definition I have about 20 plates, 10 I've banged and can circulate, 10 I haven't banged but could get to my house to bang on a whim.

Stay slaying brother.
R u the one who posted abt dating a tranny? Or was it someone else?
 

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The definition of plates is very subjective from man to man. My definition is as follows:

A plate is a woman whom you are in communication with and whom you KNOW is down to hang out and smash if given the appropriate settings and escalation. You guys are talking about mini-LTRs and hence that's why you cannot spin more than 3-4 of them. Plates are not mini-LTRs, plates are guaranteed dates which can occur when you want them to. All of the 12 women I talk with are in semi-regular contact with me via text messaging. Any given day, I can arrange any one of them to meet me for drinks and I know I will likely be able to smash.

That is a Plate. And if that is what you have, it's not that hard to spin 10+ of them.
I've been fvcking since I was 15-16 and been fvcking regularly in different cities in different countries.

And I thought I was good.

But you guys r way better, a call to a semi-regular on any given day would make them spread their legs after drinks.

I roll with plenty of motherfvckers and have yet to meet a man capable of that.

More power to you !
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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