Mr Perfect
Don Juan
While kicking game to woman, constantly repeat her name, it's like music to their ears. For example "So where are you from, Heather?" instead of "Where are you from?".
Never appear to be intimidated by a woman, even if you are. Beautiful women are used to men being intimidated by them and ONLY find the men who aren't to be attractive.
Never talk negatively about your life or your job. Though our motives may be different, women are ultimately searching for a companion, and why would she want to share her life with someone that is not satified with their own. Never talk negatively about an ex girlfriend either, which is a very common mistake.
When asked what you plan to do with your life, or what you are currently doing to improve yourself, always show great ambition. Women are extremely attracted to ambitious men, because when you explain your high goals and plans for yourself, she will be thinking "Maybe this guy will be rich someday".
Ever wonder why you never leave a club with a woman you've just met? Women at clubs tend to be 100% more attracted to the men on the dance floor, even if they don't dance well or are less attractive than the men sitting/standing around. Learn to dance!
Never look at the ground or at your shoes while talking to a woman. This is a sign of insecurity (which women are turned off by) and they will pick up on this, even if only subconsiously.
Knowledge is power. Always listen to and observe everything, including others conversations. If you observe a woman before you approach, you may notice something she is doing, wearing, or talking about which in-a-way "tells you" what to say when you try to spark up a conversation with her.
This is a no-brainer: Never call the next day. You will appear to be desperate with nothing better to do. You want to project that you are "in demand" and that you are busy (which will make you seem exciting, fun, and mysterious).
Never try to impress her by telling her about what you have or have done, you will come off as bragging, and women hate that. Actions speak much louder than words.
Never bring up your ex-girlfriend(s) unless they ask you. It is usually a bad topic of conversation (especially for a woman you've just met) and you should try to avoid it as much as possible. If however, you are stuck and must speak about your ex, say something nice about her/them and quickly change the subject.
Make as many women friends as possible, especially unattractive ones. They always have hot friends and if you don't already know, a woman's opinion of you will be greatly effected by what their friends say. Make friends with her and friends and you'll be in there like swimwear
SMILE. Remember to smile constantly, while your talking, while your observing, while your doing just about anything. I can not stress this rule enough, smiling is the most powerful weapon in any player's arsenel. It let's the women know that your probably a fun guy to be around and someone they would like to know or be involved with. This single rule alone can improve your success with women by over 100%, use it wisely.
When rejected, just smile and don't let it bother you. Who cares what she thinks, you probably won't see her again anyway. Besides, it's her loss, she just missed out on a good time for free with a great guy. Go out looking to get rejected, because once you become comfortable with girls saying no, your fear of rejection will be gone. Remember that the player who gets rejected the most is the player who leaves with the most numbers!
Never say "How about giving me your number?". Always use something like "I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you at?". This always produces much better results because she must aviod saying "no" or she will sound stupid because that will mean there is not a number she can be reached at. It also makes you more original than every other idiot that asks for her number.
Be aware of her mood before approaching. If she is in a bad mood your chances of success are drastically less than if she was in a good mood. Do not try to cheer her up either, you may be able to make her feel slightly better if you are funny, but she will relate you to the bad feelings subconciously, which is not a good thing in the long run.
Always compliment women and they will always feel good about you, but don't overdue it or they will think your just trying to score points (which you are, but you don't want them to know that). Try to sound sincere and give her a unique compliment that most people will overlook.
Never try to become a "friend" when you first meet a girl. You must show her that you are attracted to her and would like to persue a romantic relationship right away, because once your dropped into the "friends" category, it's next to impossible to get out.
While at a club, never attempt to approach women as you would in any other setting. Simply begin to dance and they will come to you, introductions and all that can be done later. This has proved to be the most effective tactic to use when trying to meet women in nightclubs, but in order to utilize it you must first learn to dance! The good news is, you don't have to dance well to attract women, it's not how you dance that attracts them, it's the confidence you display when you get out on the dance floor.
Never talk about how cool, mean, bad, tough, or strong you are. If she thinks that you are full of yourself, you will go home and fool with yourself, catch my drift?
Never talk too much or bring up subjects that will be boring to her, let her initiate the topics of discussion and do most of the talking while you simply relate yourself to her statements by saying things like "me too". This will make the two of you seem to have alot in common and her opinion of you will shoot through the roof.
Quit worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on listening. She will give you leads as to what she would like to talk about, in essence, telling you want to say next. For example: you say "How are you doing?" she says "I got a 50 cent raise today, but then I got a flat tire on my way home from work, so I guess I'm doing alright". She just gave you two leads that hint at what she is willing to talk about, all you've got to do is pick one.
Be careful about what you say about yourself. Never say "I suck at..." or "I can't do that". Always speak positively about yourself. Your supposed to be acting confident remember?
When going to a club or bar in search of women, bring a female friend instead of going with your boys. This will give everyone the idea that you are already taken, and men that are already taking are almost twice as appealing to women than single men. By the time you talk to a girl and she realizes that your actually not taken, the damage is already done, and her hightened opinion of you will remain.
Tell her a joke, because jokes stick in your head. Each time she thinks about the joke she will think about you, and the more she thinks about you the better your chances are.
When deciding whether or not to approach a particular woman, just assume that she is interested in you and act the same way you would with a woman that you know for a fact is interested in you. This will give you confidence and the woman will pick up on this, in turn making her more attracted to you.
Never approach a woman the minute she arrives at the bar, club, or party. If you do, you are doomed for failure. Instead, give her time to get used to the new surroundings while you observe her and wait for the right time to make your approach.
If you get rejected, take a break for a few minutes before approaching another woman, because most women will be insulted if they think that they are your second choice. The scene at a club or bar is constantly changing, so you only need to wait for a short period of time before approaching another woman. Chances are she won't remember you talking to the other girl if you wait awile (if she even noticed in the first place).
Memorize the following tips and everything will be fine...
Now get off your computers and go get em..
Regards,
Mr Perfect.
Never appear to be intimidated by a woman, even if you are. Beautiful women are used to men being intimidated by them and ONLY find the men who aren't to be attractive.
Never talk negatively about your life or your job. Though our motives may be different, women are ultimately searching for a companion, and why would she want to share her life with someone that is not satified with their own. Never talk negatively about an ex girlfriend either, which is a very common mistake.
When asked what you plan to do with your life, or what you are currently doing to improve yourself, always show great ambition. Women are extremely attracted to ambitious men, because when you explain your high goals and plans for yourself, she will be thinking "Maybe this guy will be rich someday".
Ever wonder why you never leave a club with a woman you've just met? Women at clubs tend to be 100% more attracted to the men on the dance floor, even if they don't dance well or are less attractive than the men sitting/standing around. Learn to dance!
Never look at the ground or at your shoes while talking to a woman. This is a sign of insecurity (which women are turned off by) and they will pick up on this, even if only subconsiously.
Knowledge is power. Always listen to and observe everything, including others conversations. If you observe a woman before you approach, you may notice something she is doing, wearing, or talking about which in-a-way "tells you" what to say when you try to spark up a conversation with her.
This is a no-brainer: Never call the next day. You will appear to be desperate with nothing better to do. You want to project that you are "in demand" and that you are busy (which will make you seem exciting, fun, and mysterious).
Never try to impress her by telling her about what you have or have done, you will come off as bragging, and women hate that. Actions speak much louder than words.
Never bring up your ex-girlfriend(s) unless they ask you. It is usually a bad topic of conversation (especially for a woman you've just met) and you should try to avoid it as much as possible. If however, you are stuck and must speak about your ex, say something nice about her/them and quickly change the subject.
Make as many women friends as possible, especially unattractive ones. They always have hot friends and if you don't already know, a woman's opinion of you will be greatly effected by what their friends say. Make friends with her and friends and you'll be in there like swimwear
SMILE. Remember to smile constantly, while your talking, while your observing, while your doing just about anything. I can not stress this rule enough, smiling is the most powerful weapon in any player's arsenel. It let's the women know that your probably a fun guy to be around and someone they would like to know or be involved with. This single rule alone can improve your success with women by over 100%, use it wisely.
When rejected, just smile and don't let it bother you. Who cares what she thinks, you probably won't see her again anyway. Besides, it's her loss, she just missed out on a good time for free with a great guy. Go out looking to get rejected, because once you become comfortable with girls saying no, your fear of rejection will be gone. Remember that the player who gets rejected the most is the player who leaves with the most numbers!
Never say "How about giving me your number?". Always use something like "I'd like to talk to you again, is there a number I can reach you at?". This always produces much better results because she must aviod saying "no" or she will sound stupid because that will mean there is not a number she can be reached at. It also makes you more original than every other idiot that asks for her number.
Be aware of her mood before approaching. If she is in a bad mood your chances of success are drastically less than if she was in a good mood. Do not try to cheer her up either, you may be able to make her feel slightly better if you are funny, but she will relate you to the bad feelings subconciously, which is not a good thing in the long run.
Always compliment women and they will always feel good about you, but don't overdue it or they will think your just trying to score points (which you are, but you don't want them to know that). Try to sound sincere and give her a unique compliment that most people will overlook.
Never try to become a "friend" when you first meet a girl. You must show her that you are attracted to her and would like to persue a romantic relationship right away, because once your dropped into the "friends" category, it's next to impossible to get out.
While at a club, never attempt to approach women as you would in any other setting. Simply begin to dance and they will come to you, introductions and all that can be done later. This has proved to be the most effective tactic to use when trying to meet women in nightclubs, but in order to utilize it you must first learn to dance! The good news is, you don't have to dance well to attract women, it's not how you dance that attracts them, it's the confidence you display when you get out on the dance floor.
Never talk about how cool, mean, bad, tough, or strong you are. If she thinks that you are full of yourself, you will go home and fool with yourself, catch my drift?
Never talk too much or bring up subjects that will be boring to her, let her initiate the topics of discussion and do most of the talking while you simply relate yourself to her statements by saying things like "me too". This will make the two of you seem to have alot in common and her opinion of you will shoot through the roof.
Quit worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on listening. She will give you leads as to what she would like to talk about, in essence, telling you want to say next. For example: you say "How are you doing?" she says "I got a 50 cent raise today, but then I got a flat tire on my way home from work, so I guess I'm doing alright". She just gave you two leads that hint at what she is willing to talk about, all you've got to do is pick one.
Be careful about what you say about yourself. Never say "I suck at..." or "I can't do that". Always speak positively about yourself. Your supposed to be acting confident remember?
When going to a club or bar in search of women, bring a female friend instead of going with your boys. This will give everyone the idea that you are already taken, and men that are already taking are almost twice as appealing to women than single men. By the time you talk to a girl and she realizes that your actually not taken, the damage is already done, and her hightened opinion of you will remain.
Tell her a joke, because jokes stick in your head. Each time she thinks about the joke she will think about you, and the more she thinks about you the better your chances are.
When deciding whether or not to approach a particular woman, just assume that she is interested in you and act the same way you would with a woman that you know for a fact is interested in you. This will give you confidence and the woman will pick up on this, in turn making her more attracted to you.
Never approach a woman the minute she arrives at the bar, club, or party. If you do, you are doomed for failure. Instead, give her time to get used to the new surroundings while you observe her and wait for the right time to make your approach.
If you get rejected, take a break for a few minutes before approaching another woman, because most women will be insulted if they think that they are your second choice. The scene at a club or bar is constantly changing, so you only need to wait for a short period of time before approaching another woman. Chances are she won't remember you talking to the other girl if you wait awile (if she even noticed in the first place).
Memorize the following tips and everything will be fine...
Now get off your computers and go get em..
Regards,
Mr Perfect.
