**DISCLAIMER: I'm posting this because I want to get some tactical feedback, not start some "moral" debate. If you plan on questioning my motives, just leave; it may be too dark for you.**
**DICLAIMER #2: This isn't a post about contraceptives.**
RT I don't know if you want to make a post out of this on your blog, but it's a question I'm sure I'm not the only one asking. To anyone else who has this dilemma, I'd like to hear your thoughts.
This has been bugging me for some time, but it's finally come to my forebrain. I sleep with a fair amount of girls, some regular, some not so much, and always on the lookout for the casual encounter - I just love women. But here's my downfall: I rawdog. Always. The few times I've worn condoms they broke anyway and I don't feel any kind of arousal with it on. I might as well not even do it. I always pull out and watch the girl as she cleans up (if she doesn't take it in another orifice), but we all know that's not 100%. It's funny, but that's actually my biggest fear - knocking a girl up and then having to deal with the inevitable drama. I don't want to have a kid for at least another 10-15 years. I have ambitions and I disdain anything (or anyone) that holds me back from accomplishing what I want. I made the decision to remain single 3 years ago until I'm at least 40 and I have never been happier. I'm truly free. At this point I don't ever see myself getting married (technically) unless it's modified to actually benefit me in some way. I don't see myself in a monogamous relationship until that time either. I've been there, almost proposed twice, had live-in girlfriends, etc. Then I woke up. I do want to start a family on my own terms around 40+, but we're talking about the here and now.
So, hypothetical scenario: you sleep with a girl and somehow one super sperm drip finds its way and knocks her up. How would you handle this? How would you make it clear to her that you don't plan on being in the child's life if she has it in a way that would "guide" her decision. Also, what if you never knew and one day got a "Happy Father's Day" card? I understand some of the legal ramifications (getting a lawyer and paternity testing before talking to anyone or signing anything), but then you're still on the hook for child support if it's yours. I'm looking for more of a Game approach to this, or WWAD (What Would Alpha Do)?
Also, this is a fairly short video but very recent on possible male contraceptive: http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=7416874n
EDIT: vasectomy is out. When a male contraceptive is released I'd want to wait a while to see if any medium term effects are discovered. This isn't about contraception. This is about a hypothetical situation and various solutions.
**DICLAIMER #2: This isn't a post about contraceptives.**
RT I don't know if you want to make a post out of this on your blog, but it's a question I'm sure I'm not the only one asking. To anyone else who has this dilemma, I'd like to hear your thoughts.
This has been bugging me for some time, but it's finally come to my forebrain. I sleep with a fair amount of girls, some regular, some not so much, and always on the lookout for the casual encounter - I just love women. But here's my downfall: I rawdog. Always. The few times I've worn condoms they broke anyway and I don't feel any kind of arousal with it on. I might as well not even do it. I always pull out and watch the girl as she cleans up (if she doesn't take it in another orifice), but we all know that's not 100%. It's funny, but that's actually my biggest fear - knocking a girl up and then having to deal with the inevitable drama. I don't want to have a kid for at least another 10-15 years. I have ambitions and I disdain anything (or anyone) that holds me back from accomplishing what I want. I made the decision to remain single 3 years ago until I'm at least 40 and I have never been happier. I'm truly free. At this point I don't ever see myself getting married (technically) unless it's modified to actually benefit me in some way. I don't see myself in a monogamous relationship until that time either. I've been there, almost proposed twice, had live-in girlfriends, etc. Then I woke up. I do want to start a family on my own terms around 40+, but we're talking about the here and now.
So, hypothetical scenario: you sleep with a girl and somehow one super sperm drip finds its way and knocks her up. How would you handle this? How would you make it clear to her that you don't plan on being in the child's life if she has it in a way that would "guide" her decision. Also, what if you never knew and one day got a "Happy Father's Day" card? I understand some of the legal ramifications (getting a lawyer and paternity testing before talking to anyone or signing anything), but then you're still on the hook for child support if it's yours. I'm looking for more of a Game approach to this, or WWAD (What Would Alpha Do)?
Also, this is a fairly short video but very recent on possible male contraceptive: http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=7416874n
EDIT: vasectomy is out. When a male contraceptive is released I'd want to wait a while to see if any medium term effects are discovered. This isn't about contraception. This is about a hypothetical situation and various solutions.
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