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Don Juan
So theres this girl down the hall that has wanted to get with me since I moved into my building, I knew it the whole time so I used her as a pivot as much as I could.
Most of the time she comes over and hangs out with my roommate as friends would and that never bothered me. I considered myself a friend to her as well. My roommate is sort of a loser and does not have much success with girls or people so since this girl does not have many friends they hang out all the time.
Over the past month I have kissed her a few times, not passionatly just playfully. One time she tried to kiss me and I didnt kiss her back, she just said I was mean, I just said I feel sick and don't really want to kiss now.
So one night she comes over and this girls that I had been fvcking comes over too, we are drinking and about to go out when I decide to give her a peck on the lips behind the girl I had been fvcked twice that week, just a quick playful one.
Then we go out and have a good time, all four of us. I was not feeling too well and ended up going home alone.
The next day I wake up to find a very angry hateful message in my inbox. Basically It said,
"I just wanted to tell you that you are a fvcking *******. If I would have had a beer in my hand when that shlt went down last night it would have been against your face. Do not ever fvcking kiss me behind the back of some girl that you are trying to get with. You think you are smooth but you're not. Believe me, I know shlt when I see shlt. How is your picture not in the dictionary under the word shlt. You are a ****ing idiot. You try to make yourself look like a good guy with your x-gf. You fvcked her over just fvcking admit it. Birds of a feather flock together. FvCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!"
So the hates me a thinks I am a huge a-hole, so what, right? A day or so later she comes over to hang with my roommate and I was like "are you ready to apologize?" and she was like "hahah no, i meant that you are a fvcking *******"
Also when I confronted her about this she said I was making out with her the night before also, which I do not remember, and really did not happen....jealously?
"I am not married to you, I am not dating you, and I am not having sex with you, I may playfully kiss you and dance with you from time to time, but thats it were friends, if you dont want to be friends thats ok too, but calling me an ******* for not good reason? Well if you really think that you need to leave, I don't like having people in my house that think I am an a-hole, so you need to apologize or leave" and she left
I talked it over with my roommate and he was like yah I have been working on her, she just like you and shes just being a bltch, so I thought she would come around.
A day or so later my roommate brings her over again to make a sandwitch in between class and I gave her a big eyed look and said "glad to see your ready to apologize" and she was like "haha you got jokes" and i told her that if she doesnt apologize she is not welcome in my house. So she left again, and my roommate got all pissed about it and was like "why dont you grow up and act like an adult, she didnt cause any harm, she was minding her own business, I live here too"
"I just said if she isnt big enough to apologize I don't want her in my house end of story, I dont need that shlt around here"
Fact of the matter is I don't want her over at my place is she is going to have this anamosity/attitude towards me. My roommate, since he does not get ass or have other friends than me and her, is all upset about it so I would liek to make it better for the both of us.
How do you think I should deal with this?
Most of the time she comes over and hangs out with my roommate as friends would and that never bothered me. I considered myself a friend to her as well. My roommate is sort of a loser and does not have much success with girls or people so since this girl does not have many friends they hang out all the time.
Over the past month I have kissed her a few times, not passionatly just playfully. One time she tried to kiss me and I didnt kiss her back, she just said I was mean, I just said I feel sick and don't really want to kiss now.
So one night she comes over and this girls that I had been fvcking comes over too, we are drinking and about to go out when I decide to give her a peck on the lips behind the girl I had been fvcked twice that week, just a quick playful one.
Then we go out and have a good time, all four of us. I was not feeling too well and ended up going home alone.
The next day I wake up to find a very angry hateful message in my inbox. Basically It said,
"I just wanted to tell you that you are a fvcking *******. If I would have had a beer in my hand when that shlt went down last night it would have been against your face. Do not ever fvcking kiss me behind the back of some girl that you are trying to get with. You think you are smooth but you're not. Believe me, I know shlt when I see shlt. How is your picture not in the dictionary under the word shlt. You are a ****ing idiot. You try to make yourself look like a good guy with your x-gf. You fvcked her over just fvcking admit it. Birds of a feather flock together. FvCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!"
So the hates me a thinks I am a huge a-hole, so what, right? A day or so later she comes over to hang with my roommate and I was like "are you ready to apologize?" and she was like "hahah no, i meant that you are a fvcking *******"
Also when I confronted her about this she said I was making out with her the night before also, which I do not remember, and really did not happen....jealously?
"I am not married to you, I am not dating you, and I am not having sex with you, I may playfully kiss you and dance with you from time to time, but thats it were friends, if you dont want to be friends thats ok too, but calling me an ******* for not good reason? Well if you really think that you need to leave, I don't like having people in my house that think I am an a-hole, so you need to apologize or leave" and she left
I talked it over with my roommate and he was like yah I have been working on her, she just like you and shes just being a bltch, so I thought she would come around.
A day or so later my roommate brings her over again to make a sandwitch in between class and I gave her a big eyed look and said "glad to see your ready to apologize" and she was like "haha you got jokes" and i told her that if she doesnt apologize she is not welcome in my house. So she left again, and my roommate got all pissed about it and was like "why dont you grow up and act like an adult, she didnt cause any harm, she was minding her own business, I live here too"
"I just said if she isnt big enough to apologize I don't want her in my house end of story, I dont need that shlt around here"
Fact of the matter is I don't want her over at my place is she is going to have this anamosity/attitude towards me. My roommate, since he does not get ass or have other friends than me and her, is all upset about it so I would liek to make it better for the both of us.
How do you think I should deal with this?