Rollo...your answer (don't ask a question of me and then lock the thread)

[ValleyDJing]

Someone said somebody looked like Brett Favre...and I made a dig at Brett Favre for being whiny...which everyone knows is true. You tell me how anything I did invited the level of rudeness directed at me.

Lol! Wyld, the whole thing about showing you my pimp hand for dissing favre, I hope you know I was kidding. Although its true, Favre=God, I was just playing about being upset enough to want to smack you.

As for everything else, from what I've gathered, I do agree you take much more than your fair share of s.hit. But I will also say that half the stuff you say (yes I understand you're just trying to be honest), could be toned down or just plain not said.

For example, somebody says he's gotten Brett Favre comparisons. Great, let him leave it at that right? Noooo...you had to go and take a completely uneccessary shot at Favre, implying that the poster might share the same negative characteristics. Now why did you have to go and say that? Who are you helping there?

 

[Last Man Standing]

Favre has the strongest arm of all quarterbacks in the NFL and you are dissing him??? No wonder you have dudes going against you!!!! It is not Favre who is whining it is the media who portrays him as such -- don't be fooled by appearances!!!!

 

[Raikojo17]

Wyldfire. i agree that you have very informatve post and you give great advice, sometimes better than most of the guys on this forum. you shouldnt take any of the abuse you take this forum from dumbassess who have soemthing to prove.

but while i do appreciate your blatant honesty, sometimes you are just unnecessarily honest.
example:

blatant honesty
gf:does this swim suit make me look fat?
bf: yes

unnecessary
gf:does this swim suit make me look fat?
bf: Hell yea girl!! look and them rolls pouring out of that thing. you look like an exploding bakery! damn, please dont where that infront of me again. i think it's disgusting. i dont care if i hurt you baby im just being honest.

see the difference?

 

[DarthJuan]

Your signal to noise ratio is off the charts.
You're like the proverbial bull in a china shop.

You know exactly what you're going to get, doing the things you do. You can't play the naive card after all these years. You know which buttons to push. As a woman, it's all instinctual for you.

Think of this as an intervention - Woman you is hooked on the drama!

I don't think you're a bad person. But you being here does seem like some sort of self-therapy for you.

This place is a sort of reprieve, a monestary of higher learning for men. But the lunatic, estrogen-laced rantings kinda destroys that whole environment.

 

[Wyldfire]

Relax!! A "bastard" is one who is born out of wedlock!!! 90% of the children born in America today are bastards - it is not a slight - it is a mere recognition that the child was born illegitimately - The Unnatural Order of Things!!

I was banned for going against the then Mods and not DJ's on this site - they were erasing my posts because I was against the Homo/Hor Matrix that they wanted to preserve!! I was a threat to their Matrix of control!!!

My previous post was not going against you but merely stating the obvious - a woman on a 99% man's forum is going to draw attention!!

# *******: insulting terms of address for people who are stupid or irritating or ridiculous
# the illegitimate offspring of unmarried parents
# derogatory term for a variation that is not genuine; something irregular or inferior or of dubious origin; "the architecture was a kind of bastard suggesting Gothic but not true Gothic"
# bogus: fraudulent; having a misleading appearance
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

bastard is MOST used to imply something else and we all know it. And what is the justification of calling a young child (from the age of only 3 years old) names on this forum? It is flamebaiting used to incite problems. That behavior is a violation of the rules and if those who call my young child that called anyone else a bastard repeatedly they would be banned.

I'm not talking about banning everyone for disagreeing or debating. I'm talking about those who jump onto threads and aren't even talking about the topic...they only post to attack me. There aren't a lot who do this...but as time goes on more people join in because they see other people getting away with it. It's not just the permitting the personal attacks and flamebaiting...it's also BLAMING me for them locking threads that someone else starts sh*t on. THAT is what I'm mostly pissed about. I would not have to respond to those attacks if the mods would enforce the rules.

 

[Wyldfire]

Wyld, I seriously think you post some GREAT advice and I don't CARE what these guys say. I was soo scared previously to actually step up and say anything because I didn't want to rock the boat. Seriously you post with such insight that I don't understand how these guys can attack you. You know what I think it is...it's probably the fact that many of the guys THINK that they are right all the time and don't WANT to understand things from another perspective and when your RIGHT they attack you because it hurts their ego.

BTW I think you have an amazingly beautiful picture. What is your nationality BTW..?

Thanks. I'm Irish and Native American.

 

[Wyldfire]

Yes you may not actually start the fights, but you say things that provoke them. I used the foreskin example because it was the most recent one that popped into my head. I could tell a lot of people were annoyed by your comments. You see, it's kind of hard to explain. I'm stretching it, but it's sorta like this, I find Rossie O'Donnel to be incredibly annoying and immature yet she has never personally attacked me. Crude example, but it shows that you don't have to attack someone to annoy them or get on their bad side.

Maybe you are right if people have said nasty things to you. I don't pay attention to every thread you are in. But you know what, this is an internet forum, people can say mean things. Go cry me a river. Your obsession with having to stand up for yourself against people you have never met is destroying the very dynamics of this forum and is just plain dumb. GROW UP (sad I have to say this to someone much older than me). Instead of fighting, rise above it.

Last Man Standing actually gave you some good advice in this thread but you completely ignored it. I'm pretty sure you completely ignored everything I said too. That's just too bad.

The only thing you can even cite is the whole foreskin thing. If you had of been paying attention I started off simply saying that I only date circumcised men. I was attacked for simply not liking foreskin. When I got sick of being attacked...THAT is when I became offensively honest.

And if you haven't really paid much attention then you obviously are NOT well enough informed about what is going to to accurately analyze it. That is why you get the kind of response from me that you do when you make posts like you have on here. You simply do NOT have enough knowledge about the situation to criticize me or even those who attack me if you haven't been paying attention. If you did you would not keep bringing up foreskin because this started long before I shared my true feelings on that issue.

 

[Wyldfire]

Lol! Wyld, the whole thing about showing you my pimp hand for dissing favre, I hope you know I was kidding. Although its true, Favre=God, I was just playing about being upset enough to want to smack you.

As for everything else, from what I've gathered, I do agree you take much more than your fair share of s.hit. But I will also say that half the stuff you say (yes I understand you're just trying to be honest), could be toned down or just plain not said.

For example, somebody says he's gotten Brett Favre comparisons. Great, let him leave it at that right? Noooo...you had to go and take a completely uneccessary shot at Favre, implying that the poster might share the same negative characteristics. Now why did you have to go and say that? Who are you helping there?

I explained in the thread why I said what I did about Favre. I like him too...but my comments about him are true. Yes, I knew you were kidding. I didn't imply that Rollo is a whiny biotch...I said it could be a disadvantage to look like Favre because of Favre's reputation. Looking like someone doesn't mean you act like someone...and people on here should be intelligent enough to recognize that without it being spelled out for them.

 

[Wyldfire]

Favre has the strongest arm of all quarterbacks in the NFL and you are dissing him??? No wonder you have dudes going against you!!!! It is not Favre who is whining it is the media who portrays him as such -- don't be fooled by appearances!!!!

I said that Favre is a whiny little biotch because he throws a hissy fit everytime he gets hit. I said I like Mark Brunnell's style better because if he can't find someone open he will run with the ball and try to make sh*t happen. I never said Favre was a bad QB...only that I think he cries too much...and he does.

 

[Wyldfire]

Wyldfire. i agree that you have very informatve post and you give great advice, sometimes better than most of the guys on this forum. you shouldnt take any of the abuse you take this forum from dumbassess who have soemthing to prove.

but while i do appreciate your blatant honesty, sometimes you are just unnecessarily honest.
example:

blatant honesty
gf:does this swim suit make me look fat?
bf: yes

unnecessary
gf:does this swim suit make me look fat?
bf: Hell yea girl!! look and them rolls pouring out of that thing. you look like an exploding bakery! damn, please dont where that infront of me again. i think it's disgusting. i dont care if i hurt you baby im just being honest.

see the difference?

The only time I do that is over foreskin and only because when I simply say "I don't like foreskin" a bunch of people attack me over that. Once I get sick of it I get more honest about my thoughts on the subject.

 

[Wyldfire]

what the fvck is this sh1t

wyldfire... i like your advice, but you need to stop creating drama. stop creating new threads every time someone disrespects you. nobody cares. you are the only person doing this, and it's annoying as hell. if someone disses you on the forum, then just ignore it, don't make a thread b1tching about it.

The thread was to answer a question a Mod asked to me. They locked the thread instead of allowing me the chance to respond. Not only did they do that, but they blamed me for them locking two threads where several people were attacking me and disrupting the threads. If he had not blamed me I would not have started this thread.

I do this occasionally because it has been going on for at least 4 years and I'm quite sick of it. I'm making that known. Yes, it's unlikely anything will be done and the same people will continue to attack me and get away with it, but every now and then it's good to remind the mods that the whole situation could be avoided if only they enforced the rules.

 

[Wyldfire]

Okay...I have to get ready for school. I suspect this will be locked when I return.

 

[WesCottII]

Since I'm intelligent and can hold my own when attacked...those guys who would join in if I ignored it are too afraid of me making them look foolish to say anything when I defend myself.

An Intelligent person doesn't need to tell you they're intelligent.

If it bothers you that much go. Either sh!t, or get off the pot. This could have been said in a PM, you're creating the forum for you to be attacked.

 

[MT3]

Your signal to noise ratio is off the charts.
You're like the proverbial bull in a china shop.

You know exactly what you're going to get, doing the things you do. You can't play the naive card after all these years. You know which buttons to push. As a woman, it's all instinctual for you.

Think of this as an intervention - Woman you is hooked on the drama!

I don't think you're a bad person. But you being here does seem like some sort of self-therapy for you.

This place is a sort of reprieve, a monestary of higher learning for men. But the lunatic, estrogen-laced rantings kinda destroys that whole environment.

Exactly, this is what every learned poster thinks about you Wyldfire.

You're just a troll. You'll re-hash (and mutilate) some Pook advice or quote something out of a magazine. Or, lol, give your womanly opinion on how men should act.
Your views are banal, jejune. And if they where completely harmless (Like if you worded your posts to sound like just your opinion) no-one would mind. But you don't and your crappy advice is made even less tolerable by you slinging around the fact that you're a woman everywhere like it is some credential for giving dating advice.
Spoiler: IT ISN'TYou just don't understand things from a male perspective, plus you can't think objectively about about your own action, which just further proves your incompetence. You're unintelligent and a persistent troll.

The only reason you don't get flamed into nothing is because their are enough AFC's here who think "It's a woman she must know hat she's talking about". When it's like rule number 1 of the DJ bible "Women don't know what they want, Women give crap advice" You just confirm this.

And if this "because I am a woman" How come Penkitten and that other woman don't start so many fights? Why? Because it's nothing to do with you being a woman. It's your stupid attitude no one likes.

Honestly why would anyone want to stay on this website? Apart form the fantastic advice already posted.
The mods pay no attention to whats actually going on, ban users inconsistently, put up with trolls like you wyldfire. The list goes on and on. Not to mention the "We only enforce the rules" excuse they use for being completely incompetent. Just like every other politically correct imbecile.

I didn't care when I got banned.

Mods do the right thing, either ban Wyldfire. Or make a new rule to cover the gaping hole that allows persistent and covert trolls to stay here. You can annoy people all you want so long as you don't let on you are doing it, mods seem to think that is ok.

 

[cant think of a user name]

Would it help if everyone on this forum collectively apologised to you and said:

"YES WYLDFIRE, YOU ARE RIGHT!

WE ARE SO SORRY TO HAVE DOUBTED AND/OR FLAMED YOU!

YOUR ADVICE IS WONDERFUL!

WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

NOW LET US NEVER SPEAK OF THIS AGAIN!" ? :yes:

 

[ThunderMaverick]

You're all full of sh!t. Wyld is one of the wisest people here who has never preached about feminism or how it's good for men to be AFCs. She's always encouraged men to be men. I know it's hard to hear a woman's side, but she has vast amounts of wisdom.

Alot of you don't like her because yes, she IS a woman and it hurts your wittle egos to hear from a woman "you're acting like a *****. man up!"


I can pull up litterally several dozen threads where Wyld was attacked for giving good sound advice.

Imagine if Rollo was on the femalefirst.uk boards and gave the advice he did for 6 years and got attacked almost everytime he posted? It's the EXACT. SAME. THING.

Most of you grow up and stop being threatened by someone who's intelligent and has a vagina.

Alright you know what? That's it! Everytime Wyld gets unjustly attacked I'm jumping to her defense. I'm really sick of all the bias crap that goes on here.

 

[Falcon]

And if you haven't really paid much attention then you obviously are NOT well enough informed about what is going to to accurately analyze it. That is why you get the kind of response from me that you do when you make posts like you have on here. You simply do NOT have enough knowledge about the situation to criticize me or even those who attack me if you haven't been paying attention. If you did you would not keep bringing up foreskin because this started long before I shared my true feelings on that issue.

No, you see... I may not be able to recite all of your 9000+ posts from memory. But I am observant enough to notice when someone has an overinflated ego. I am also observant enough to notice when someone is immature. Lastly, I am observant enough to realize when someone is hurting a forum more than they are helping. I may not be the brightest poster here, but these things are painfully obvious to me.

Wyldfire, one of the core problems you have is your attitude/mindset here. You come here to this forum, acting like a guru, saying things like "I am only here to give advice!" But you see, this is a place of learning, everyone who comes here must learn, including yourself. To me, no one ever reaches 'guru' status. You don't reach a level where all of a sudden you can say, "Hey, I don't have to learn anymore because I know so much. My role now is just to give advice." It doesn't work that way. The thing is you are at a point where you have to learn some lessons, which are presented to you in this very thread. It's obvious there is something in your personality that is making it hard for you to get along with other people. The problem is, your head is so thick you can't accept that. Instead you have to fight it. You are no better than the AFC who fails to accept that he needs to improve himself. If you are not willing to take any steps in improving yourself, you really don't deserve to be posting on this forum.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

The thing is you are at a point where you have to learn some lessons, which are presented to you in this very thread. It's obvious there is something in your personality that is making it hard for you to get along with other people.

What? This does not describe Wyld at all.
You want me to pull up a post where Wyld gets attacked and insulted for no reason, just because she's a female?

 

[Paradox]

what the fvck is this sh1t

wyldfire... i like your advice, but you need to stop creating drama. stop creating new threads every time someone disrespects you. nobody cares. you are the only person doing this, and it's annoying as hell. if someone disses you on the forum, then just ignore it, don't make a thread b1tching about it.

The thread starter should have PM'd the Moderator about this situation/problem.

Thread closed.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

A wise man once told me,..

Never wrestle with a pig. You get muddy and the pig likes it.