Robin Thicke is an AFC...

[PokerStar]

Hey Guys,

Its been a while since I posted on the board. Been trying to not focus on women and focusing on my career and health.

Back to the thread...

I was doing some work and I happen to hear on the TV that Robin Thicke the musician just recently separated from his wife, Paula Patton. Sure thats normal right? A celebrity divorcing another celebrity. Case closed.

This is where it starts getting weird. This guy actually named is next Album Paula, he made an appearance on BET he cried and almost had a meltdown during his live performance, then he says this on a radio station interview:

"I try to keep most of that private, but, I haven't seen her for four months," he said. "If you’ve been together that long, you kinda became adults together instead of being adults and then meeting.

"But maybe a year or two off, we’ll become our own people without each other and then it will be meant to be."

Wow just wow.

This is what you call emotionally invested. And in this case HEAVILY INVESTED.

This guy is good looking, a musician, tons of dough, a successful career and now SINGLE. Man, chicks from all over the globe would love to bang this guy and yet he is going to great lengths to win this one back. And by the look of things, she doesnt want anything to do with him anymore.

The point I'm trying to make is don't invest emotionally because well, you might end up like this guy.

Thats it im out.

 

[zinc4]

He was married...of course he was emotionally invested....embarrassing for him, though to pubically show this...he can bang a lot of the most beautiful women on the planet but has this one woman stuck in his mind because she left him...and it wrecked havock on his ego....

It's all just one big mind game......and it's always because of your ego...control your ego and you become much more alpha and stronger in general...

 

[PokerStar]

ok. I've never been married or in a long term relationship. I can see how you could lose oneself with another person.

but like monty python said "always look on the bright side of life"

it might take a bit of time. but man, the kind of women that will line up for this dude is epic.

Thats if he pulls it together.

And this is where it matters. the ability to get back up.

 

[gravityeyelids]

You're going to believe anything the media puts out?

How can we be sure that this isn't just a giant publicity stunt put on by his publicists to generate album hype and sales?

For all we know he could be sipping Ciroc with a Victoria's Secret model riding his shaft, laughing at how gullible his fans and the general public are.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I always wonder if he tried anything with Miley Cryus last summer.

 

[asa_don]

any guy can turn into an afc of he allows it to happen, feelings and emotions will do that, alphas can lose their frame to just one woman i've seen it happen.

 

[ArcBound]

"Thicke began dating Patton at the age of 16.[94]"

Thicke is 37.

Let that sink through your head. If you say you can walk away from that no emotions hurt, I think you are the biggest liar in the world.

 

[Trump]

"But maybe a year or two off, we’ll become our own people without each other and then it will be meant to be."

Wow just wow.

This is what you call emotionally invested. And in this case HEAVILY INVESTED.

This guy is good looking, a musician, tons of dough, a successful career and now SINGLE. Man, chicks from all over the globe would love to bang this guy and yet he is going to great lengths to win this one back. And by the look of things, she doesnt want anything to do with him anymore.

The point I'm trying to make is don't invest emotionally because well, you might end up like this guy.

I don't know why guys say don't be emotionally invested. I think you should be emotionally invested. The girl has to feel you love her and care for her. Just don't spend any money on her. The emotion from losing your money to a girl is way more intense than a few "I love yous, I miss you" crap.

And who knows about Robin. Maybe at 37 he doesn't want to start all over again. Maybe its a ploy, marketing machine for his album. Maybe he realized the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Maybe he's weak on the inside and really cares for her. But a guy who feels up another blonde in a picture doesn't really want to be married in a loving and committed relationship.

But who knows what is true. It's called the Aura of Legitimacy. :yes:

 

[gravityeyelids]

I don't know why guys say don't be emotionally invested. I think you should be emotionally invested. The girl has to feel you love her and care for her. Just don't spend any money on her. The emotion from losing your money to a girl is way more intense than a few "I love yous, I miss you" crap.

And who knows about Robin. Maybe at 37 he doesn't want to start all over again. Maybe its a ploy, marketing machine for his album.

Das what i'm sayin'''''

know'm saying?!

dayyyammnn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zN8VOsJCJLk

 

[JohnChops]

I personally think most people are brainwashed into thinking that they have to feel depressed and lonely after a divorce or breakup.

Nobody, in my opinion, is going to approve of a man who seems happy and content after "losing" someone.

I felt ELATED after my breakup from a LTR years ago. I knew it was the best decision I ever made, but my family and friends didn't understand or support me in that.

I agree that he could choose to be very happy and enthusiastic about a living a new life with a new future, meeting new women, etc.

Or maybe some people just actually prefer being attached to one person their whole lives.

Thisssssssss all ****ing day! Women can buy into that crap of gaining weight and eating ice cream after a break up but we are ****ing men not pussies we go find new women or go get lost doing what we love in the first place.

Feels good to he single, don't let anyone fool you.

All this ," you need a significant other to be happy" is such a crock it's insane. However you can only understand once you've gone through it. Its pretty hard to read and understand it, gotta get the exp.

 

[JoeMarron]

I don't know why guys say don't be emotionally invested. I think you should be emotionally invested. The girl has to feel you love her and care for her. Just don't spend any money on her. The emotion from losing your money to a girl is way more intense than a few "I love yous, I miss you" crap.

Agreed. And like someone else pointed out there's no way not to be emotionally invested after being with a chick your entire adult life. The key is for a man to be emotionally invested but not letting his emotions control him.

 

[Zarky]

He'll get over it. The first couple of chicks who dumped me made me cry and sh*t too. My first breakup when I was 21 (3 year relp) was f*cking awful. I was an emotional wreck for months.

But after you've been through dozens of breakups -- and when you have MLTRs -- it gets much easier. Not "easy," but easier.