FleetingNarcissus
Don Juan
Well, to start off with...I go to a community college and in this one class of mine (Design) there are about 15 girls who are either average/somewhat cute or really cute. I noticed a few of the more average ones looking at me...but there's this little petite chick (that usually doesn't really turn me on as much) in there and I'd like to talk to her but it's the environment of the class, all those girls and only a few guys and I don't know how to go about approaching her and the others either for that matter. I noticed her in the first day or two of class that when I looked at her and was feeling radiant/confident I caught her eye and we both kind of looked away but as I looked away, I noticed she started messing with her hair and it seems like when girls do that, there's something to it. I also noticed another time like a week ago that when I left and came back, her back is toward the door and she turned around as I was coming in to look at me. Whether she was checking me out because she thought I had left or if she was just looking to be looking I'm not certain but I want to get certain. I just need to figure out how/when to approach her without seeming like I'm chasing her down.
There is another chick I met from that class...and the only reason that happened is because we were both alone in the art class working on our projects on a different day from when class is held. I noticed when I told her that I thought her design project had a "musical quality" to it, she turned toward me and smiled, messing with her hair. And she had a "NAUGHTY GIRL" shirt on that I had to use to my advantage. I told her,"you're not naughty. you're completely innocent and I'm sure you've never even been accused of anything". She smiled and said,"Don't judge a book by its cover". I said I wasn't. She made eye contact quite a bit and smiled but she also looked out into the hall quite a bit too and the signals were really mixed. The next day of class she didn't say anything and I didn't either. The next day we had class she walked by and smile and we said Hi to each other. She's more of an average chick but she is cute. The problem is, today my friend and I were drinking wine at school and I was drunk. The girl walked by us and I decided to walk up and talk to her and I am sure it was a big mistake but oh well. I asked her how the last design class was since I missed it. She was about to go to her drawing class, I asked her if she was drawing anything exciting and she said no. I said something,"Well, maybe you could draw some nudes of yourself". She said,"No, not me"...and I said,"what about some of me?" Then she kind of had that weird reaction as she was about to open the door and I said,"See ya later"....Needless to say, I felt silly.
But it's funny, I wish I could be that confident when not drunk. Another girl that I'd seen around before walked by and I'd seen her with some dude but she had a skirt on and at that point in time I didn't really care if the dude I'd seen her with before was her guy. My friend, some other dude and myself were sitting there and I said in a normal yet somewhat excited voice,"I really like your skirt"...the girl was almost all the way by when I said it and she kind of slowed down, turned around and said,"Thanks" with a confused look and kept walking. Then we were sitting there talking and I noticed this older lady kept looking at me and I said,"Hi" with a really naughty look as I was still pretty wrapped up in my conversation...a moment later she walks up to ask for a cigarette. I asked her, "Oh, is that why you came over here? Do I look like a cigarette smoker to you?"...she said,"No, you're just so good looking." My friend handed her the cigarette and that was it. I was thoroughly wine drunk though and I will be on the look out for that lady again.
But honestly I feel lost. I know I have what it takes to charm women but I'm not confident in applying it. If I'm not in that radiant mood, I feel charmless. I want to seize the opportunity to meet some of these girls and show them the nice and the naughty qualities I have. It's just that in the class, I'm self-conscious because everybody's just sitting there working on stuff and it seems like if I say something outlandish, quirky, absurd and nobody finds humor in it then all the chicks will notice how humorless I am. And girls don't get turned on by humorless guys...not that I'm humorless, I just tend to be offbeat and some people don't "get it" sometimes. I want to make the most of this situation though and not blow opportunities like in the past! Any suggestions or thoughts that might lead me in the right direction would be greatly appreciated.
(a guy who got too uninhibited today and just wants to pull his foot out of his mouth and hide his ass for the time being)
There is another chick I met from that class...and the only reason that happened is because we were both alone in the art class working on our projects on a different day from when class is held. I noticed when I told her that I thought her design project had a "musical quality" to it, she turned toward me and smiled, messing with her hair. And she had a "NAUGHTY GIRL" shirt on that I had to use to my advantage. I told her,"you're not naughty. you're completely innocent and I'm sure you've never even been accused of anything". She smiled and said,"Don't judge a book by its cover". I said I wasn't. She made eye contact quite a bit and smiled but she also looked out into the hall quite a bit too and the signals were really mixed. The next day of class she didn't say anything and I didn't either. The next day we had class she walked by and smile and we said Hi to each other. She's more of an average chick but she is cute. The problem is, today my friend and I were drinking wine at school and I was drunk. The girl walked by us and I decided to walk up and talk to her and I am sure it was a big mistake but oh well. I asked her how the last design class was since I missed it. She was about to go to her drawing class, I asked her if she was drawing anything exciting and she said no. I said something,"Well, maybe you could draw some nudes of yourself". She said,"No, not me"...and I said,"what about some of me?" Then she kind of had that weird reaction as she was about to open the door and I said,"See ya later"....Needless to say, I felt silly.
But it's funny, I wish I could be that confident when not drunk. Another girl that I'd seen around before walked by and I'd seen her with some dude but she had a skirt on and at that point in time I didn't really care if the dude I'd seen her with before was her guy. My friend, some other dude and myself were sitting there and I said in a normal yet somewhat excited voice,"I really like your skirt"...the girl was almost all the way by when I said it and she kind of slowed down, turned around and said,"Thanks" with a confused look and kept walking. Then we were sitting there talking and I noticed this older lady kept looking at me and I said,"Hi" with a really naughty look as I was still pretty wrapped up in my conversation...a moment later she walks up to ask for a cigarette. I asked her, "Oh, is that why you came over here? Do I look like a cigarette smoker to you?"...she said,"No, you're just so good looking." My friend handed her the cigarette and that was it. I was thoroughly wine drunk though and I will be on the look out for that lady again.
But honestly I feel lost. I know I have what it takes to charm women but I'm not confident in applying it. If I'm not in that radiant mood, I feel charmless. I want to seize the opportunity to meet some of these girls and show them the nice and the naughty qualities I have. It's just that in the class, I'm self-conscious because everybody's just sitting there working on stuff and it seems like if I say something outlandish, quirky, absurd and nobody finds humor in it then all the chicks will notice how humorless I am. And girls don't get turned on by humorless guys...not that I'm humorless, I just tend to be offbeat and some people don't "get it" sometimes. I want to make the most of this situation though and not blow opportunities like in the past! Any suggestions or thoughts that might lead me in the right direction would be greatly appreciated.
(a guy who got too uninhibited today and just wants to pull his foot out of his mouth and hide his ass for the time being)