Ricky: September 2005

[Ricky]

I made a simple goal. To meet 100 new girls this month

I won't take the time to post the whole details, but these don't have to be cold approaches, they are conversations with attractive girls I don't know anywhere

Here is a quick update

9/7/05. I'm at 12 new women. Of them right now I'm working on one as a prospect. The other prospect is a girl I met prior to these 12. I haven't closed on most of them.

One thing I notice already is how great this feels. I talk to women I already know with more confidence.

The next few days the numbers will jump up big time.

 

[Ricky]

9/11/05 I'm at 22 new women I've met. Of these I've closed with very few, many were convos at bars in the last few days when it grew too loud and tiresome to close.

Of note

1) A girl on the subway, great convo, she is foreign and hot Armenian, but only in her first year of college. I didn't close, although it made me think how much more mature foreign girls seem compared to Americans. Maybe I should have closed.

2) At a dance club, group of about 6 chicks. One girl pulls me aside and says the other girl likes me. But she did this with two girls, she was just joking maybe. In any event I talked to one of them and she was quite receptive. We ended up talking for a while and she gave me her business card. But she has a boyfriend. I told her I'd take her and the other girl out so I could pick up other girls with them. They laughed. I was serious.

In the queue
1 girl at work. This girl doesnt work directly with me. I'll strike on this one. She is classy and athletic.

Another: I emailed a girl I metfrom a club prior to the start of Septembers quest. But it had been almost 2 weeks since i got the email. Don't expect anything.

Now these statistics may not be impressive, but I'm not typically forcing things. I just have a convo and stay detached.

1 work email
1 business card
1 email request denied
22 new girls.

 

[Inc. ©]

Ricky,

Good job doing this...out of curiosity, where are you located?

 

[Ricky]

One really great talk today at work. She's in a different department. I hesitated on a number close. Just said goodbye.

The cafeteria is a rocking place though!

23 and i'm headed out the door

Inc i pmed you

 

[Ricky]

The Latina I met in my neighborhood looks kind of promising. Damn I glad I know Spanish

25 so far. Nothing great, behind pace for 100 but I expect an absolute flurry of activity this weekend.

 

[Ricky]

26 and it was the best today.

There is a girl that works in our department but in a completely different role.

I first saw her in May. We locked eyes and i could tell she was interested.

I rarely see her around, but the last few days she's been in my office. She works with some women that have absolutely nothing to do with my job either.

In any event I was in scrubs (medical professional here) and I saw her in the hallway. Since my office is moving soon, I figured it would even be rarer that I'd see her.

I passed her one time and made an offhand comment about something. She was waiting to go into a room for a meeting.

On the way back to my office she was still there, so I told her I would show her something since she was killing time (not exact words, but basically I said, if you're not busy maybe you'd like to help me on what I'm working on. In a joking manner of course)

In any event she did come back to my desk. I played the role of teacher.

It was great. She showed the IOI's and later asked me my name. I'm email closed.

I have to play it safe, there are now 2 girls at work I'm emailing. THe thing is neither of them do what I do even remotely, so I could probably keep them relatively hidden from the gossip group for a while.

And so I'm at 26. My goal is 100 new women for the month. I have work to do, but have some prospects again after taking a few months off after the breakup with my ex.

 

[Chrispy]

Ricky, slow down, you're well ahead of me on the approach count

I'd like to know how the e-mailing goes. As people said here on my 'back to basics' thread...close for a number after a few emails.

I've made the 'mistake' of taking too long, and the e-moment so to speak is lost.

 

[Squid]

Awesome work Ricky, sounds like your having a blast!

 

[Ricky]

Doing good guys.

Man I signed up for a foreign language class. The girl guy ratio is stellar in there, something close to 6:1 women to men.

Going to a pretty cool party one of the girls I emailed invited me to. She has a boyfriend but seems extremely interested.

I'm bringing mass social proof with me. Bunch of friends and hot girls I work with.

I'm at 30. The class had a few really good prospects that haven't been added to the list yet. I guarantee a close on at least one of them.

 

[Ricky]

It is going to take a while to document what number I'm at now. I talked to that many girls this weekend.

I have about 7 or 8 emails and phone numbers as well. I may need a personal secretary to handle my correspondence!

I'll update this later tonight

I have learned so much this weekend.

Here are some quick ones

1) Having a default opener is golden. It gets a bit boring for me to do it, but it is kind of funny how the responses are the same regardless

2) Things are very momentum based. Starting the first convo of the night is the toughest. That's why I think from now on I'll pick a target as my throwaway convo. One to get warmed up on.

3) Leading girls to go to other clubs and venues is more difficult

4) Jealousy kicks in among wingmen. The vibe got blown last night by one of our friends who jumped into my convo that I had going with a girl 5 minutes in

5) Some girls are flat out rude. Don't let them shovel it out without putting the **** directly back at em. The story isn't really worth telling, but basically some girl got all *****y the second time I went back talking to them saying she's married and I'm not available. I was going to introduce my friend to them, but said, now I know you guys aren't worth knowing and I feel sorry for the guy that has to put up with your ****ty attitudes.

 

[Inc. ©]

What is your default opener?

 

[Ricky]

Hahah

Well a couple from the weekend were

"Excuse me, I have friends in town and I'm deciding what some of the best bars to take them too are what do you recommend"

"I need a girls opinion on this,....."

"Ok who in this group is the decision maker?, the alpha female"

"I'm new to town and looking for some live music (what club do you recommend)." The irony of this one is, it makes it look like you are planning to leave, but then you end up talking to them and close em.

 

[Ricky]

Im up to about 66. Didn't do any today. Almost amazing I've taken a break!

 

[Ricky]

Looks like I'm at about 73.

Fired off a bunch of emails today.

Met a real cute hottie working at the local restauruant. Didn't close, yet, but created good C+F rapport.

 

[Ricky]

At 75. I need to gear up for the home stretch to finish with 100.

The bad news. The prime pick of mine hasn't responded to my email. I have her number but now it's Thursday so I'm not going to call until next week.

The weird part is 2 other emails I sent from my work email have went unresponded to, whereas the ones i sent from my hotmail account got responses. So this weird side of me wonders whether they even received the work ones.

One of them was a friendly email from work so i should have gotten a response.

If no response from those emails i will call the ones with numbers I don't fricking care.

But this weekend I must get more numbers and emails
I wiill talk to another 25 at least before the end of the month. I only close if it seems right or i'm interested.

 

[Ricky]

Wow I need to step it up. Was at an afterwork party. Part of it felt a bit awkward. I'll tell you why.

There are a couple of girls at work and one of the older ladies at work was pimping me out to them. Believe me I didn't know she was going to do that, but the good part was that I got the inside scoop that both were interested. However the one girl thought I'd be a better match for the other girl because we are both into sports.

In any event, of the two, the less athletic girl kind of sparked my interest based on their personality (for the record they both have great bodies and are athletic, it's just that one plays sports and the other is a yoga hardbody).

Well yesterday i mentioned it to the old gabbag, and what does she do but immediately call the yoga hardbody. DOH. She mentioned me again and the yoga hardbody said she's dating someone now.

Fast forward and hour and we are at an afterwork party and who is there but yogahardbody. I didn't act weird I just talked to other girls, I just hate having my interest telegraphed.

Now I guess I'll go for the runner girl but at this point she wasn't at the party.

 

[Ricky]

I'm up to 83. I have had some really unique experiences in all of this. Going to environments where I normally wouldn't are a couple of interesting things.

Last weekend we met a couple of girls on the street after the regular bars closed. The one girl was clearly on somethiing (Ecstasy) Im guessing because she wouldnt stop dancing.

In any event me and some friends went with them to an after hours club where we were probably the only straight guys. That's a first for me. I've been to some mixed crowd type bars, but this was a bit different. It was actually pretty fun in a weird way. Those girls gave me their number but I wasn't going to have the ecstasty girl back in my apartment just in case she something bad happened to her. I don't need that type of trouble.

Then last night I went out with one of my friends who happens to be African American. He took me to a place where I was one of like 5 white dudes there. Maybe not even that many. I admit I was the slightest bit uncomfortable at first, but I got my groove on. The one guy even made a funny joke when I asked him if black girls like white guys, he said they all like white guys, it's something called "Good Credit'. Great guys. We went to late night lounge diner afterwards that was packed with hot women. I will go back there for sure.

Up to 83 I believe. I need to go out tonight to get 100 because I'll be traveling next Friday and during the week is tougher.

It is an artificial goal. I can't say I've found someone I'll necessarily date, but I have been way more social. It's been fun. I need a great goal for October. I want to keep the numbers high that month as well.

 

[Ricky]

At 90, I know I'm not posting alot about each one, but I'll post a wrapup soon.

Its funny when you have a target goal and are close to the end (and time is also running low) you just want to get the convos in and get them done.

 

[( . )( . )]

90 approaches is great in that you should have balls of steel by now and extremely thick skin impermeable to rejection, but have you layed any of these chicks?

 

[Ricky]

No I haven't layed any of these chicks and that's what I'm usually best at LOL.

We will have to see.

In fact maybe going to talk to so many is bad. I should hang on a couple and lay em like I normally did.

That may be part of Ricky September. To hang in on a set a bit too long and push the envelope. It has worked many a time in the past.