Reverse Played?

[Tris]

I met this chik and she was right on, we had a few dates... she would call me 2 or 3 times a day then before i knew it she wasn't calling or stopping by, yet when I'd see her she would say, Hey I'll call you later. Of course she wouldn't call, and I would sit home and chew my fingernails wondering where she was and why she didn't show up. I was driving myself crazy....

I mean don't get me wrong i still want this girl bad but i think it's too late now. I feel like i've been played... and I would love to be able to reverse the playing... do you think it may be too late, i've only known her for a couple of weeks. Is it possible to detach now, even though it seems like she's the one who's already detached.

 

[ManOMan]

What happened between the dates that she stopped calling? Maybe she met someone else?

 

[Tris]

Yeah you could be right, but it seems like she's left the door wide open. I saw her the other day and the last thing she said to me was I'll call you tonight... which of course she didn't. I feel stoopit... she was stopping at my house regularly for about a 2 weeks or so, and seemed sincere kissing me and stuff. She didn't say i met someone or don't call me or i'm not interested... she just kinda left the door open, and me confused.

 

[ManOMan]

I really believe that all women (especially when single) have about 5-10 guys (minumum) on the sidelines, while she picks and chooses which one she likes.

I wouldn't give up hope just YET, if she was into you as much as you claim, she still hasnt lost interest.

But you still didnt tell us what happened between her calling all the time, to not calling you at all?

were you being too eager? too available?

 

[violator]

Seems like a real flake to me. Sounds like you were just the flavor of the week and she trained her sights on someone else.

I would just move on. It is always helpful to have at least a few girls on the backburner so that you don't get worked up on anyone.

 

[Tris]

Well I've recently heard that she's back with her ex Bf... which could explain why she wasn't around when she said she would be... now I really don't know what's goin on. I suppose it would be in my best interest to just move on and forget her. I doubt very much if she's willing to leave her bf and come with me, that rarely happens.

I still want her though, and I'd love to steal her. I know that's crazy.