Response to "I love you"?
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Don Juan
I think you handled it perfectly, 1 month is too soon to use the L word, and when I have used it in the past I use it sparingly because it really is a big deal. If she asks i'd tell her I don't throw that word around and when I say it i'm gonna damn well mean it. She still needs to prove herself to you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i learned this the hard way when i was in high school. too many girls that "loved weren't getting railed db other dudes.
Bible belt hit the nail on the head.
the problem here is that most guys, don't address the actual issue at hand ,and the real issue is not rather or not you love her as well, but that she doesn't love you in the first place.
There is no fvcking way you can be seriously in love with a person you have fvcked 3 times ad spent a few nights with. that **** isn't love. that's chemical high from the sex/newness of the relationship.
This is what I mean by sit back and judge a woman. A woman that tells you this type of thing, in 1-2 months of meeting you and thinks she means it (xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx wrong answer). I know already she's not a girl I could take seriously. Girl i barley know you and you are tossing out the word love like it's the next property in monopoly or something, like it's just the next thing we do. "okay we have went on a date, and we have had sex, now I have to tell you i love you"
so for the ones that I know are full of ****, or don't know enough to know better, I simply tell them "no you don't" and if they say "yes I do I seriously mean it", just say "look no you don't,I like you alot but i barley know you. let's just play this out and see where it goes". If she doesn't like it fvck it. That shhould be the standard response. no need to get cute with bubble screens and and reverse sweeps, jam that ***** straight between the tackles on her ass.
on the other hand, there should /will come a time in your life, when you have a real dilemma on your hands. you have a serious relationship, and 4-5-6 months have passed, and she says "I think I love you". At least I did, beucase while I really liked my then GF, I wasn't in love. To make matters worse, she was pregno with my son at the time, and she asked me do I love her. Situations like this deserve more than a canned one liner IMHO. So i sat down and told her look, If I didn't have strong feelings for you, you would not be carrying my son, but to[ say that I LOVe you, would not be fair to the women I do love, my mom and my sister. Love is something, now, I take seriously, not something to be thrown around because it's "that" stage of a relationship. She respected my answer.
and you know what, the day I knew I was in love with her, seriously knew it, and I told her out of the blue while sitting down watching a movie with her, you couldn't wipe the grin off her face for a week.
In short, don't' lie, say it when you seriously mean it and you will have a better relationship.but don't take these broads that toss that **** around after 3 weeks seriously whatsoever.
Bible belt hit the nail on the head.
the problem here is that most guys, don't address the actual issue at hand ,and the real issue is not rather or not you love her as well, but that she doesn't love you in the first place.
There is no fvcking way you can be seriously in love with a person you have fvcked 3 times ad spent a few nights with. that **** isn't love. that's chemical high from the sex/newness of the relationship.
This is what I mean by sit back and judge a woman. A woman that tells you this type of thing, in 1-2 months of meeting you and thinks she means it (xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx wrong answer). I know already she's not a girl I could take seriously. Girl i barley know you and you are tossing out the word love like it's the next property in monopoly or something, like it's just the next thing we do. "okay we have went on a date, and we have had sex, now I have to tell you i love you"
so for the ones that I know are full of ****, or don't know enough to know better, I simply tell them "no you don't" and if they say "yes I do I seriously mean it", just say "look no you don't,I like you alot but i barley know you. let's just play this out and see where it goes". If she doesn't like it fvck it. That shhould be the standard response. no need to get cute with bubble screens and and reverse sweeps, jam that ***** straight between the tackles on her ass.
on the other hand, there should /will come a time in your life, when you have a real dilemma on your hands. you have a serious relationship, and 4-5-6 months have passed, and she says "I think I love you". At least I did, beucase while I really liked my then GF, I wasn't in love. To make matters worse, she was pregno with my son at the time, and she asked me do I love her. Situations like this deserve more than a canned one liner IMHO. So i sat down and told her look, If I didn't have strong feelings for you, you would not be carrying my son, but to[ say that I LOVe you, would not be fair to the women I do love, my mom and my sister. Love is something, now, I take seriously, not something to be thrown around because it's "that" stage of a relationship. She respected my answer.
and you know what, the day I knew I was in love with her, seriously knew it, and I told her out of the blue while sitting down watching a movie with her, you couldn't wipe the grin off her face for a week.
In short, don't' lie, say it when you seriously mean it and you will have a better relationship.but don't take these broads that toss that **** around after 3 weeks seriously whatsoever.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
It depends what you mean by love. Now I see why some of you guys don't say it. You all have your OWN definitions of love, and some of you take it to greater degrees of importance than others. If it's true by your own standards of what love is to you, then you can decide whether or not you love someone.
So we should all define love.
So we should all define love.
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The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
If you're feelin' it, say it back and mean it. If you're not, then you can go all ****y/funny and basically let her know that you don't feel the same by trying to shrug it off. She'll get it and walk.
Some guys get freaked about this stuff. If I'm feeling the same and I know it's genuine, I'll say it back. No big deal to me. Just deepens the relationship. If I'm not feeling the chick, I'll be out and on to someone else long before she has the chance to get to these kinds of feelings.
Some guys get freaked about this stuff. If I'm feeling the same and I know it's genuine, I'll say it back. No big deal to me. Just deepens the relationship. If I'm not feeling the chick, I'll be out and on to someone else long before she has the chance to get to these kinds of feelings.
Peace and Quiet
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Yes you want to be a challenge, but after the 3rd time making love I would reciprocate and say I love you back just to solidify the relationship, as long as she said it first and I genuinely did feel the same way.The Bad Ass Canadian said:
The point is words have power and everyone wants to be loved not used. Just don't go around saying I love you everytime or it'll lesson the impact of those words.
