KindredSpiritzz
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this is a good topic, lots of good points of view dropping like rain
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this is a good topic, lots of good points of view dropping like rain
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They chased day and night including their peers. Cos your quality shall be known by others. Not if youre pretending you're high value it wont work, they can easily unravel that..
For even high value male they easily can be mistaken as low value due to their humble nature..
Most girls mistakenly sought an azzh0le as a high value male.. Things are really messy in real life mate.
Here’s what I’ve learned about women. They can disrespect you and you can ghost them and cut them completely out 5 seconds after it happens and they will NEVER know that was the reason. Their narcissistic tendencies won’t allow them to self reflect or admit they were wrong, you cutting them out and ghosting them after a moment of disrespect gives them the victim card to play.
Dash Riprock
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I'll add you need to look at her baseline behavior.
Women have bad days just like we do; job, life, health, family, PMS (my ex had HUGE issues with this).
But, if the bad behavior is repetitive, prolonged, or getting worse, depending on the length of the realtionship, fire a warning shot first THEN next if there's no change.
Women have bad days just like we do; job, life, health, family, PMS (my ex had HUGE issues with this).
But, if the bad behavior is repetitive, prolonged, or getting worse, depending on the length of the realtionship, fire a warning shot first THEN next if there's no change.
from my experience , good looking women will never chase you , unless you have sex with them .
so whatever you are preaching is not really working that much in real life , because well , women have way more options than you have .
The chances of you being the most high value guy in her orbit is very low
Now taking a step back , it means that sometimes it is better to shrug off some b1tchy behavior to get what you want , and then you will see if she changes her attitude or not . Usually they do
You have to really understand women's nature. Flaking is merely part of their programing and not necessarily done as a **** test. It's a matter of you having multiple women you are texting, instead of just focusing on the one. Until you actually sleep with them, you do not mean anything to women and they are not really investing their time to **** test you; they are merely being women. All you can do is maintain your frame as a man, which means not incessantly responding to them, or continually asking them out. That just shows your desperation.
If a woman wants to go out with you, they will move mountains to do so. However, just because they won't go out that very night and flake on you, it merely means you are not top dog in their never ending line of suitors. But that won't always be the case. I'll randomly text someone I haven't spoken to in weeks/months just to see what's going on. Sometimes that leads to a date/bang, sometime it doesn't. The energy it takes is minimal. But it is very rare that I cut someone off...they just go lower on my list and make their rotations in due time. Or sometimes I forget about them completely and inadvertantly cut them off; but it does not come from a place of emotions or being butt-hurt because they disrespected me by flaking.
If a woman wants to go out with you, they will move mountains to do so. However, just because they won't go out that very night and flake on you, it merely means you are not top dog in their never ending line of suitors. But that won't always be the case. I'll randomly text someone I haven't spoken to in weeks/months just to see what's going on. Sometimes that leads to a date/bang, sometime it doesn't. The energy it takes is minimal. But it is very rare that I cut someone off...they just go lower on my list and make their rotations in due time. Or sometimes I forget about them completely and inadvertantly cut them off; but it does not come from a place of emotions or being butt-hurt because they disrespected me by flaking.
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I care less about their options,women who think they have high value men around usually when They thinks high value, they settle with passive boys who looks like a kpop fag. Thats is their definition of high value, and laugh it hard off along the way.
Being natural dominant which being vilified by lots of women to try to change my personality, in my entire life ive taken 3 virginity until at age 34 and countless of women, being non stop in relationship and more casual encounter along the way until recently i know i had to stop taken sometime for self growth, and i choose to stop for now until covid hits.
Try to adapt to their preferences doesnt bring out anything good in it.. It just makes you less appealing and boring..
Thats why ive never being an orbiter, friendzones even the term itself are unfamiliar to me until i found this site.
The way you care less about their opinions sounds butt-hurt over rejection because they chose the "kpop fag" over you. What you need to understand is....why the hell are you caring so much. If you truly have multiple women you are texting, then the actions of one wouldn't even phase you. Women mean nothing to me, until they actually make it a point to be impactful to my life. In that sense, I don't give them any further thought. Don't care who they are talking to, or what kind of "kpop fag" they choose over me. Guys...stop being butt-hurt over women. It's not a matter of being "naturally dominant"...it's a matter of being a man with many avenues and options. So stop caring..and act like a ****ing man.
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Hurt rejection?? No no it just one example for their preference from a girl i never know or approach.. Jezzzz.. You guys has have to stop overthinking about women.
I wouldn’t consider flaking disrespect, life sometimes gets in the way. Girls have responsibilities and bills just like men do.
Ive had women:
- steal thousands of dollars
- record me to sue in court for millions
- push family members off balconies and kill them
- bad mouth me to break up long term relationships
That’s when I cut them off.
But flaking? To each his own.
TheGambino
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I’ve had never women who wanted to hurt or harm me. Yes they sting me along yes they play games yes they try to keep me around without giving cex sometimes. But seriousley harm me? Never they always respect me. Neverz
never also met a woman that was super rude or something , unless she was completely nuts , and this happened quite rarely
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Old post, but I want to share my thoughts. Disrespect comes with spending too much time together. I have realized the less you text a chick, the less you are in touch with her and the less you see her, the less you will disrespect each other. This holds for chicks and also I have a precedent rule. If a girl swears or says something bad I shot it down the first time it occurs and tell her to behave, if she does it again, then I cut her off. You show people how you wish to be treated, if you allow them to disrespect you, they will continue.
Also, I recently came to the conclusion that ****y and funny and making jokes, or making self-depreciating jokes are a no no. There is no reason to make jokes about each other, only about other things and subjects. There is no point in disrespecting someone or making fun of them. I find that just having solid conversations and just having a good time is the best. Never ever trying to criticize her, or tell how she should be. If she does not know to behave, just make a mental note that she may not be one. A lot arguments occur because of misunderstandings and how someone criticizes another person, or expects something. I realized that if you hold a strong frame, then they will follow.
For instance, even if I don't have a plan, I always act like I do. If I want to take her out to eat, I say we are going here, and if she says that place again, and if she does not know where to go, then I say we are going to where I said then.
I recently cut off a guy friend of mine, and I was tired of **** and the disrespect. He would say crude things and be bitter.
If someone occupies your thoughts, then that's not love, that's an obsession. If you have to think about whether this girl disrespected you or not, that's an obsession. It's important to not be obsessed.
Also if someone occupies your mind in a negative - they need to go. Just move on.
Also, I recently came to the conclusion that ****y and funny and making jokes, or making self-depreciating jokes are a no no. There is no reason to make jokes about each other, only about other things and subjects. There is no point in disrespecting someone or making fun of them. I find that just having solid conversations and just having a good time is the best. Never ever trying to criticize her, or tell how she should be. If she does not know to behave, just make a mental note that she may not be one. A lot arguments occur because of misunderstandings and how someone criticizes another person, or expects something. I realized that if you hold a strong frame, then they will follow.
For instance, even if I don't have a plan, I always act like I do. If I want to take her out to eat, I say we are going here, and if she says that place again, and if she does not know where to go, then I say we are going to where I said then.
I recently cut off a guy friend of mine, and I was tired of **** and the disrespect. He would say crude things and be bitter.
If someone occupies your thoughts, then that's not love, that's an obsession. If you have to think about whether this girl disrespected you or not, that's an obsession. It's important to not be obsessed.
Also if someone occupies your mind in a negative - they need to go. Just move on.
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