IDate
While waiting for my wingman I started to CA first. I was on the upper floor of the mall walking towards the food court. I saw her walking towards me, she had silky black hair and was wearing a mask, I'm not sure how her face look like. I didn't hesitate and talked to her.
I opened with a push pull routine, and followed with a cold read and disqualification about her accent and origin, told her we are not going to get along and that I prefer Korean girls. Used cold read about her job and threw a hook to see if she bites. I think I also did FTC here, can't remember well. I started to build deep connection with her (basically asking her about her hobbies and her job, why she likes it, how long shes been doing it for, etc) and proceed with qualifications stage, told her I like going to the beach and places that has water and told her why.
I asked her what is she doing and told her I'm going to grab a coffee and if she wanted to join, she said NO and then I changed the topic and started to talk to her more and asked her again, then she accepted. We grab coffee and look for a place to sit, she took off her mask and she looks prettier than I expected. I started to build more deep connection and attraction for around 25 to 30 minutes, I usually take only 15 or 20 minutes. I told her it stopped raining let's go to xyz Mall. We we are walking together, I noticed she walks fast and I made fun of her walk, I wanted to grab her hand but I felt it was not the right moment yet, so I decided not to. We walked for a bit and tried to go to the park but it started to rain and that ruined my plans. She took out her umbrella and I quickly grabbed it, this gave me a chance to move even closer to her, I felt like she was not ready to get some close physical contact yet, so I didn't try to push it. I just held the umbrella for us like a gentleman (chivalry is not dead). She asked me what I'm going to do now (Good sign she was DTF), I said I'm going back to the mall. She says she is going home. Logistics was bad because of the rain. I'm sure I could have take it further and I felt she was a potential SDL. She already texted me back. I Will keep you posted about this one.
PROS:
Built deep connection (She told me about her personality, her family, her job and her friends)
Built attraction (She questioned me a lot)
CONS:
Not that I'm aware of.