reply to a ***** in the bar

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:crackup: this gona be short dudes

go to a bar with 6 of my friends and start drinking with them when we see a couple of HB9's one is blonde and the other is a burnett they are standing next to the dance floor, I don`t even think about it I just stand up and tell to one of my friends "lets go man" he comes with me, I aproach them take the burnett from her arm lead her to the dance floor; my friend does the same with the blonde

considering that I don´t know how to dance to the music that was playing :crackup:

every goes smooth grinding with them for like 15 minutes until.............
hb: buy me a drink (politely)
JEFE: you buy me a drink first
HB: :eek: whaaaaat? no.....
JEFE: Yes you first
HB: :p "never mind" continue dancing

we continue dancing for some more minutes until they tell us that they want to smoke and go away.

we saw them with a couple of guys that were buying them drinks

I`m just glad they weren´t us :)
 

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King Turi said:
They didn't.
....'cause THAT would ruin the whole thread....:woo:
 

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contrary to popular opinion on this board...buying drinks can help you get laid. Maybe the guys who did buy the girls drinks ended up with the ***** at the night's end.
 

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If played correctly, this is true. As long as your buying a drink out of your own generosity, and not thinking it will raise her attraction, cuz it wont. They key is to determine if she has any interest in you before doing it. Its easy to tell if shes playing you for a drink. If she has real interest, it is an excuse for the two of you to keep talking to each other. I have found drink buying a nice tool to keep the chick from leaving the venue. If she's about to leave, buy her a drink to get her to stay.

I gamed a chick once, who was out with her mom, and her mom wanted to leave, so I kept throwing drinks at her mom, to keep them both around.

Its a case of knowing when to break the rules. You can buy a chick a drink without being a supplicating chode.

Or, better yet, make her do something in return. If a chick tries to get you to jump through a hoop, make her jump through one first. This will keep the frame in your control. I usually ask for a kiss on the cheek, or a backrub or something. If they refuse to do something for you first, either they are only interested in a free drink, or they are a selfish bytch. Either way, you need to call them out, and walk away. I've had girls renew an interest in me after I call them selfish bytches, or drink hors. It can generate attraction sometimes. It shows your dominance as a real man, and that you wont put up with their games. They like that.
 

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HolyG said:
contrary to popular opinion on this board...buying drinks can help you get laid. Maybe the guys who did buy the girls drinks ended up with the ***** at the night's end.
good for them!!!! easyly they spend a lot of money in this 2 broads jejejeje
but if they got laid then it doesn´t matter.......is it?????

I have found drink buying a nice tool to keep the chick from leaving the venue. If she's about to leave, buy her a drink to get her to stay.
I think that you have to make atraction between you two, if the girl is atracted then she will stay, there is no reason for "paying her to stay"
 

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horaholic said:
If played correctly, this is true. As long as your buying a drink out of your own generosity, and not thinking it will raise her attraction, cuz it wont. They key is to determine if she has any interest in you before doing it. Its easy to tell if shes playing you for a drink. If she has real interest, it is an excuse for the two of you to keep talking to each other. I have found drink buying a nice tool to keep the chick from leaving the venue. If she's about to leave, buy her a drink to get her to stay.

I gamed a chick once, who was out with her mom, and her mom wanted to leave, so I kept throwing drinks at her mom, to keep them both around.

Its a case of knowing when to break the rules. You can buy a chick a drink without being a supplicating chode.

Or, better yet, make her do something in return. If a chick tries to get you to jump through a hoop, make her jump through one first. This will keep the frame in your control. I usually ask for a kiss on the cheek, or a backrub or something. If they refuse to do something for you first, either they are only interested in a free drink, or they are a selfish bytch. Either way, you need to call them out, and walk away. I've had girls renew an interest in me after I call them selfish bytches, or drink hors. It can generate attraction sometimes. It shows your dominance as a real man, and that you wont put up with their games. They like that.
This is some great advice here
 

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JEFE said:
I think that you have to make atraction between you two, if the girl is atracted then she will stay, there is no reason for "paying her to stay"
Yes. There has to be an attraction. or at least the possibility of one. You dont ever 'pay a girl to stay.' BUT...you can give a girl an EXCUSE to stay, cuz thats all a girl needs anyway... a good excuse. When you buy your buddies a beer, are you paying them to stay? Have you ever been in a bar about to leave, then someone buys a round and hands you a beer? I have. I usually stay for about five more when that happens too. You can use peoples weakness to your advantage.

You can keep a cokblocker from pulling your target out of the venue by handing him/her a big tall drink that will take at least 45 minutes to drink. You didnt buy them a drink so much as you bought yourself some time.

...Or you can ask them to show their tits. I do all of the above, no matter what. But, if they ask me to buy them a drink, it justifies my behaviour.

Another thing I have done is point out a chump looking guy and challenge the girl to schmooze drinks for you AND her out of him. Its a fun little game.

One night I ran into a chick I barely knew, but havent seen her in a long time, and she was looking HOT. She was hanging out with some older rich looking guy. I kept telling her "Tell your boyfriend there to buy me a shot," over and over, very C+F. She kept laughing it off telling me he wasnt her BF, but kept on pushing it. Before long she grabs me and says "That is SOOO hot. You're totally coming home with me." and we were out the door right there. Unfortunately, I didnt get laid, cuz she wanted to stop at another bar on the way, and she disappeared out the back door in the middle of her drink immediately after telling me how hot I was. I was pissed, needless to say. She called me to apologize two days later, and asked me to come to the bar and buy her a drink. I laughed at her, and never heard from her again. Maybe I would have got laid if I went and bought her a drink, maybe not, but at least I didnt chump out.
 
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