Remind me again, why do we pursue women??

[Player_Supreme]

I found this post to make a copy of it and now I feel that I can comment. At first I couldn't believe that on a site where "men" are trying to get laid someone would post this.

I'm still in shock but it has lessoned. If squirrels needs to be reminded maybe he should try fantisizing about men next time he is with a woman...and if his dyck stays hard then....there you have it...

No offense squirrels but you coulda kept this one too yourself. Think of all the virgins on this site who are trying to get laid and here come's a guy gay or not doesn't matter who say's sex isn't pleasureable to him anymore...

see my point.

Now I feel like looking for your picture to see if you have any effiminate qualites about you...but I don't want to waste my time like that..

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme

I'm still in shock but it has lessoned. If squirrels needs to be reminded maybe he should try fantisizing about men next time he is with a woman...and if his dyck stays hard then....there you have it...

Yo Player supreme,
I think the point squirrels is trying to make, that alot of people here are finding out, is that in general, most guys here, and in real life, have to put in ALOT of work just to get laid. So to them, its not all its cracked up to be, once they measure out everything it takes to get the tail. You must understand that as DJ's, we make up less than 1 percent of the population. So for us, it comes easy. But for most people, like alot of things in life, it takes alot of time and effort, and might not seem all that worth it in the end.

Example - Say a group of poor villagers get to only drink water. But, if they want to, they can run to the next village over, on foot, 10 miles away, and get a coke. Those first weeks of getting pop may seem great and fun and new, especially for someone who has only tasted water their whole life. However, it starts to get old, and after awile, that 10 mile run doesn't seem to appealing, and they give up and go back to water again. Thats what it is like for most AFC and RAFC people. DJ's like us, we have a short jog down the street, 10 seconds away for our Cokes. So, for us, it is worth the effort. Getting tail is similar. For the guys here that aren't DJ's, it seems like alot of effort. For those of us that have a short distance to run, its no big deal. Remember, sometimes you gotta put yourself in others shoes.

 

[MickoZ]

Expectation / Not always easy the first time.

Here I want to tell you about two thing... first of all our expectation.

Sometime when we have too high expectation, we do not appreciate the <insert anything> as much as it is really. We under-evaluate it because we had high expectation.

Low expectation can also lead to appreciate more the thing. It is a bit cognitive I guess ;-)

(It is like going to see a movie and heard it is all the **** and not be impress... or in other hand go see a movie you heard was the worse crap ever, but everyone in the movie theater enjoy it... if it is a comedy they laugh and it has a great effect on you, you will be like THAT ROCK)

Also about what other said about sometime it takes more than one time to enjoy it is so true, and not just about sex (and that is why those discussions around the DJ scene is not just about chicks... like anything is applicable in many field in life)

Personally I believe my third time was the best, even if the two time had long lenght for a newbie, etc. And I enjoyed it... but the third time was better I guess ;-)

It is like food... how many food you used to dislike and you like now? Or maybe there is food you disliked but you tried it only once... and then you learn to appreciate its taste or find a better way to cook it, etc.

Make effort sometime lead to get better result and enjoy it more.

Another exemple... if you play a game (a sport game) and you are a newbie, you can enjoy how it is new, but if you never progress you might just find it boring. But if you do the effort to get better, to play better, to make it more challenging, IMHO you will enjoy it way more than at first.

That said... maybe even people who consider themself Gay or whetever... I am pretty sure they could enjoy Straight sex. Even Straigh could enjoy Gay sex. A lot of it is psychological, but a lot of guys especially are afraid to talk about those topics ;-)

 

[Mr. Delicious]

Originally posted by italostud
I find that after 1 week without sex, I'm jonesing pretty bad. If it's been an entire 2 weeks without puss, I go out on an all out ***** mission. Of course I jerk off about 2x a day, but my penis seems to be able to tell the difference between my hand and a vagina(**** you penis). So yeah, about 2 weeks of punching the clown is my max.

Thats a lesson you can teach to your grandkids hahaha

 

[Jeremymichael]

I agree, why all the bother stress and hassle if was work related you would change job.... I really wonder why we bother

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
[ Remember, sometimes you gotta put yourself in others shoes. [/B]

1. these are a pair of shoe's that I'd rather not wear thank you.

2. Good explanation, And you made some valid points, but you forgot that as "men" we are genetically programmed to seek out females to impregnate. Nature has made this possible so that the species can continue.

3. I've noticed that some men born today are not recieving this signal clearly or at all.

4. Somemen are shutting down or turning their backs on this call also because they are too lazy to go throught the current mating rituals.

5. Life is designed so that the best get to reproduce. Look at how many sperm is released and only the strongest of them all will make it to fertalize the egg.

6. Unfortunately with current civilization weaker people are being born. Now we have societies that will support and cater to those who would not of survived a few thousand years ago. And that's cool to a certain extent.

7. But in the end only the strongest get to write the history. If this guy is too tired of the chase then maybe it's better for him not to breed. For the rest of us who are willing to stand up and fight for every inch and scratch and claw our way to the top of this heap I salute you for sticking it out..because the chase does get easier when you get too the top. And once you pass over the top it's an easy coast down the other side into the valley of eternal Pus.sy.

I say keep fighting to improve yourself in this game. If I can do it then anybody can. Even Mo-Bombs!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Re: Expectation / Not always easy the first time.

Originally posted by MickoZ



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That said... maybe even people who consider themself Gay or whetever... I am pretty sure they could enjoy Straight sex. Even Straigh could enjoy Gay sex. A lot of it is psychological, but a lot of guys especially are afraid to talk about those topics ;-)

1. I disagree with your statements about straights enjoying gay sex and gays enjoying straight sex.

2. I believe it goes more than just flipping a psychological switch.

3. I not only have no psychological desire to every experience gay sex. A man is designed to imput not recieve. What happens when you plug positive to positive and negative to negative on a battery...yeah you got it.

Think about this effect on a energy level. Since all we are is energy or vibration. I think it takes a certain switch inside of the individual shut off to handle positive positive sex.

This is only my thoughts on the matter which are not based on scientific data. So let's not get into a 3 day debate over stupid gay sex stuff.

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
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3. I've noticed that some men born today are not recieving this signal clearly or at all.

4. Somemen are shutting down or turning their backs on this call also because they are too lazy to go throught the current mating rituals.

As far as alot of people not getting laid, i think its a combination of three things....

1. Believe it or not, females are NOT having more sex and more partners than before. the numbers may seem inflated, but thats just because more and more people are marrying later in life. if you look at the REAL STATS, that show average partners per year, which is the only one that matters, that number is actually DROPPING. So I think, if anything, females are becoming increasingly selective on their mates.

2. Its becoming an increasingly competitive society, with education and work in the forefront, and love and sex in the back. it may seem like sex is everywhere on TV, buts thats just the media. More and more people now are spending more time with money/career activities and less and less time on love/dating.

3. The numbers don't look good at all. Stats don't lie. The rate of depression and other psychological disorders is increasing, and so is the percentage of overweight people. the average weight of an american female, is increasing at an astounding weight. Add these two up, and you have an ALARMING number of females and males without the confidence to date much at all.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
As far as alot of people not getting laid, i think its a combination of three things....
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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
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3. I've noticed that some men born today are not recieving this signal clearly or at all.

4. Somemen are shutting down or turning their backs on this call also because they are too lazy to go throught the current mating rituals.
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I think you missed my point. I was reffering to males shutting down their sex drive like this guy. Science has proven that the caucasian race is dying out. Caucasians are not breeding enough to keep up with other races.

This guy is probably caucasian. I do know that most blacks or mexicans cannot shut down sexually because the drive is so strong to conquer p*ussy and breed.

There actually could be other reasons such as global warming and the ozone layer depletion...since darker skinnned races will have a better chance at survival due to the amount of melanomae in the skin.

Maybe this guy should try not wacking off anymore and see if his desire for sex doesn't kick back in. I've read in one e-book on dating that when you wack off you reduce your drive as much as 60%.

No wonder guys like MO-BOMBS and Helmuts spend friday nites on this board...lol...just jokin fools.

As far as your social numbers...they never come to my part of town for these studies....blacks are f*ucking like crazy...as well as mexicans...

we get hella pissed when we go for a few days with P*ussy. no wonder our crime on crime rate is so high...joke..

Whites tend to intellecualize shyt too much and come from the head...Being the owner of my own personal training studio for over 18 years I've noticed a lack of mind to body connection in the majority of caucasians that I've trained...

maybe this is why he can shut it down and not care..

 

[Starman]

"since darker skinnned races will have a better chance at survival due to the amount of melanomae in the skin"


pssst..melanin is the pigmentation in the skin..melanoma is cancer skin cells

perhaps you would have been better off at a bonafide university instead of getting edumcated at "playa's university"

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Starman
"since darker skinnned races will have a better chance at survival due to the amount of melanomae in the skin"


pssst..melanin is the pigmentation in the skin..melanoma is cancer skin cells

perhaps you would have been better off at a bonafide university instead of getting edumcated at "playa's university"

I was waiting for you to catch that fool. I know that melanoma is skin cancer...I have a client who has it right now.

So how did your little survey turn out...get alot of responses???

did you solve a few worthless problems???

your thread looked like it shoulda had cricket chirping in the background when you pulled it up....

 

[Starman]

ahhaha you were waiting for me to catch that right?

the fact that your friend has it, and you STILL mispelled it, isnt helping your cause

your best bet would have been just to edit it right away and save yourself the humiliation

I'll bet you if I designed a wooden dummy of you, it would sell like hotcakes

In the meantime I will send you the "See n Say" toy, I used to learn how to spell with when I was 6..free of charge

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by squirrels

Someone remind me why women are so important? Why we try so hard to get them?

simple , because it beats phucking your own hand....thats a good enough reason for me.

plus they are all soft and squishy, and theyre easy on the eyes and they make you feel all warm and tingly in the balls , and they smell good.

 

[MickoZ]

Re: Re: Expectation / Not always easy the first time.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
1. I disagree with your statements about straights enjoying gay sex and gays enjoying straight sex.

2. I believe it goes more than just flipping a psychological switch.

3. I not only have no psychological desire to every experience gay sex. A man is designed to imput not recieve. What happens when you plug positive to positive and negative to negative on a battery...yeah you got it.

Think about this effect on a energy level. Since all we are is energy or vibration. I think it takes a certain switch inside of the individual shut off to handle positive positive sex.

This is only my thoughts on the matter which are not based on scientific data. So let's not get into a 3 day debate over stupid gay sex stuff.

I say you might. And exactly you do not have a desire for that in your head. But maybe if you tried you would enjoyed it. but you won't try it because you are blocked psychologically about doing it. But if a guy suck you or a girl and you have the eyes closed, chance are you won't know who is sucking you and might enjoy it... ;-) Anyway "may" open all possibilities.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Science has proven that the caucasian race is dying out. Caucasians are not breeding enough to keep up with other races.

Well, birthrates correlate inversely with societal wealth. So in the US, the birthrates of all races are down. The net difference between white birthrates and non-white birthrates is still only 3%, the same as 60 years ago.

We do have substantial Hispanic immigration, which has pushed their numbers up so that they now exceed the number of blacks in the US, making them the largest non-white minority.

Birth rates are actually declining everywhere in the world except subsaharan Africa. Down in Europe, down in Japan, Korea, Singapore. Even China is just at replacement level and declining.

These rates all correlate with societal advancement in wealth, and have nothing to do with racial "breeding" characteristics.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Starman
ahhaha you were waiting for me to catch that right?

the fact that your friend has it, and you STILL mispelled it, isnt helping your cause

your best bet would have been just to edit it right away and save yourself the humiliation

I'll bet you if I designed a wooden dummy of you, it would sell like hotcakes

In the meantime I will send you the "See n Say" toy, I used to learn how to spell with when I was 6..free of charge

I said client not friend had it. Every black in america knows about melanin in the skin as the reason why some folks hated us when we were young...

My boy and I wanted to see how closely you read my posts...as when I misspelled nambla last time.

It's good to see that you hang onto every word mo-bombs...I didn't know that you cared.

I only read the first line and the last line of yours and skim the rest...because you still don't have anything interesting to say yet.

remember how I set you up to play ya self a few months ago during our great debate...bwhaaahahaha! booyahh.

Oh yeah:

I'll bet you if I designed a wooden dummy of you, it would sell like hotcakes

chirp chirp chirp...still the sounds of crickets everytime you try to tell a joke...if you want to laugh just sneak up on ya self in a mirror and that's all you need...bwahhhahahaha.

Lastly:

I told ya to stop calling me. I don't roll that way mo! And tell ya sista she betta have all MY money!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Re: Re: Re: Expectation / Not always easy the first time.

Originally posted by MickoZ
I say you might. And exactly you do not have a desire for that in your head. But maybe if you tried you would enjoyed it. but you won't try it because you are blocked psychologically about doing it. But if a guy suck you or a girl and you have the eyes closed, chance are you won't know who is sucking you and might enjoy it... ;-) Anyway "may" open all possibilities.

A mans hands feels like a mans hands...unless you yourself have small girly hands like mo-bombs. A mans face feels like a mans face...unless you haveno facial hair kid. A man does things the way a man does...women the way a woman does...

You would know the difference! You probably would preffer the man but that's not how I roll baby!

And thats real gay of you to post some shyt like this. wtf is happening to this board??? what is happening to 'real' men in this world...

guy's like that are they types that crack during war and start crying and acting all fem. we are men. if we kill so be it...if we act rough so be it...

save the dainty stuff for the females and let's not pretend to be something we aren't designed for.

 

[icepick]

I think you missed my point. I was reffering to males shutting down their sex drive like this guy. Science has proven that the caucasian race is dying out. Caucasians are not breeding enough to keep up with other races.

Whites tend to intellecualize shyt too much and come from the head...Being the owner of my own personal training studio for over 18 years I've noticed a lack of mind to body connection in the majority of caucasians that I've trained...

Wow, I didn't think anyone else noticed this. It is true though. Probably about half of white people are ultra-repressed and really removed from thier bodies. Like they want to be just a brain in a jar or something.

I wonder if it is genetically based, or culture based. I don't think all caucasians will die out though, because the other half of them are not dorks.

But I do wonder where the "dorkness" comes from.

 

[lerxst]

Originally posted by squirrels
Sex is boring and stupid. A lot of you don't know because you've never done it. When you do, you'll realize too, that it isn't everything everyone's made it out to be. It's just another thing to do.

Hey, it was your first time. Were you expecting fireworks or something? You aren't the first person to be disappointed. It may just not have been good. Try again, and try another girl. What you put into it is what you get out of it. Meaningless sex is just that. Meaningless.

Originally posted by squirrels
I understand the whole DJ attitude, but I am just ready to be done with this entirely. The prize is not worth the challenge. It just isn't.

It is not the prize. You are the prize. Sex is the gift you give her. Put your heart into it, and I don't necessarily mean give your heart to the girl. That's a whole nother subject.

Originally posted by squirrels
I'm wondering why we're here. Why *I* am here.

From Socrates to DMX, no one has been able to give an absolute answer to that question. You are on your own here.

Originally posted by squirrels
Someone remind me why women are so important? Why we try so hard to get them? I dont' want to give up. I want it back...the way I felt before sex. I want to want women. I want to find some pleasure in being around them. I just can't any more.

You are almost getting it. Women are not so important as you are being lead to believe. They should be a part of your life, but not the most important of it. You've had way too much expectation built up and it is diminishing any gain you would get from these experiences that should be highly enjoyable. You are placing way more value on women and sex than there really should be. You need to find the balance. Hey, I love women and sex, but my life is not all about women and sex. There is more to life than that for me, but they are both a part of it, not the focus of it.

Originally posted by squirrels
I'm thinking maybe I oughta start doing mall pickups or some other venue. Maybe the club thing just isn't the way to go for me. It's just discouraging...here's all these girls just looking for an excuse to get sexed and I can't find the inner-drive to give them what they want.

It really does feel awkward.

Ah, now your problem is a little clearer. What you are looking for is a relationship with a girl. And that's cool if that's what you want. Try that, but don't get focused entirely on one girl, but try to set up a team of girls that you can call on. Clubs are great if sex is all you are looking for. But it looks like you want more than that. Try to get to really know the girls you meet, and you'll find that they will give their heart and soul to you. Then, it'll be a whole nother ball game. You have a lot more hurdles to jump when trying to lay the club girl than a street pick up, mainly because of the biatch shields and ASD that comes into play and the group set tactics. When you start off at it, it is a steep learning curve with frequent crashes and burns and the more adept you become at it, the easier it becomes. Clubs are good for meeting a number of new girls in a short time frame, and you can always audition them later for your stable if you got a girl or two that needs your immediate attention.


Now, since Player Supreme brings up the subject, I'll drop some knowledge on ya...

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
1. these are a pair of shoe's that I'd rather not wear thank you.

Me neither.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme 2. Good explanation, And you made some valid points, but you forgot that as "men" we are genetically programmed to seek out females to impregnate. Nature has made this possible so that the species can continue.

True, but since the early 1900s, a certain segment of US society has been trying to induce behavioral changes and control in it's population through means of propaganda and psychological conditioning.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme 3. I've noticed that some men born today are not recieving this signal clearly or at all.

Again, this is the propaganda at work.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme 4. Somemen are shutting down or turning their backs on this call also because they are too lazy to go throught the current mating rituals.

This is by design and the aim of an almost century long process.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme 5. Life is designed so that the best get to reproduce. Look at how many sperm is released and only the strongest of them all will make it to fertalize the egg.

Again, true, but it is in the interest of some that this not happen and there are those who wish to control who does what and how frequently.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme 6. Unfortunately with current civilization weaker people are being born. Now we have societies that will support and cater to those who would not of survived a few thousand years ago. And that's cool to a certain extent.

Now, if there are more weaker people being born, would the weaker people not be easier to control, be docile, and influenced by the stronger people? More ho's for the pimps.

Originally posted by Player_Supreme 7. But in the end only the strongest get to write the history. If this guy is too tired of the chase then maybe it's better for him not to breed. For the rest of us who are willing to stand up and fight for every inch and scratch and claw our way to the top of this heap I salute you for sticking it out..because the chase does get easier when you get too the top. And once you pass over the top it's an easy coast down the other side into the valley of eternal Pus.sy.

Ah, now you are starting to get it Player Supreme, but this is working on a global scale.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by icepick
Wow, I didn't think anyone else noticed this. It is true though. Probably about half of white people are ultra-repressed and really removed from thier bodies. Like they want to be just a brain in a jar or something.

I wonder if it is genetically based, or culture based. I don't think all caucasians will die out though, because the other half of them are not dorks.

But I do wonder where the "dorkness" comes from.

I believe it's a by product of civlilization. In northern Europe whites developed highly developed societies where as in other parts of the world people still had to struggle to survive.

the skills of mind and body where no longer needed for daily survival with farms, shops, barter, trade, ect ect..

so other things developed...it's not that some races are smarter than others...but we all have our own genetic advantages.

society allowed northern europe to develope in other directions...it's not that they all lost this mind body connection either.

ice you must be black??? I'm sure you've done white girls and you've done the poll..."are we different" and they always say "hell yeah" it's developed motor skills and body connection that makes us slightly different. It's not the size of our wands but the use of our physical bodies that makes it different. Wer'e not trapped in our heads...

I was asked to write an report on my sexual techniques...but I've refrain from this because I've tried to teach my white buddy this stuff but some of it doesn't translate well. you gotta be able to feel it. And if your coming from the head instead of the body then it's like describing the color blue to a blind man.

But there is no superiority of any race. We are all good. Just slightly different.

I have two mixed nephews (twins). There mom is white. they are not identical. One has blond hair and blue eyes, exotic looking...the other looks straight up mixed.

the more white looking one is smaller and less developed than the other one. the more mixed looking one has natural motor skill developement that is present in alot of black children. he is a natural dancer and all that...plays ball better than the other one...

it's interesting to watch the two grow and develop and to witness the slight differences.