Mafiosoman14
Don Juan
I havent been here for a long while and I see there are a lot of new comers here. And that is great, I can remeber when i first started here about a year and a half ago. I stuggled with everything.
See I read and read, and some of you may have this same problem, but at first it wasnt as easy as it sounded. You guys know the whole thing about, Just go up look goodand say Hi, thats all it takes.
Well i struggled with this, I relized it is harder to just go up and be like oh god i am going to sound like an idiot if i do this. Well to me it is normal if you do this at first, I found that I needed to just practice my soial skills a lot. Then i started my own thing similar to the DJ bootcamp program. And for all you begginers with the same problem I had, this cured me a lot.
Just start off by going to the local wal mart or something, and just randomly say hi to people, just be a nice guy. But at first start saying hi to guys only. See it is much easier to say hi to your own gender. Then start saying Hi to ladies you would never talk to. Those but ugly women, fat nasty ones. Be polite and say Hi.
One thing I found out that helped me was having a good mind set. And you might have heard this same thing before but, think just like this, "Well, I may sound dumb at first but these people dont ammount to me I am a real man a D.J., They will probly not see me again, and if they do they most likley wont notice me I mean it is a simpkle Hello"
That helped me out greatly so i want all of you to think at least similar to this. Just make sure you are getting used to this mind set. One you do this Start trying to make a convorsation with some people. You want to know what I did when ever I was downtown and the park was crowded I sat next to alot of old bums that love to talk. and talked to them, this helped a lot. and I also passed my history class becuase they tld me all about world war 2 and vietnam. WARNING* once you start talking to them they want to talk for hours.
See the reason this helps, is becuase when you do approach a hot chick you wont just puase and be like "Hi, well see you around, bye." You will accually be used to going up and saying "Hello, My name is D.J. Ca-Dogg, the man of your dreams so whats up baby." I have never said anything like that but you will be used to having somting to talk about.
Once, you learn to approach and get used to it that is the main key. I mean at a larger perspective, that is all you need becuase once you get a conversation. you can use all your D.J. tricks that you have read about.
Just remember you must do this get this through your head "DO NOT HESITATE EVER"
If you hesitate you will not get anywhere in life, I mean I will tell it to you straight, you only have 4 years of high school and i have 3 years left. You cant just sit and be like here goes and then say o sh*t i am going to look like a dumb as. Girls sh*t, eat, and are no higher on the pedestal than you.
I have a girlfriend right now and she is 17, 2 years older than me. it is great everyone knows me as the man at my school. And I worked my way to it. I learned not to hesitate, so after reading this I want you to have the D.J mind set. You dont care what she thinks, becuase when you get the balls to approach trust me man she will **** a brick when you go up for the handshake. I have seen it when i Have puilled this. They go crazy.
And a few more things, you know that you are the man. Dont let anyone else know that. Just let yourself know.
And I know a lot of people say to be this mysterious guy or whatever. That is cool if you want to do that. But I am a D.J. (like at a skating rink acually music guy) and I am a more outgoing person by far. And this is sorta tricky but i think its a lot better than being quite. You have to know the right time to talk. and to make jokes and the right time to suit up and listen. I have found this out and it is like godly powers. every girl i talk to describe me as cute, funn, outgoing, and they dig this a lot.
Well that is all I can think of now just wanted t write a good post and get to know some of you. I hope this helped you a Little.
Heres a quick Re-Cap of what we talked about:
* Remeber Hesitation is not accepted. DO NOT DO IT!
* You know you are the man and only you know , dont tell anyone else.
* If you are funny use it. But only at the right time. like if she says somthing and you can say something that relates to that then say it. Just remember comedy is all about timing.
* You only have four years of high school and plenty of women to meet. from expreriances, dont start a long term relationship they are hard to get out of. You want t get as many chicks as you can.
* There is always room to improve yourself and you must no matter what it is. Larning how to do something new; Skate, Have sex, I dont know any thing. You can always improve your body by weight lifting. Chicks also dig the tan guys, dont feel bad going to a tanning booth. (there are also hott chicks that work there)
* Always practice your social skills with people.
* Take all this information and use it. I want everyone to start approching and stop hesitating.
Thats all for now! Mafiosoman14
See I read and read, and some of you may have this same problem, but at first it wasnt as easy as it sounded. You guys know the whole thing about, Just go up look goodand say Hi, thats all it takes.
Well i struggled with this, I relized it is harder to just go up and be like oh god i am going to sound like an idiot if i do this. Well to me it is normal if you do this at first, I found that I needed to just practice my soial skills a lot. Then i started my own thing similar to the DJ bootcamp program. And for all you begginers with the same problem I had, this cured me a lot.
Just start off by going to the local wal mart or something, and just randomly say hi to people, just be a nice guy. But at first start saying hi to guys only. See it is much easier to say hi to your own gender. Then start saying Hi to ladies you would never talk to. Those but ugly women, fat nasty ones. Be polite and say Hi.
One thing I found out that helped me was having a good mind set. And you might have heard this same thing before but, think just like this, "Well, I may sound dumb at first but these people dont ammount to me I am a real man a D.J., They will probly not see me again, and if they do they most likley wont notice me I mean it is a simpkle Hello"
That helped me out greatly so i want all of you to think at least similar to this. Just make sure you are getting used to this mind set. One you do this Start trying to make a convorsation with some people. You want to know what I did when ever I was downtown and the park was crowded I sat next to alot of old bums that love to talk. and talked to them, this helped a lot. and I also passed my history class becuase they tld me all about world war 2 and vietnam. WARNING* once you start talking to them they want to talk for hours.
See the reason this helps, is becuase when you do approach a hot chick you wont just puase and be like "Hi, well see you around, bye." You will accually be used to going up and saying "Hello, My name is D.J. Ca-Dogg, the man of your dreams so whats up baby." I have never said anything like that but you will be used to having somting to talk about.
Once, you learn to approach and get used to it that is the main key. I mean at a larger perspective, that is all you need becuase once you get a conversation. you can use all your D.J. tricks that you have read about.
Just remember you must do this get this through your head "DO NOT HESITATE EVER"
If you hesitate you will not get anywhere in life, I mean I will tell it to you straight, you only have 4 years of high school and i have 3 years left. You cant just sit and be like here goes and then say o sh*t i am going to look like a dumb as. Girls sh*t, eat, and are no higher on the pedestal than you.
I have a girlfriend right now and she is 17, 2 years older than me. it is great everyone knows me as the man at my school. And I worked my way to it. I learned not to hesitate, so after reading this I want you to have the D.J mind set. You dont care what she thinks, becuase when you get the balls to approach trust me man she will **** a brick when you go up for the handshake. I have seen it when i Have puilled this. They go crazy.
And a few more things, you know that you are the man. Dont let anyone else know that. Just let yourself know.
And I know a lot of people say to be this mysterious guy or whatever. That is cool if you want to do that. But I am a D.J. (like at a skating rink acually music guy) and I am a more outgoing person by far. And this is sorta tricky but i think its a lot better than being quite. You have to know the right time to talk. and to make jokes and the right time to suit up and listen. I have found this out and it is like godly powers. every girl i talk to describe me as cute, funn, outgoing, and they dig this a lot.
Well that is all I can think of now just wanted t write a good post and get to know some of you. I hope this helped you a Little.
Heres a quick Re-Cap of what we talked about:
* Remeber Hesitation is not accepted. DO NOT DO IT!
* You know you are the man and only you know , dont tell anyone else.
* If you are funny use it. But only at the right time. like if she says somthing and you can say something that relates to that then say it. Just remember comedy is all about timing.
* You only have four years of high school and plenty of women to meet. from expreriances, dont start a long term relationship they are hard to get out of. You want t get as many chicks as you can.
* There is always room to improve yourself and you must no matter what it is. Larning how to do something new; Skate, Have sex, I dont know any thing. You can always improve your body by weight lifting. Chicks also dig the tan guys, dont feel bad going to a tanning booth. (there are also hott chicks that work there)
* Always practice your social skills with people.
* Take all this information and use it. I want everyone to start approching and stop hesitating.
Thats all for now! Mafiosoman14 