Yo Troops,
I'm a little older than most of you here. But one thing that I have found is that when you are beyond college age, your groups of babe targets tend to scatter.
The babes are older, more jaded, and have been through a lot of different stuff and it effects the places they go, AND how they act when they get there (see parties, clubs, happy hours, etc.). The B!tch shields are up MOST of the time.
I've met babes through some sort of social affiliations and I've met them through cold approaches. And I can tell you that the last 3 babes I have F-Closed have ALL been from the result of cold approaches.
My success rate has been consistently higher through cold approaches than meeting babes in other ways. Babes are a little less guarded at places they consider Guys-on-the-prowl Free Zones.lol
Why? My best guess is that when babes already think they kind of know you, or generally think they kind of know the type of guys in certain venues, they jump to conclusions. These conclusions that they reach about us are usually at worst-negative, or at best, uninteresting.
However, when I meet a chick on the street, in the grocery store, at the DMV, etc, it somehow comes across to them as more special. Not to mention the whole, natural alpha-male vibe you give off when you show a babe you have the balls to stop her in her tracks.
I think all of this plays into their exciting, "meeting a mystery man" fantasies that they read about, or always see on TV.
Quite frankly, the babes I generally meet through some type of common affiliation like work, church, or hobbies, often take for granted that they already know me. Most of them communicate to me "He's nothing special" through their low ILs along with a slew of needless sh!t tests.
Cold approaches have been my lifeline. They work well for me.
Peace...one day.