relationship/prom advice ASAP!?

[dilpill34]

okay, so where do i start
me and my girlfriend go to different skools
and one of her friends just recently called me and wants me to do my best to get her to go to prom but her friend will most likely have a date and we know it will be rly uncomfortable for my girlfriend she wants me to go but idk

i rly would love to go and buy our tickets and totally suprise her seeing as the weekend before prom is kinda an anniversery for us

one problem is is that when we first started dating we had both gotten outta bad relationships and had both been rly hurt and it gave us a kinda common ground to build what we both feel to be the most important and serious relationship of our lives

but im not sure yet cuz i havent rly talked to her but im pretty sure her ex will be there and to cut a long story short he rly hurt her physically and emotionally and he still continues to do so more emotionally now but she's done everything she can to stop it but the only thing left is letting me step in but its something she doesnt want me to have to get involved in

and if he is there i know he's dyin to "meet" me and i'd love to "meet" him bcuz ive gotta few choice words lol

but i rly love her and shes made it very important that she doesnt want me to get involved



i dont usually use these forum kinda things but my absolute best friend is also hers and she tends to take even the smallest thing i say these days twist it up to make it seem like shes got it all figured out and spread rumors to make her own life more interestin so i got nobody to rly ask about this


so any1 got sum kinda advice

should i go thru with the prom idea and what if her ex is there he was very abusive and controlling and fought alot of ppl for just lookin at her im not scared of the guy one bit but i know things could turn into the one thing i promised her i wouldnt get involved in

 

[Vogel]

Just go through with the prom idea, and do'nt be scared of her ex, if he gets violent... he's the one loosing, since violence really dosn't solve much.

 

[dilpill34]

its not soo much the violence at all that im avoiding its just that he refuses to move on and the problem is i know if i took her it'd generate drama and it would make the night for her just a wreck and i couldnt do that for her cuz i love her soo much and would do anything to make her happy but i dont know if she would be happy with there being any drama

 

[S.Y.L]

dont let some faggot ruin your prom, its the highlight of your high school career bud.


Dont even pay attention to him

 

[intrextrovert]

Go to her prom and have her come to yours.

I'm not sure how you'll get around the ex, but you will prob have to just deal with him with words if he gives you trouble. Though I am an advocate for beating ass, you don't want the prom to be characterized by that for her, and more importantly he probably has a crew there that would be ready to step in while you don't. I don't think he'd try something during his prom though, so you're all good.