ok guys,
I was going out with my ex for about 8 months when I found out that her and her ex before me had been e-mailing each other saying how they still had feelings for each other(the guy is my mate as well), so as a result we split up, shortly after her and the other guy got together but it didn't work and they split up after a few weeks. She told me that she had never got over me and that she was only trying to make feelings for him that she didn't have and that she still liked me. We decided that we would give it a while before we decided to date each other again as the other guy is very hurt and is finding it very dificult to move on and also to make sure both our feelings are genuine for each other. The problem I am writing about is that the girl is very sensitive and she found out that I had pulled a few girls lately(she had my hotmail password and found an e-mail from one of the girls I had pulled), she got mad and said that I had ruined any chance that we had together and that since she read the e-mail she has been physically sick all week and that she had no choice but to try and get over me...
what should I do guys...
as it stands we were both single and I feel i had every right to pull
but I know where she is coming from as well
what should I say to her???
what smart answer can I give her to get her to wise up and relaise it was only a pull
please help...
I was going out with my ex for about 8 months when I found out that her and her ex before me had been e-mailing each other saying how they still had feelings for each other(the guy is my mate as well), so as a result we split up, shortly after her and the other guy got together but it didn't work and they split up after a few weeks. She told me that she had never got over me and that she was only trying to make feelings for him that she didn't have and that she still liked me. We decided that we would give it a while before we decided to date each other again as the other guy is very hurt and is finding it very dificult to move on and also to make sure both our feelings are genuine for each other. The problem I am writing about is that the girl is very sensitive and she found out that I had pulled a few girls lately(she had my hotmail password and found an e-mail from one of the girls I had pulled), she got mad and said that I had ruined any chance that we had together and that since she read the e-mail she has been physically sick all week and that she had no choice but to try and get over me...
what should I do guys...
as it stands we were both single and I feel i had every right to pull
but I know where she is coming from as well
what should I say to her???
what smart answer can I give her to get her to wise up and relaise it was only a pull
please help...