Relationship or Bachelorhood?

goldStandard

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2009
Messages
30
Reaction score
2
A few weeks back I met a highschool English teacher at starbucks named "s". I went up to her because she's attractive. Turns out she's my age (24) and she's got her head straight. Barely drinks, has a good work ethic, takes care of her body and runs at least 3 miles a day to train for marathons. She's pretty and to top it off, she makes me feel good about myself. "S", being a teacher has that motherly touch.

Lately, we've been talking on a more intimate level and I'm quite confident that if I pursue her we'll be getting into a relationship in no time.

The question is: "Do I want to get in a relationship? or Remain a Bachelor?"

About me:
I am a megalomaniac who owns a 5bdrm house, a business, and has no problem dealing with women. I work out everyday to keep my body in shape and I am quite certain that I will have a great bachelorhood if I remain single.

the "What if" game:
I am "young", I have a lot to experience. So, If I remain single, I'll definitely be where I want to be in life. I know in the future I'll be dating models, business execs, 10's, 11's, 12's you name her -- I'll date her. I'll be rich, fit, and adventurous.

But what if get into a relationship with "s"? The thought of a relationship makes me want to vomit, but I am too curious for my own good to see what it would be like to give it a go with this teacher.

Any thoughts? Relationships tend to restrict an alpha males limitations. "The skies the limit" is my mentality, however women are my weakness and I know I could lose everything to a woman. But is there such thing as "a good relationship when I see one"?
 

foomee

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2006
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
Age
37
Location
California
goldStandard said:
I am "young", I have a lot to experience. So, If I remain single, I'll definitely be where I want to be in life. I know in the future I'll be dating models, business execs, 10's, 11's, 12's you name her -- I'll date her. I'll be rich, fit, and adventurous.
- You are only 24. That is very young. When women age they become less attractive, when men age they become more attractive (up to a certain point). Either way you are young and you know in the future you can still get other women...good women at that. So why not give it a go for a few months and if it doesn't work out, end it. After you can easily pick-up where you left off being a bachelor.


goldStandard said:
The thought of a relationship makes me want to vomit, but I am too curious for my own good to see what it would be like to give it a go with this teacher.
- They say curiosity killed the cat...but they also say "you'll always miss 100% of the shots you don't take". I think deep down you will regret it if you don't. In movies I always see the guy say "I let her get away". So don't let this one get away :up:

goldStandard said:
- But is there such thing as "a good relationship when I see one"?
Of course.
 
Top