Stop making excuses for her
We all know what happened. she rejected his kiss when she turned her head.
that means she did not want a kiss because she wasnt interested or found him not attractive.
But everybody wants to analyze what her reasons might of been but we all saw her actions. she didnt want a kiss. she turned her head on him.
she rejected a simple peck on the lips. that isn't a big deal. when a girl turns her head for just a peck that is her telling you she has no interest or attraction for you. Any girl would take a peck from a guy who she likes or thinks is attractive.
I've kissed girls who I barely met. You guys probably have too. they were interested. she wasn't.
A kiss is the first part for attraction. If you cant get a quick goodbye peck then your chances arent very good for anything else esp when she turns her head on you. she would of even let you kiss her cheek if she was halfway interested.
I would make her prove her interest to you even before you hang out again. make her call or text you make her show you some interest before you hang out again or try for a kiss. because she will reject you a second time.
Look at all these excuses below
Robyn923b said:
Youuu wasted a huge opportunity. Some girls just want you to own the moment and kiss them anyway. They are emotional being that thrive on the excitement of men chasing them. THey want to feel wanted; it makes them feel good about themselves. This is the exact reason why you see that slutty girl at a club who is barely wearing clothes, turn down all the guys who go up to her while pretending to be annoyed. She want an ego boost because most of these women are insecure.
When a girl turns her face, you kiss her neck. That's right...kiss her neck. She opened up a bigger door and she's more likely to get intimate after that kiss. If she smiles, then you're on fire. If she reacts negatively, then it's better to be too aggressive than to be a pu$$y.
how did he waste a opportunity? she refused his kiss. she didn't want his kiss. that was the problem not about not feeling wanted. i'm sure she would like him slobbering on her neck. she did react negative. she turned her head.
omkara said:
So I don't believe on here anymore when people on here say, oh she gave you the cheek turn, she's not interested. Maybe, it's not that simple? It could have been ASD, or she just doesn't feel comfortable kissing some random guy she just met. Guys on here want to make these automatic rules, but I don't think it always plays out like that.
more excuses. she went out with him. dates usually kiss when the date is over. she refused his kiss. she wasnt interested. thats what girls do when they dont want to kiss you. stop making excuses. we saw her negative actions.
ARrocket said:
Definitely meet up with her and try again. Grab drinks with her this time...
The problem, most likely, is that you weren't very physical during the date, and waited until the end to "make your move." Probably just caught her by surprise is all. Make sure you're escalating properly. It can be hard on a walk to kiss her before the date is over, but if you go for a drink, go for it earlier in the date (after some good escalation, of course!).
another excuse. he was trying to be physical with her. she rejected him. getting drinks wont help for a second date when she refused his kiss the first time.
Slick Rick-NZ said:
Hey definatley see her again.
She is definatley interested. Some girls are like this and she will take abit more time than often to get into bed but it wouldb worth it.
Don't listen to the other guys. You havn't blown your chance because you can try kiss her again and again and pressure her for sex and she dosn't mind it and waits until she feels comfortable. But a more outgoing chick that is alot more keen (slutty) if you kissed her and she didnt respond she would lose interest and it would be over. I would suggest on your next date you don't go for the kiss. Instead ask may I kiss you? She might reply no not yet thats cool it dosn't lower your value with this type of chick. If she replys yes which might appeal to her because you are being sensitive , you could then move in, or say I look forward to doing so some time. Then the power is in your hands and you can then kiss her anywhere any time. If you would like to know a great source that explains her type and everything email me and I will send you the link.
I wouldn't take any advice from Slick here. He texts girls that doesnt know who he is and he thinks they are playing hard to get.
she refused his kiss. she isnt interested. she wont even kiss him and you want him to pressure her for sex when she wont even kiss him?
that is what happened she refused.
you dont ask to kiss a girl. you dont ask them anything. you just do it. you kiss her without asking her. she will tell him no if he asks her. when she says no again how would that not lower any value? that would be 2 rejects. Slick doesnt know too much.
Kerpal said:
She didn't make me feel stupid, I didn't really care. Plus she texted me that night and the next day so she must have at least some interest.
you saw her interest when you had the chance. you saw the back of her head.
you must care or you wouldnt make a thread.
a text doesnt mean anything. im sure she was texting guys that she kissed and slept with too. until you see positive actions from her words dont mean a thing. you saw negative actions from her. girls do text guys. that doesnt mean they want to make out or hook up. it is just a text.
you saw her actions. she refused a simple quick kiss. I wouldnt give her any high priority. make her show you interest. hang out with a girl who wont turn her head on you.
Im just trying to help you out so she doesnt do it again to you if you go out again. hang out with other girls that wont reject your kiss.
if a girl has he slightest bit of interest in you. she will give you a peck. this girl refused you. i would say move on because if you dont get a peck you wont be getting anything else from her.
