Reinventing myself at college---how?

EdHunter

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In a little under a week, I'm headed off to Amherst College to begin my "higher education." It's a couple thousand miles from where I live now,and it'll be a totally new start. I want to capitalize on it.

Any advice/books to read? I'm downloading Carnegie's "Make Friends and Influence People" as we speak.
 

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Magic Bullets...
48 laws of power...
Create social Circles when You Just start off...

Gte as many hot woman as You can into your own social circle and sum guys...

MAKE FRIENDS WITH THEM.... dont try to seduce them...

Your college experience will be amazing if you do that on first date

you can PM me for more details
 

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You want to reinvent yourself?

Forget all the other crap you're hearing, you are being blinded.

You have to work on yourself, forget making sure you make friends with cool guys and hot girls on the first day.

Work on YOURSELF.

If you want to become a new person, take on a new lifestyle.

Pick up new sports, start weight training, try out new activities, become involved in things you weren't before.

If you want to change yourself, you need to take a good look deep into yourself, learn about yourself and understand what it is needed to change in order for you to reach your goals.
 

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How to create a better social circle

I assume u are talking about getting a better social circle, getting in to all the parties and being known as the guy to call and hang out with, and the one that all the girls want to date

Your first few weeks are important, everyone is new and getting to know each other.

1st be friendly w/ everyone and get everyones number.

*Get people together to go out.* Call up ppl that you think are cool and do stuff. Ex. movies, work-out, get somethin to eat, studyin, *parties*. If u get a bunch of ppl together to go to the movies, it social proofs you as the cool guy. Also, later on, ppl will invite you to do things w/ them to return the favor. This lets you meet more ppl.

Become friends with a lot of girls. DONT hit on them. There are sooo many girls out there. If you are a cool guy, they will introduce you to their friends and you get instant social proof. It makes things a lot easier. Also, some girls join sororities :)

After awhile, ppl will form groups that they hang out w/ 90% of the time. When, u have met some cool ppl, just start inviting the same ppl out over and over again. As they get comfortable around each-other, they will form a nice small group.
*Note*: One thing I have noticed is that u need a small group of ppl for them to get comfortable around each-other, somethin like 3-4 ppl. So you invite, say, just 3 ppl out w/ you to dinner. Start the conversations, then SHUT UP and let them talk and gain rapport.

I hope this helps, if u need more help/clarification PM me
 

Eugene123

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Hypnotica has a program called reinvent yourself. you shoudl try it. :trouble:
 

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It depends of who you are right now. If you're Shy don't expect to be a social butterfly or something like that. Focus on getting good grades and asking a lot of questions in classes and everything will be fine.
 
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