Regional Differences in Women?

[sstype]

Do they exist? Or are women the same all around the country?

I've noticed with women where I live (Deep south) is they are very reserved and unapproachable in public. Typically they prefer to meet guys through their social circle, work or school. Dating or hanging out with strangers seems to be a huge no-no. When I go out to bars and clubs, most of the women are clustered in big groups and very rarely do I see any sort of intermingling of the sexes unless its guys they're already friends with.

Women here still expect to be chased/courted/pursued by the guy. There doesn't seem to be a lot of casual dating going on.
They despise players. They also look down on married men who hit on them....so much for social proof.
I've talked to many other guys who've confirmed this.
My best friend, no joke, got blackballed at our college when word got out he had hooked up with multiple women in his classes. This guy used to model in L.A. He went almost a whole year dry. I think a lot of the alpha male advice seems to fall flat here because I see plenty of women with normal looking "AFCs." Anecdotal experience, but I found the more AFC and persistent I was the more responsive women would be. They eat the sappy romantic stuff up.

As for me, the more open-minded, friendly and laid back girls ive run into were from the west coast and north.

I know not all women act the same, but a local region/city's culture can have a significant influence on how the majority of people behave and view dating. What are your experiences?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Wasup playa. Girls around the country will be very different. In a city where there isn't as many dimes the girls that will be dimes will be more stuck up and harder to get. In places like California there are more dimes so the dimes are more receptive and less stuck up then in a smaller place.

I don't know what to say about your friend. I go to college out here west of Atlanta. I've been throught a lot of draws out here and it has messed me up with a few woman. But deep down I know that it brings attraction to them. Who wants to mess with a person who noone is attracted too. Tell your boy to keep doing his tihng. Just remember to keep his priorities in order.

To answer your question. Of course there will be cultural differences depending on where your from.

 

[Zerro]

I've noticed with women where I live (Deep south) is they are very reserved and unapproachable in public. Typically they prefer to meet guys through their social circle, work or school. Dating or hanging out with strangers seems to be a huge no-no. When I go out to bars and clubs, most of the women are clustered in big groups and very rarely do I see any sort of intermingling of the sexes unless its guys they're already friends with.

I live in the Chicago suburbs and you pretty much just described the situation up here as well. Unless one of the chick's friends already knows you then good luck getting the time of day out of her. Even when I went to college in the city itself things weren't much better for me.

 

[Robert28]

the southern women myth is nothing more then a scam. sounds good, but it isn't what it seems. I am born and raised in the deep south (South Carolina) and i admit i have had WAY more success with women from up north then i have that were "southern belles".

 

[sstype]

Wasup playa. Girls around the country will be very different. In a city where there isn't as many dimes the girls that will be dimes will be more stuck up and harder to get. In places like California there are more dimes so the dimes are more receptive and less stuck up then in a smaller place.

I don't know what to say about your friend. I go to college out here west of Atlanta. I've been throught a lot of draws out here and it has messed me up with a few woman. But deep down I know that it brings attraction to them. Who wants to mess with a person who noone is attracted too. Tell your boy to keep doing his tihng. Just remember to keep his priorities in order.

To answer your question. Of course there will be cultural differences depending on where your from.

Hey PrettyBoy. Just curious do you go to UWG?

Yeah women are def attracted to my friend. He used to model in L.A. He's got
decent game but it always seems to backfire. Women here have this really insane fear of being "used" for sex. Last December I hooked up with one of my neighbors who was born and raised here but get this.....insisted I do her in the ass because she wanted to save her vag*na for her future husband. LOL women logic. And afterwards I told her I just wanted to casually see each other was the last time I heard of her. I had plenty of instances of women getting upset with me just for getting them into making out/kissing stage but then they found out I had no intention of seriously dating them.

So yeah the attraction can be there but the sexually repressive social conditioning here seems to be a powerful counterbalance to it. Must have something do with the fact that there is a church literally on every block in Atlanta.

 

[sstype]

the southern women myth is nothing more then a scam. sounds good, but it isn't what it seems. I am born and raised in the deep south (South Carolina) and i admit i have had WAY more success with women from up north then i have that were "southern belles".

Yeah I think southern hospitality as a whole is a myth. Should be called southern hostility. My last job was full of southern good ole boys and they were nice and polite to your face but the biggest group of backstabbers and gossipers. I lost my job over god knows what.....must have offended or rubbed someone the wrong way but of course I never knew what I did/said because no one bothered to be upfront with me. My current job I work for both my bosses are from NY and PA are outgoing yet brash so they don't hold back if you're doing something they don't like or approve. It can be intimidating at times but I'll take brutal honesty any day over fakery and treacherousness.

Most outgoing people (guys and girls) I've met have been from New York or Cali.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Yea, SS. I go there. You go to school near Atlanta?

 

[ScottMustaine]

Girls around country are different. Because of social norms. In cities they are more open, flirty etc, but for example in villages ( farms whatever) , they are more 'closed' , expect for a guy to buy her something, consider that if two guys like her, they should rival each other in everything ( and even fight). At least in my country, that is , in villages. In city if you would fight for a girl you'll act like a redneck. In villages if you don't act as a redneck, you'll be called out as a *****.

 

[sstype]

Yea, SS. I go there. You go to school near Atlanta?

Hey PrettyBoy....I went to KSU north of Atlanta.

Girls around country are different. Because of social norms. In cities they are more open, flirty etc, but for example in villages ( farms whatever) , they are more 'closed' , expect for a guy to buy her something, consider that if two guys like her, they should rival each other in everything ( and even fight). At least in my country, that is , in villages. In city if you would fight for a girl you'll act like a redneck. In villages if you don't act as a redneck, you'll be called out as a *****.

Yeah, I never found women to be open/flirty even though I live in a major city. Since we're in the deep south, women still believe in chivalry and having a man do all the work to "win her over." This is counter intuitive to a lot of advice on here that tells guys to play it cool and never show too much initial interest. Usually the guys that do the best here are the ones who are incredibly persistent (not in a sexual way) almost to the point of annoying the girl....but they eat it up here.

I remember dancing with this girl that her friends set me up with and she told me nervously, "I don't normally dance with strangers" She could have been lying, but still the fact that she had to bring it up showed just how strongly conditioned lots of women here to avoid interactions with strange guys.

We went to a bar last night and I noticed that even the bartenders, DJ, and the young cop working the place had no women flocking to them. That tells me that a lot of the women that frequent these places have no intention of going out of their way to meet men no matter how "alpha" they may seem

 

[sstype]

Yea, SS. I go there. You go to school near Atlanta?

Hey PrettyBoy....I went to KSU north of Atlanta.

Girls around country are different. Because of social norms. In cities they are more open, flirty etc, but for example in villages ( farms whatever) , they are more 'closed' , expect for a guy to buy her something, consider that if two guys like her, they should rival each other in everything ( and even fight). At least in my country, that is , in villages. In city if you would fight for a girl you'll act like a redneck. In villages if you don't act as a redneck, you'll be called out as a *****.

Yeah, I never found women to be open/flirty even though I live in a major city. Since we're in the deep south, women still believe in chivalry and having a man do all the work to "win her over." This is counter intuitive to a lot of advice on here that tells guys to play it cool and never show too much initial interest. Usually the guys that do the best here are the ones who are incredibly persistent (not in a sexual way) almost to the point of annoying the girl....but they eat it up here.

I remember dancing with this girl that her friends set me up with and she told me nervously, "I don't normally dance with strangers" She could have been lying, but still the fact that she had to bring it up showed just how strongly conditioned lots of women here to avoid interactions with strange guys.

We went to a bar last night and I noticed that even the bartenders, DJ, and the young cop working the place had no women flocking to them. That tells me that a lot of the women that frequent these places have no intention of going out of their way to meet men no matter how "alpha" they may seem

 

[bigneil]

Absolutely.

Women from the northeast are cold but honest.
Women from the southwest are friendly but dishonest.
Women from the northwest are clicky, but will treat you like family once you are accepted.
Women from Florida seem like they were raised at the mall.
Women from Texas are God's gift to men.

 

[Slickster]

I spent a week in Mobile Alabama few months back (I'm from Canada) and the girls I encountered were some of the friendliest people I've met. Even the very hot ones were approachable and quite nice when I spoke with them.

I find that women do react differently based on where you are but I don't think it is a "regional" thing. Some people think girls are different in a big city as opposed to a small town too. They are in some ways but it really depends on the city or town.

I think it has more to do with the "type" of place you are in.

I find that in really nice cities or small towns it can be tough to meet hot women. The place is desirable and so are they, so their value is inflated. I live in a really nice smaller city right now and even the 7's think they are 10's. They can "afford" to act this way because the demand is high.

Conversely I have been in some real sh!t hole places where the hottest girls see a good looking guy and are so receptive almost to the point of throwing themselves at me. Almost like they are begging me to get them the hell out of there to a better place.

 

[Mike32ct]

Absolutely.

Women from the northeast are cold but honest.

Cosign, by a New Englander.

Women from the southwest are friendly but dishonest.
Women from the northwest are clicky, but will treat you like family once you are accepted.
Women from Florida seem like they were raised at the mall.

No experience here, so can't comment.

Women from Texas are God's gift to men.

I travel to Texas a lot. I can vouch for this.