Reflections on double meanings

[jhonny9546]

Hi everyone,

This diary serves more as a report on my experiences with double meanings and sexual innuendos, which obviously serve as a trigger to increase that sexual tension you must create as man. And, as You will understand, it's something I really lack.

I'm very good at making a woman feel comfortable, going directly to vulnerability, and I found out that's my natural attitude, since I'm very logic. But I've understood that this state of vulnerability it's what a man should give her with an eyedropper. Very rarely. Instead a man should focus on being playful, and double meaning and sexual innuendos are the way to go. Then, you go for a abrupt brake, and enter vulnerability with that increased sexual tension.

It’s helpful to take a step back and reflect on what I could have said at those times, how I could have expressed myself.
I won’t always be able to respond immediately or understand that the woman has thrown me a "phrase" just as bait, expecting me to go deeper and provoke her. That's what men of experience here do fast.

I would like to learn how to do this in two ways: the "friendly" approach, which is still sexual, so I can use it in everyday life, bwith colleagues at work, in groups of friends, and with strangers. The other approach is to be able to do it in a more "intimate" and "sexual" way, that is, when I am in a more charged scenario where heavy sexual tension needs to be created, such as on a date, in the car, watching a movie, or during sexual foreplay.

 

[jhonny9546]

#1 ​

Scenario: at Work alone with this Married Female Colleague. We were doing some "manual" labour reorganizing stuff and at some point She says. (She's attracted)

What happened:
Speech:
She: My head is spinning, I've been standing too much, I have a low blood pressure attack (Basically a Bait)
Me: Saying nothing but going to take a chair for her, so She can sit.
She: Thanks.

What should happen instead:
Approach: Friendly, cause She's married
Corrected Speech to make tension:
She: My head is spinning, I've been standing too much, I have a low blood pressure attack
Me: Wait here a moment; I'm going to get the doctor's tools. Don't you want the doctor to take your blood pressure?
or
Me: Sometimes it's just your heart beating faster for someone..else!


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[jhonny9546]

#2​

Scenario: at Work alone with this Single Mom Female Colleague. She's just coming to my room to ask office help. (She's not attracted)

What happened:
Speech:
Me: I didn't see you yesterday in the GYM
She: Yes I'm having so many problems lately with back pain
Me: Oh that must be too much shopping (She likes shopping and I was making fun that their bags always are heavy)
She: Laugh

What should happen instead:
Approach: She's a single mom, so this could be more Sexual. I would accept ONS from her. Nothing special tho, She's a 5/6
Corrected Speech to make tension:
Me: I didn't see you yesterday in the GYM
She: Yes I'm having so many problems lately with back pain
Me: Oh You should try to book a night of full sleep in my bed. These days it's really comfortable.
or
Me: I know a very good local masseur for that kind of problem. If you want I could give You his number (Then I would show my Whatsapp Profile, and since She have yet saved my contact, She would understand that at this point)



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[Westminster]

Be careful my friend. You could well end up getting yourself reported to HR.

 

[jhonny9546]

#3​

Scenario: at my dentist alone with this Woman. I don't know if She's single or married, no sings on her hand of any ring. She's a 6.5, probably 32 or so. She's the dentist assistant. While the main dentist leave us alone.

What happened:
Speech:
She: What's your current job, What do you do?
Me: I work with Real Estate.
She: Oh do you do here in the city?
Me: Yes I'm in Street blabla
She: Cool I know that place.
Me: Cool

What should happen instead:
Approach: Since She's a 6.5 I could go Sexual.
Corrected Speech to make tension:
She: What's your current job, What do you do?
Me: I work with Real Estate.
She: Oh do you do here in the city?
Me: Yes I'm in Street blabla
She: Cool I know that place.
Me: You know. You could say I help people find their dream... homes! (strong EC)
or
Me: You know. You could say I help young couples find their nest. Do you have a nest yet?

Then she would say "something" and I would reply with "Well my nest is not ready yet, I need a that woman touch to make a good one"

 

[jhonny9546]

Be careful my friend. You could well end up getting yourself reported to HR.

I can relate to what you're saying, and that's why there are two types of double meanings: the friendly one and the sexual one.
I need to know when to use each. At the moment, the sexual tends to come out in the most intimate situations, where I can be very uninhibited. However, I struggle to express the friendly one with women in general, as well as the sexual one in non-intimate situations with women who interest me and whom I find attractive, especially when they may have thrown out a hint that I didn't pick up on.

I have many "cheeky" friends in this regard, and they attract a lot of women. This behavior makes them appear alpha, even though they are quite insecure if you really get to know them. That’s one reason they don’t have LTR's.

I'm a nice guy, and when a woman encounters a nice guy with a backbone who can deliver double entendres like that, she finds him very attractive. It's also really enjoyable to engage in this kind of banter with male friends, as it helps solidify friendships in a lighthearted way.

 

[jhonny9546]

#4​

Scenario: at a party with many people, now me and an engaged female friend alone while she's taking a coffe, and I'm waiting behind her. (She's attracted by me) (She's a 7)

What happened:
Speech:
She: Oh You don't drink coffe, but You like Black Tea. Is that right? (She remember many things of my preferences, like this one)
Me: Oh You're right! You always have good memory.
She: Laugh


What should happen instead:
Approach: She's engaged, but I would consider Her if She goes single again. So this one should've been sexual
Corrected Speech to make tension:
She: Oh You don't drink coffe, but You like Black Tea. Is that right? (She remember many things of my preferences, like this one)
Me: Absolutely! I guess I just prefer my drinks to be a little more... steeped... in flavor! (Using EC and KINO on her shoulder or arm).



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[We_ArE_VeNOM]

#1 ​

Scenario: at Work alone with this Married Female Colleague. We were doing some "manual" labour reorganizing stuff and at some point She says. (She's attracted)

What happened:
Speech:
She: My head is spinning, I've been standing too much, I have a low blood pressure attack (Basically a Bait)
Me: Saying nothing but going to take a chair for her, so She can sit.
She: Thanks.

What should happen instead:
Approach: Friendly, cause She's married
Corrected Speech to make tension:
She: My head is spinning, I've been standing too much, I have a low blood pressure attack
Me: Wait here a moment; I'm going to get the doctor's tools. Don't you want the doctor to take your blood pressure?
or
Me: Sometimes it's just your heart beating faster for someone..else!


--- please make sure to partecipate and suggest what you would do in this precise scenario ---

Leave married women alone, how about that one?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

#2​

Scenario: at Work alone with this Single Mom Female Colleague. She's just coming to my room to ask office help. (She's not attracted)

What happened:
Speech:
Me: I didn't see you yesterday in the GYM
She: Yes I'm having so many problems lately with back pain
Me: Oh that must be too much shopping (She likes shopping and I was making fun that their bags always are heavy)
She: Laugh

What should happen instead:
Approach: She's a single mom, so this could be more Sexual. I would accept ONS from her. Nothing special tho, She's a 5/6
Corrected Speech to make tension:
Me: I didn't see you yesterday in the GYM
She: Yes I'm having so many problems lately with back pain
Me: Oh You should try to book a night of full sleep in my bed. These days it's really comfortable.
or
Me: I know a very good local masseur for that kind of problem. If you want I could give You his number (Then I would show my Whatsapp Profile, and since She have yet saved my contact, She would understand that at this point)

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Me: I didn't see you yesterday in the GYM
She: Yes I'm having so many problems lately with back pain
Me: Oh You should try to book a night of full sleep in my bed. These days it's really comfortable.

This^.

Perfect.

Now, it also depends on the energy and vibes she's been giving you, leading up to that point.

If you make a statement like that, you have to be a good judger of body language and situational awareness, particularly in work environments.

I'm gonna make a thread sharing some of my bolder workplace actions, inspired by this one .

 

[jhonny9546]

If you make a statement like that, you have to be a good judger of body language and situational awareness, particularly in work environments.

Nice point!

Leave married women alone, how about that one?

I will still play with them for fun! You should do it with anyone. Even the president of your nation