Woggle! Forget her! Those are just more excuses being thrown at you! She just can't say NO. That's why she stalls and flakes on you. We know that about her already!
This is a continuation of the same old method of hers. Can't say no, so she says "I do want to catch up!", making it sound like a YES. Because you don't hear NO, you think it's a YES. "Catch up"? Why doesn't she say when and where?
Not ONE of the reasons she gives precludes any person from taking the 30 seconds it takes to return an email courteously within a day. Not one of those excuses she gives precludes a person from giving one lousy hour out to meet up over a drink.
Switch the roles around... if you were tied up with life's toils, but there was someone you really wanted to meet up with, what would you do? Would you stop and think and figure just how to carve the time to meet up even if it's just for a little bit? Would you advance a couple of ideas on how and where to work this? You would, wouldn't you? You wouldn't just say, "hey, but I DO want to meet up with you... see ya around!!!" Would you?
But you're not listening to reality. You're bumping your head against it.You want to know how to make it happen in your dream.
So you keep on asking what to do. You should just move on. But I think you're just going to have to prove it to yourself: Say "Okay! I'll call you next week!" and then call her next week and suffer another wave of unreturned calls. Call her and leave a dozen messages telling her you'll meet her at Such and Such place on So and So day, and then go there and wait for her as she never shows up. Then repeat that a few more times until you've finally had it. When your head finally's aching from bumping it so much.
This is a continuation of the same old method of hers. Can't say no, so she says "I do want to catch up!", making it sound like a YES. Because you don't hear NO, you think it's a YES. "Catch up"? Why doesn't she say when and where?
Not ONE of the reasons she gives precludes any person from taking the 30 seconds it takes to return an email courteously within a day. Not one of those excuses she gives precludes a person from giving one lousy hour out to meet up over a drink.
Switch the roles around... if you were tied up with life's toils, but there was someone you really wanted to meet up with, what would you do? Would you stop and think and figure just how to carve the time to meet up even if it's just for a little bit? Would you advance a couple of ideas on how and where to work this? You would, wouldn't you? You wouldn't just say, "hey, but I DO want to meet up with you... see ya around!!!" Would you?
But you're not listening to reality. You're bumping your head against it.You want to know how to make it happen in your dream.
So you keep on asking what to do. You should just move on. But I think you're just going to have to prove it to yourself: Say "Okay! I'll call you next week!" and then call her next week and suffer another wave of unreturned calls. Call her and leave a dozen messages telling her you'll meet her at Such and Such place on So and So day, and then go there and wait for her as she never shows up. Then repeat that a few more times until you've finally had it. When your head finally's aching from bumping it so much.
