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"Okay but let me give you the honest truth here, a significant percentage (might be well over 50% right now) of women in America are partnered up/hooked up with men who are not in any type of leadership role. A lot of women are making more money than their guy, have more connections, more education, etc., to where a lot of the decisions within the relationship itself have become 60/40, 70/30, or 80/20 in FAVOR of the woman, where SHE is the one "leading" the household in terms of vision, decision-making, etc. Again, this isn't my opinion, all you have to do is look up various studies that are conducted on this changing cultural dynamic."
"You are correct in that any person in a leadership role needs to be qualified for it, but we are no longer in 1950 and a significant percentage of women in America (I would say maybe the majority at this point) are NOT looking for a patriarchal structure where a man "leads" them so they can submit to his leadership."
I'd like to point out here that "being the man" in a relationship should not have that much to do with how much you make as opposed to her income. If it does, you're in a relationship where the woman is hanging with these type of people who are also like that, and your days as a marriage are numbered. (experience talking here.)
You want a woman that does not hang out with, or necessarily "buy into" this mindset. One can lead a home as the man by example without being the breadwinner, but the difference is the woman you choose. And who her friends are/what her family is like.