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- Has a life full of drama
- Portrays herself as a victim
- Everything is always someone else's fault
- Bad relationship with her father
- Toxic degree of wokeness
- Ex was a porn star
- Doesn't get along with your mother
- Her name is Meghan
 
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Green Flags

- Suggests to pay because you paid the last round
- Shows interest in your life and hobbies
- Doesn't create drama when you have other things planned and can't hang out
- Puts her phone down when she is with you (= even the good ones have problems with this)
- Doesn't leave you on read to gauge your reaction
- is happy with her life and laughs a lot

trying to keep things positive here :)
 

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Green Flags

- Suggests to pay because you paid the last round
- Shows interest in your life and hobbies
- Doesn't create drama when you have other things planned and can't hang out
- Puts her phone down when she is with you (= even the good ones have problems with this)
- Doesn't leave you on read to gauge your reaction
- is happy with her life and laughs a lot

trying to keep things positive here :)
I agree, but in 2021 people only put their phone down when they stop breathing.
 

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Shows interest in your life and hobbies
Ive been out with a quite a few over the last 3 months, and ive noticed they asked Nothing about me...(or very little)

they even messaged me to arrange a 3rd meet, and still asked very little,.

Is Social media poisoning them? Solipsism
 

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- Has a life full of drama
- Portrays herself as a victim
- Everything is always someone else's fault
- Bad relationship with her father
- Toxic degree of wokeness
- Ex was a porn star
- Doesn't get along with your mother
- Her name is Meghan
Where to start, huh?
  • Bashes on her ex or even worse every ex
  • Takes initiative sometimes
  • She is rude to waiters/waitresses or any person for that matter
  • Not willing to have an open and respectful discussion about sensitive subjects
  • Among many, many, many other (some stated here, some soon to be mentioned)

Modern Man Advice
 

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I've got a few.
  • Love bombing
  • Desperate, clingy behavior
  • Emotional trauma
  • Bald - Creates extreme insecurity, depression
  • Making bad decisions then playing the victim - Rebounding
  • Cannot communicate face to face, prefers to hide behind essay texts
  • Phone addict - Facebook addict
  • Blabbermouth - Blabs all your couple problems to friends and family behind your back
  • Talking to other guys behind your back
  • Liar - Gas lighter
  • Jealousy - I'm not talking a little which is healthy
  • Lacks empathy
  • Lives in a pigsty - very messy house
  • No money, no resources
  • Owns horses
  • Mixed messages - Hot and cold
 
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is a Leo, Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo, or Scorpio
is on a dating app and has lived in said city for more than a year and a half
Feminist/SJW
Maintains contact with exes
owns horses
has read receipts
 

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Not willing to have an open and respectful discussion about sensitive subjects
This is a bigger red flag then you would think, it basically means she ia very stubborn and set in her ways.

Another big red flag is, they hide their last seen on messaging apps like whatsapp. It means she has a habit of ghosting or flaking on people
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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