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red flag?

Fruitbat

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Having a little OLD discussion with a woman who shows good ioi, but seems to log in (I can see when she's online) once every 3 days, message me, then go offline for 3 days.

I'm playing cool. Do I call out...just give my number and tell her to call? I do really like this one, not more than a 6/7 but she's unconventional, and petite. Not hot for every guy but pretty much bang on my wish list.

Is this poss AWing? Perhaps she's being unavailable for a reason?

she might not have easy access to web....but if I call her out after 4 messages on why she isn't around it will come off needy.

I've had aw do this kind of thing, but they are usually on frequently gaming as many men as poss and just message back one line to keep you hooked. This chick seems to only message me and perhaps one other. I get long, detailed messages with questions but she then disappears.

Anyone have any ideas or experience here?
 

Fruitbat

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Lol I got binned! She's been online all day and nothing.

Why is it that the ones I like do this, and the ones I like less are all over it.

Granted, she was hotter than the one that badly wants me. I guess that's it, there isn't much I said/did differently.

Annoyingly, as soon as one girl shows big interest (I have one who won't leave me alone. Bangable but not as good as I've had) I immediately start pining over the hotter girls with lower interest in me?

Men and women are very alike if you ask me, I behave exactly the way they do, but curse them when I'm on the receiving end.

I hate this chick for binning me and chatting to other dudes. I rage at these men for having more power in this chicks mind. I curse myself for my weaknesses.

Yet, at the same time I'm showing low ioi to a chick who is bangable and full on into me. Plus I cancelled on a chick last minute last week.

I'm thinking much of game is the same for men and women.
 

Yewki

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The red flag here is you're way too thirsty for her attention. You're keeping track of when she logs in and out, and now getting frustrated because she's been on all day and hasn't contacted you. Come on dude.

Fruitbat said:
Having a little OLD discussion with a woman who shows good ioi... Do I call out...just give my number and tell her to call?
Stop trying to have conversations, it tells her your time is of little value and you're boring. You need to try to escalate to a meetup within the first few messages. Act like your time is important. One of the reasons she may have stopped contacting you is you failed to do this already.
 
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