jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Let’s analyze a situation together. I know of a relationship involving an acquaintance of mine who has been with a girl for six years, and there is a pattern that always repeats itself. What is his name? Is it possible to identify it and understand why it works?
The Pattern
Two Weeks of Harmony: For two weeks, they are fine—low drama and thriving.
One Week of Turmoil: For one week, they (90% she) put everything on the line. She becomes bitter and wants to leave him, resulting in high drama that is often unmanageable. During this time, she might engage in behaviors such as going back to her parents' house or telling him that he is not the man in her life.
Cycle Repeats: After this tumultuous week, the cycle starts again. She seeks to make peace with him, he is initially a bit cold, but eventually, he takes her back, and the pattern repeats.
What are these types of relationships called, and why does the pattern work to keep them together?
What's here the underlying scheme?
The Pattern
Two Weeks of Harmony: For two weeks, they are fine—low drama and thriving.
One Week of Turmoil: For one week, they (90% she) put everything on the line. She becomes bitter and wants to leave him, resulting in high drama that is often unmanageable. During this time, she might engage in behaviors such as going back to her parents' house or telling him that he is not the man in her life.
Cycle Repeats: After this tumultuous week, the cycle starts again. She seeks to make peace with him, he is initially a bit cold, but eventually, he takes her back, and the pattern repeats.
What are these types of relationships called, and why does the pattern work to keep them together?
What's here the underlying scheme?
