BigIzz
New Member
Hello everyone! I would like to introduce myself. I am a recovering AFC for 5 days now. Please allow to explain how I got here and the incredible changes that have happened recently.
Like most of you I was an AFC. I mean really, really out there. Shy, cluless how to deal with women, one-itis; I had it all. I was basically fixated on one girl from age 13 to 23. I should have realized that after 3 years when I finally got up the nerve to ask her out and she said no (and made up some lame excuse) that it was time to move on. Instead, I cried for a few days and kept at it for the next 7 or so years.
Anyway, to make a (very) long story short, I was online the other day looking for tips on how to land women. What I discovered was the DJ Bible. This must have been what Columbus felt like when he discovered America by accident. I have seen the error of my past ways and am doing everything in my power to correct it. Some of the articles and views expressed (i.e. Pook, Anti-Dump) have really changed my life. People at work can't believe how happy and confident I am. Not to mention I am now over my one-itits. Completely and permanently I believe. All this change after just 5 days, I can only imagine how much I can improve over the next few weeks, months and even years.
Tonight I put my past life behind me and started the gift that is my second life. I called the girl I was infatuated with and did what may have been the hardest thing I've ever had to tell anyone. I told her directly that I have changed, I want to try and remian friends with her but I will no longer be her slave and that I was in love with her for many years until very recently but now I am over her. She seemed suprised and told me she never realized, I suggsted we try not to dwell on it as I am no longer going to worry about the past and let rejection bother me. Let me tell you, it feels like the weight of the world has been lifted off of my shoulders now.
Anyway, I appreciate you reading this. I just felt I needed to tell someone and I don't think anyone I know would really understand. I plan to stick with the program and I hope you all will accept me into your community. Thanks.
Like most of you I was an AFC. I mean really, really out there. Shy, cluless how to deal with women, one-itis; I had it all. I was basically fixated on one girl from age 13 to 23. I should have realized that after 3 years when I finally got up the nerve to ask her out and she said no (and made up some lame excuse) that it was time to move on. Instead, I cried for a few days and kept at it for the next 7 or so years.
Anyway, to make a (very) long story short, I was online the other day looking for tips on how to land women. What I discovered was the DJ Bible. This must have been what Columbus felt like when he discovered America by accident. I have seen the error of my past ways and am doing everything in my power to correct it. Some of the articles and views expressed (i.e. Pook, Anti-Dump) have really changed my life. People at work can't believe how happy and confident I am. Not to mention I am now over my one-itits. Completely and permanently I believe. All this change after just 5 days, I can only imagine how much I can improve over the next few weeks, months and even years.
Tonight I put my past life behind me and started the gift that is my second life. I called the girl I was infatuated with and did what may have been the hardest thing I've ever had to tell anyone. I told her directly that I have changed, I want to try and remian friends with her but I will no longer be her slave and that I was in love with her for many years until very recently but now I am over her. She seemed suprised and told me she never realized, I suggsted we try not to dwell on it as I am no longer going to worry about the past and let rejection bother me. Let me tell you, it feels like the weight of the world has been lifted off of my shoulders now.
Anyway, I appreciate you reading this. I just felt I needed to tell someone and I don't think anyone I know would really understand. I plan to stick with the program and I hope you all will accept me into your community. Thanks.
