Heya (sorry long post... long story... damn life)
When I broke up with my ex in june last year the first thing I did was to get drunk, badly...
Anyway, I'm usually not the type of guy that buys drink to woman but when I'm wasted it comes by itself... So there's that really good looking girl with her friend, of course I asked the barmaid to pay her a drink, and her friend too so she doesn't feel left out.
(by the way this is a little background of the story)
So we chat alot over night and she tells me she has a boyfriend, which is fine right there because a girlfriend is the only thing I wanted. For some reason in our modern world (or in my drunken state of the oh my god it's 5am and I work at 7am I have her my e-mail address so she could add me to msn --- This might sound geek, but I've had bad experiences in the past while giving my # to strangers.
SO she added me the next day and we kept on talking at least 3-4 nights a week and going out a few times.
Until last thursday... that last thursday I checked on msn to see if someone wanted to go out and have a beer, she was the only online person so I started chatting and she told me she was going out tonight (which was weird cause she didn't go out in over 2 months) and then she told me her boyfriend broke up with her. She's 19 (by the way) and I'm 21. That was her first serious boyfriend, on my side, I can't say I had alot of relationship, 3 ofthem that all lasted over 2 years. Anyway she looked pretty sad so I decided that I would try to make her make her happy.
So we go out and bah we are with her friends at the bar and at the end of the night when the "slow" starts one of her friend "match" us togheter and we danced 3 slows, the first minute was kinda ackward but as the songs played she got alot more closer to me. Anyway the songs ended and I went home as I was working the next morning.
On friday, I asked her what she was doing and she was, once again going to the bar, as I was going there anyway I told her I'd meet her there later on. She got pretty messed up that night, and well the more she drinked the closer she got to me, hell, when the "slow" started again she jumped on me like I knew her all my life). Well we went to the restaurant after and well nothing happened !
On Saturday I once again asked her what she was doing and she planned on going to the bar with some friends, as I'm a not life I was, once again, going there anyway so I meet her there and she tells me that her friends didn't show up and she came alone (ahhh! got lucky I was there!)
Anyway we danced the whole night and at the end I asked her to dance (we're not sober but not drunk either) and she said "Ok, if you want to ---- which is my mind really sounds like a bad thing..!)
We danced one again all those songs (note that we've been alone the whole night) and I took her out to eat something after and ONCE AGAIN nothing happended.
On sunday (yesterday!!) I was going out with friends and she was going to the movie theater so I told her to come to that bar after as it's accross the street anyway, I really though she would't come but hey, surprise she showed up, we chatted a little (less than usual, as I was with a few friends I hadn'T seen in a while). and at the end of the night we both went separate ways.
SOOO that takes us to today.
She just broke up, and I think she's still a little in love with her... 2 of her friends told me her boyfriend is a complete idiot so did her cousin, one of her friend also told me she was attracted to me but that might be bs.
She likes hockey (hey I'm canadian), her favorite meal is the same as mine, she drinks beer, etc.
She so cute, intelligent and I like her personality soooo I want this to work. But am I running in something dangerous? One of my friend told me girls often use the first guuy they meet as a "lifesaver" from their recent brokeup and well they use him until they feel better...
I don't want to be that, how can I find out more about that relationship? I don't want to push her, I'm not on a rush and if it takes 3 months it takes 3 months, but I don'T want in 3 months to ask her out and the answer is, I can't I'm goin with my new boyfriend.
I dunno if all this make sense or if anyone is going to read trough all of it... but my feelings for this girl are kinda strong at the moment and I'd like to be with her really bad... I felt so confortable with her when we danced, like I knew her forever.
P.S. : Forgive the english, my main language is french.
Thanks for the replies...!
Jason
When I broke up with my ex in june last year the first thing I did was to get drunk, badly...
Anyway, I'm usually not the type of guy that buys drink to woman but when I'm wasted it comes by itself... So there's that really good looking girl with her friend, of course I asked the barmaid to pay her a drink, and her friend too so she doesn't feel left out.
(by the way this is a little background of the story)
So we chat alot over night and she tells me she has a boyfriend, which is fine right there because a girlfriend is the only thing I wanted. For some reason in our modern world (or in my drunken state of the oh my god it's 5am and I work at 7am I have her my e-mail address so she could add me to msn --- This might sound geek, but I've had bad experiences in the past while giving my # to strangers.
SO she added me the next day and we kept on talking at least 3-4 nights a week and going out a few times.
Until last thursday... that last thursday I checked on msn to see if someone wanted to go out and have a beer, she was the only online person so I started chatting and she told me she was going out tonight (which was weird cause she didn't go out in over 2 months) and then she told me her boyfriend broke up with her. She's 19 (by the way) and I'm 21. That was her first serious boyfriend, on my side, I can't say I had alot of relationship, 3 ofthem that all lasted over 2 years. Anyway she looked pretty sad so I decided that I would try to make her make her happy.
So we go out and bah we are with her friends at the bar and at the end of the night when the "slow" starts one of her friend "match" us togheter and we danced 3 slows, the first minute was kinda ackward but as the songs played she got alot more closer to me. Anyway the songs ended and I went home as I was working the next morning.
On friday, I asked her what she was doing and she was, once again going to the bar, as I was going there anyway I told her I'd meet her there later on. She got pretty messed up that night, and well the more she drinked the closer she got to me, hell, when the "slow" started again she jumped on me like I knew her all my life). Well we went to the restaurant after and well nothing happened !
On Saturday I once again asked her what she was doing and she planned on going to the bar with some friends, as I'm a not life I was, once again, going there anyway so I meet her there and she tells me that her friends didn't show up and she came alone (ahhh! got lucky I was there!)
Anyway we danced the whole night and at the end I asked her to dance (we're not sober but not drunk either) and she said "Ok, if you want to ---- which is my mind really sounds like a bad thing..!)
We danced one again all those songs (note that we've been alone the whole night) and I took her out to eat something after and ONCE AGAIN nothing happended.
On sunday (yesterday!!) I was going out with friends and she was going to the movie theater so I told her to come to that bar after as it's accross the street anyway, I really though she would't come but hey, surprise she showed up, we chatted a little (less than usual, as I was with a few friends I hadn'T seen in a while). and at the end of the night we both went separate ways.
SOOO that takes us to today.
She just broke up, and I think she's still a little in love with her... 2 of her friends told me her boyfriend is a complete idiot so did her cousin, one of her friend also told me she was attracted to me but that might be bs.
She likes hockey (hey I'm canadian), her favorite meal is the same as mine, she drinks beer, etc.
She so cute, intelligent and I like her personality soooo I want this to work. But am I running in something dangerous? One of my friend told me girls often use the first guuy they meet as a "lifesaver" from their recent brokeup and well they use him until they feel better...
I don't want to be that, how can I find out more about that relationship? I don't want to push her, I'm not on a rush and if it takes 3 months it takes 3 months, but I don'T want in 3 months to ask her out and the answer is, I can't I'm goin with my new boyfriend.
I dunno if all this make sense or if anyone is going to read trough all of it... but my feelings for this girl are kinda strong at the moment and I'd like to be with her really bad... I felt so confortable with her when we danced, like I knew her forever.
P.S. : Forgive the english, my main language is french.
Thanks for the replies...!
Jason
