recen study: women talk three times as much as men

librito

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Im not surprise by this finding... what I dont understand then is why arent women the leaders of this world if they coumunicate so much during their lifespan.
I believe is true that they talk much more than men but most of their comunication is about worthless and stupid gossip.... am I the only one who believes this?

this is the link to the story...



http://wcbstv.com/topstories/local_story_332164708.html
 

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Yo Troops,


I think that the reason why women are not the leaders of the world is because they are not as DIRECTLY controlling as most men. Many would rather be the ones manipultating and accessing the power behind the throne than to be there sitting publicly on top of it. Remember, that way, if anything goes WRONG, they can still maintain their "it's not MY fault" mantra.

And furthermore, when some women talk a lot, they are not necessarily communicating. What they are really doing is verbally consuming and regurgitating thoughts generated by their emotions.

So when their inner storms of emotion has subsided (SEE---when they have chewed the last amount of "feelings" flavor out of the conversation), they simply let the supject drop---because they have then lost interest in what they were talking about in the first place. Which, by the way, is why many (not all) women have no interest in maintaining the kind of focus that it would take to be the "leaders of the world", as has been said.

So contrary to popular opinion, most women ARE NOT born great communicaters. That's just a myth propagated by a pro-feminism mindset that has spun out of control.

When in reality, the truth about a lot of women is that they just like to talk a lot. To communicate is to share ideas and concepts in an effort to create a unified understanding. And once that understanding is arrived at, the two parties can then intelligently choose to agree or disagree.

But this is not the purpose of all conversations I've personally had with women. Many times, their verbalizing is either a declaration or an interrogation---which I often find off-putting.

This is not to say ALL women are like this, this is just my experience of the ones I've met in general, whether it's family, friends, or lovers.

If women really cornered the market on communication they would make their thoughts clearer to us. But they don't. And yes, they are ABLE to do this. But only when they WANT to. But it's usually only when it suits them, or they come out ahead by doing so---like at work, in a crisis, or in a relationship where their interest level is HIGH but they know the guy's interest level is not.

So the next time a woman you're involved with says these infamous words to you "We need to talk" .... BEWARE Troops...

Know that 9 times out of 10 that what she's REALLY saying is

"I need for you to stop doing whatever it is you're doing right NOW and tell me EVERYTHING that you're thinking. And while I listen and plot my strategy against you, I in return will tell YOU nothing. That way I can either maintain, or assume the power position over YOU in our relationship."

And thus ends the VICTORY UNLIMITED rant for today. I promise to be in a better, less confrontational mood by tomorrow.

Thanks for listening...




Peace...one day.
 

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Nice one Victory. There is only one sure method to shut up any woman. You simply ask them to describe their sexual fantasies.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've always thought this to be because men are more goal/career oriented than women are. It's just the old role of men being hunters vs. women being cave-dwellers... they've got lots of time to kill by talking. When a guy is a teenager, he is (partially) thinking about what job will pay the best. When he has graduated high school, he focuses more on his career. Girls don't think like that nearly as much. They latch onto their boyfriends and kill time with their girl friends... Us guys do the same, but not as much - most of our day is wasted with getting ahead in our work. If a girl does have a job, she doesn't think about getting ahead in her work - she just works to pay the bills. And she gets less caught up in other hobbies (if she has them) as well.
 
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