Receiving 25 strong punches a day from my girl

[thekhris]

Guys need your help and insights about this and how to handle it, My girl is always giving me strong punches every day, whenever were playing and cuddling she always punches me, kick me and its very serious trust and it hurts, thats also the scenarion when she is angry, she will knock my head kick me, punch in my face like if im some kind of stuff toy or robotic super human individual who dosen feel any pain.

At first of course im not taking it seriously since were just playing whenever she does that and when were having a fight and she repeatedly hitting me I just dont mind that since Im a man and probably its the perception for her what normal man is which tolerable to pain.

But were more than 3 years and I think im getting tired to take the kickasses she is doing and also In my opinion I think she is loosing her respect I dont know if its because im tolerating her thats why she loosing her respect for me or she is hitting me because she dont respect me.

Of course I know I cant hit her back, but im afraid that there might come a time that i will reach the limit of my patience and end up hitting a girl. Im trying to tell her as serious as possible that I dont want the habit to continue but she is not taking it seriously and dont listen. So what do you think should i do, how would i handle it.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

You need to make your boundaries clear. Tell her she needs to stop doing that, and every time she starts doing it again, stop the cuddling and leave the room. It's going to be a lot harder since you've let her get away with it for so long, but it's what you have to do. If that doesn't work, I'd advise you to break up with her and find someone else who's less violent.

 

[pipe007]

easy:
next time she tries to hit you, you grab her hand hard and look at her INTENSELY in her eyes, like solid hard into them and tell her

DO NOT EVER do that again, not even as a joke. try that one more time and I'll be out of here."

and MEAN IT!!!
if she goes again and does it again, you walk away!!! and dont contact her until she apologizes and changes her behavior.
other than that you pretty much walk away and break up.

what's so hard about this???
its either you get this or not.

 

[Zunder]

Yes - you can hit her back.

 

[Black Dog]

FXXXING TROLLS BRAH....just goes to show that Sosuave is that popular, right? That's why it gets so much attention

 

[TheManOfSteel]

This thread reminds me of that episode of Friends where Joey's girlfriend hits him: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xS0gTlLwYms

 

[f283000]

When a girl punches you in the arm as a response to a neg hit/C&F it's usually a sign that you are making her vag tingle and that she likes it!

HOWEVER, if a woman is giving you 25 strong punches a day that's not a reply to c&f or a neg hit. That right there to me looks like a red flag as she is showing some bent up anger that she is taking out on you.

I would bet that it could have to do with something from her past, maybe a family related issue. She definitely has some issues you may or may not know about.

 

[Strelok]

1) Troll

2) Happened something similar to me except that she did it only once, she was asking to be slapped and mistreated, some girl simply like it caveman style.

Give her what she wants, you're gonna enjoy it too.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Knock her the f*ck out dude. She won't do the same thing again in a hurry.

 

[perseverance]

Yes - you can hit her back.

Yep, right on the button (the nose). One punch on her nose and she'll learn a bit of respect. What she is doing is abusing you and that's unacceptable. Never let the feminist agenda of the world shame you into defending yourself. My take on this scenario is simple: If she is good enough to dish out a beating, she is good enough to receive a beating or if you want to be very shrewd, next time go straight to the Police and have her done for assault.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I had this issue once and stopped it pretty quick by just keeping a close eye on her when I felt she was about to hit me. Then at almost the same time she would raise her hand id lob a lazy backhand to her cheek area. So even before she felt any gratification for popping me she was feeling my hand on her face. When you do it quick like that it makes the other person feel really stupid.

 

[Yo'Mama]

I had this issue once and stopped it pretty quick by just keeping a close eye on her when I felt she was about to hit me. Then at almost the same time she would raise her hand id lob a lazy backhand to her cheek area. So even before she felt any gratification for popping me she was feeling my hand on her face. When you do it quick like that it makes the other person feel really stupid.

Absolute legend.